Flirting Behind Their Back?

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

The topic came up in a conversation with a friend about flirting with people other than your boyfriend/girlfriend. I wondered what most people think about this. Is flirting not an option once you're in a relationship? Is it ok in certain circumstances? Is it no big deal? I wanna know what people think.

[Axellance]

well... for me it depends is this gonna lead somewhere. Are they flirting in excesss. It just depends. I would not do it though.

[japanman]

i think its ok if its under control like mabye a drink with some one as a flirt would be fine but if you got out of control and slept with the person that would bad but still flirting is a human emotion that sometimes comes naturally so thats a tuff one to answer.

[NextToNormal]

flirting is OK. its not like flirting is the same as sex. as long as your bf/gf has no problems with it, it should be fine

[japanman]

flirting is OK. its not like flirting is the same as sex. as long as your bf/gf has no problems with it, it should be fine

thats ture lol me and my best friend always make sure that we are both ok with one of us goin out or flirting with some one that was back in like 5th grade we still remember it lol

[Gavin]

Well i think if you're going out with someone in a relationship then your eyes should be 100% focused on that person who you're going out with,and you should not be flirting with us as that causes problems in the relationship and your bf/gf could find out that you have been flirting with someone else.

Aslo that flirting could lead up to a kiss or such,and what if one does get caught.

[Maverick]

Honestly while in a relationship I couldn't imagine flirting with anyone else so purposely and intentionally. Don't get me wrong I know other people might flirt with the person and well there's nothing wrong with that - it happens and there's nothing you can do about it but brush it off.But chosing to flirt with other people or to do it back is wrong in my opinion. Not that its something that serious but its the principle of doing it. It just makes me thing who are you with again and if you have no problem with doing that what else would you might do?

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I say Its NEVER ok. They are with you, you are in love, there is NO NEED to flirt with others.