Waleedbt
November 21st, 2013, 07:18 PM
So i met this girl at my college 9 months ago.
Weve been close friend the first 5 months, i liked her, never said it but i still hang out with her everywhere!
Asked her out so many times and she would always be happy and up for it, BUT! Always get something up at the last minute and NEVER says untill i ask her.
Ive went out for dinner one time with her, its was an amazing day... But she never thought of it as a date. ( oh well )
Between our breaks she makes me promis to take her out but she would forget.
In the last 3 months ( our semester ) we've been growing apart, im not the one who is doing it , she is. She stays at a friend place when weekend starts and never knows i even exist.
Last time we talked she ended up needing something, and wanted to get it through lunch so i would be like " yay! " but lol she stood me up for something stupid that she didnt even end up going or doing it. So i said sure we can go some other and then she was like " yeah , i need fresh air and i miss u " so she suggested some other time and i said i cant.
Anyway.... Now she wants lunch and im realy tired of being someone who is ther jst when she feels like it!
I didnt reply to her question , this was on the 15th nov, so that was the last time we talked, now that i dint reply.. Its killing me! I feel so baaad! And well.... Im changing schools this january and im moving to a different city on the 7th december. She has no idea.
I honestly miss her, but i feel like an a-hole.
Was ignoring her the right thing? Should i feel bad?
Weve been close friend the first 5 months, i liked her, never said it but i still hang out with her everywhere!
Asked her out so many times and she would always be happy and up for it, BUT! Always get something up at the last minute and NEVER says untill i ask her.
Ive went out for dinner one time with her, its was an amazing day... But she never thought of it as a date. ( oh well )
Between our breaks she makes me promis to take her out but she would forget.
In the last 3 months ( our semester ) we've been growing apart, im not the one who is doing it , she is. She stays at a friend place when weekend starts and never knows i even exist.
Last time we talked she ended up needing something, and wanted to get it through lunch so i would be like " yay! " but lol she stood me up for something stupid that she didnt even end up going or doing it. So i said sure we can go some other and then she was like " yeah , i need fresh air and i miss u " so she suggested some other time and i said i cant.
Anyway.... Now she wants lunch and im realy tired of being someone who is ther jst when she feels like it!
I didnt reply to her question , this was on the 15th nov, so that was the last time we talked, now that i dint reply.. Its killing me! I feel so baaad! And well.... Im changing schools this january and im moving to a different city on the 7th december. She has no idea.
I honestly miss her, but i feel like an a-hole.
Was ignoring her the right thing? Should i feel bad?