Weird Sexuality

[Tony X]

Okay guys hear me out...

I know that i'm part gay because I'm attracted to guys. However, I don't see myself EVER as a gay man going out with other gay man. But, I also am attracted to girls (i'm crushing on this girl i have been perspiring when i try to talk to her) -she's so hot and adorable-. but at the same time i'm not that attracted to vagina as i am to penis. (i love breasts).

So in a way i'm BI. but i'm not very interested in vaginas?

any of you feel this way or would like you care in?

[Mob Boss]

I'm thinking at this stage, with this confusion, labels are essentially useless. I just recently labeled myself, and at 19 I'm still unsure of what I truly am. I'm going to venture out on a limb here and instead of giving you a definite label, that neither I nor anyone else besides yourself can truly give, I'm going to give you the advice to just roll with it. You might very well be bi, gay, a chocolate unicorn with sprinkles. I think ultimately, however, if you're happy those things are useless and restraining. I understand you want to figure out who you are, but right now just go with your gut. it sounds as you're slightly attracted to both sexes.

[Living For Love]

I'm pretty much like you. Thinking in a vagina, for me, it's just kinda like... weird, but it's different when in come to a penis. On the other hand, I don't see myself having sexual intercourse with a gay guy.

But I don't care if I'm bisexual, gay or straight, it's just not something that really worries me at the moment.

[Name1ess]

Dude you are what you are and you will understand what you are when it comes. It seems you pretty much already know. You may not have a label, but labels are rather useless in most cases. Don't worRy about being weird. There are certainly more like you and being weird can be a very good thing. Either way you can't control it. Just go with what you feel and be happy. :)

[Wyatt 13]

I feel the same but Im very curious about the girl stuff down there. I consider myself BI but never done anything with both.

[Beltway]

Okay guys hear me out...

I know that i'm part gay because I'm attracted to guys. However, I don't see myself EVER as a gay man going out with other gay man. But, I also am attracted to girls (i'm crushing on this girl i have been perspiring when i try to talk to her) -she's so hot and adorable-. but at the same time i'm not that attracted to vagina as i am to penis. (i love breasts).

So in a way i'm BI. but i'm not very interested in vaginas?

any of you feel this way or would like you care in?
I'm in the same situation feel more attracted to a penis than a vagina idk starting to accept that im bi and not curious.:)

[Hermes]

The labels really are a simplification. Real sexuality is often more complex. The labels are really overrated too because at the end of it there is only one thing that matters - if you take a partner that satisfies you emotionally and sexually who will it be. If that person is a girl welcome to the easier, more common and conventional path and if it is a guy welcome to the alternate path.

I would certainly not get too concerned about being stimualted, or not, by various private parts. I am pretty sure the extent to which we are excited by them is conditioned rather than instinctive anyway. In some cultures breasts are sexual and in some they are not. Like you I don't find a vulva as exciting visually as a penis but feeling my penis slip into a vagina is definitely exciting. I also find that intimacy short of, or prior to, sex with a girl feels right and gets me horny. Jacking with a guy or jacking each other can also be fun but it is not on the same level as sex with a girl and I am not turned on by the idea of doing anything more than that with a guy - no exchanging blow jobs or anal sex.

Hope that helps.