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earl_hun
November 21st, 2013, 03:13 PM
Hey all!
I don't know how to start it...
A few of my classmates started picking on me, only by the looks...
I didn't gave a f*ck, until today... They started the humiliation, but only they're laughing... I hate them, because I did nothing... And they aren't bullies, or etc., just a few "Outcasts"...
What should I do? One of them will switch school in January, but the 2-3 other will stay there...
What should I do? Thanks :)
HeyMrsTambourine
November 22nd, 2013, 06:09 PM
I think you should ignore them and be strong. It's the only way to make them bored of bullying.
Yet don't let yourself be pushed around if they assault or threaten you : it's for you to decide how much their behaviour is acceptable.
But please before acting, think the way you want to act over, don't react under compulsion : that would be the best way to show them you're affected.
earl_hun
November 22nd, 2013, 06:31 PM
Thanks for advice! I'm trying to keep my strength! :-)
HeyMrsTambourine
November 23rd, 2013, 04:52 AM
No prob, good luck :)
ksdnfkfr
November 23rd, 2013, 05:35 AM
The advice HeyMrsTambourine gave is probably
all one can do in this situation unfortunately.
"Grin and bare it" as my mom says. But it
is not easy. And sometimes eventually you have
to stand up for yourself.
I did that recently after a lot of poking from someone.
And I really ripped his head off good verbally too.
But I also felt bad afterwards because I do not like
confrontation.
HeyMrsTambourine
November 23rd, 2013, 05:20 PM
I totally understand :/
It's the worst feeling ever when you just retorted to someone who harasses you, and that's not in your nature...
mrpieface2
November 23rd, 2013, 05:33 PM
Ignore them! Who cares what they have to say? You shouldn't!
Brice
November 23rd, 2013, 05:59 PM
Just ignore them. You didn't care before, so why start now? But don't hold the emotion in, if you can't ststop caring. Find a way to let it out in a good way. Singing, writing, reading, etc. That always helped when I used to get bullied.
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