Talking to girls - Got Aspergers

[blackscorpion]

Hey,

I've got aspergers syndrome (I'm assuming you know what it is; if not, just google it). I find it hard to socialise, and even harder to speak to girls. I've only ever had one girlfriend, so yeah. Any advice?

Connor x

[drake90001]

My best friend actually has aspergers. For him, he just acts as himself, and I think that's really the best way. Just spark up a conversation about something you have in common. What setting are you in that you want to talk to them? Public? School? Workplace?

[blackscorpion]

It's in school here in the UK ;)

[drake90001]

That's a bit easier then. You could just find an excuse to talk, like "hey, what was the homework" or if she isn't in your class just ask if you have the same teachers. The easiest way is to just be casual about it and act confident.

[blackscorpion]

Thank you! :)