My Dad, curious?

[Sexiijimmie]

Ok so I noticed the past couple of days that my dad is trying to see my dick.

True story, we were at a public shower place, and I was having trouble with the faucet turning on, so I told him (He was in the shower stall next to me) so he gets out of his stall and tries to get into mine, but I refuse to let him in.

Next, I had on really loose boxers the other night, and was looking for my phone. I called it and it was in the back of the sofa, me and him were the only ones up, and so I kind of had to stradle the chair to get to it, and it probly made my dick flop around, but when I came back up, I looked at him and he was starring at my boxers as if waiting for it to come out or trying to see something.

Also, we were in a public bathroom, and he stripped naked to change, but I was not comfortable, but he kept urging me to get naked.

I know he's trying to see my dick, and I don't know if it's just dad curiosity or what, but I just wondered if this is normal with dads to want to see how their sons are maturing, or if its a fantasy I should know about.

[Atonement]

I would take it as a curiousity of how you are developing. but you never know i guess... but I do not know the situation as well as you. try to ask him about it if you are that worried about it... or maybe not him. Talk to someone else in your life maybe.

[Maverick]

I think you're just being paranoid. In situation 1. You were obviously having trouble so he tried to help. There really wasn't any harm in that. The only thing that stopped him was your insecurity.

I understand that you don't feel comfortable being naked around your dad, but I think you're letting your insecurity put all paranoid thoughts in your head and you're just jumping to conclusions.

If you're going to public showers and bathrooms with your dad then that's just the oppurtunity for nudity to happen. If you get over it then you can just realize it was nothing to fret about.

[byee]

I think you might be a little over sensitive here, maybe because you're so curious yourself?

Unless your dad has really been obviously inappropriate with you in the past, all of the examples you've cited could easily be understood as quite innocent. People who ask for help with a shower have to expect them to enter the shower to fix it! If your dad was 'guilty' of anything here, it's not being aware that you might be modest about being naked in front of him.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

IAMSAM and Ant are right, I think you are misinterpreting the situation here. Calm down man, there is nothing wierd going on here.

[Sugaree]

Yeah I think it's just all in your head. He's just trying to help in situation 1 and 2.

In situation 3 it is a normal place for nudity to happen and you should just go with it. But if you're uncomfortable just tell him.

[Falk 'Ace' Flyer]

I'd recommend talking to your mom/ another relative about it, and have them ask him about it. It may be too awkward for you to ask him yourself, although if you don't think so, then go ahead.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Falk, if he asks him about it through anyone, it's going to be awkward from there on out, because there really is nothing to worry about. His dad just doesn't seem to be realizing that his son is growing up. Hence not understanding why his kid is uncomfortable being naked around him, like in public showers or bathrooms. I mean, when he was a little kid it was fine, he's probably wondering why it's suddenly different between them. And the father is not acting like a sexual predator, he's not making advances on this kid. I think it's just a dose of paranoia here.

[Eagle1]

IAMSAM and Ant are right, I think you are misinterpreting the situation here. Calm down man, there is nothing wierd going on here.

i concur

[Antares]

I agree. I think he is just trying to gauge how far you are. I was thinking that he was trying to gauge to see if he has to have the "talk" yet or something like that. So yeah. I don't think that its actually any of his business so if you want to make sure that you keep hiding it from him and eventually he will either flat out ask you OR he will just give up. So I think its up to you to decide what you want to do now. Good Luck!

[Camazotz]

I think you're just being paranoid. In situation 1. You were obviously having trouble so he tried to help. There really wasn't any harm in that. The only thing that stopped him was your insecurity.

I understand that you don't feel comfortable being naked around your dad, but I think you're letting your insecurity put all paranoid thoughts in your head and you're just jumping to conclusions.

If you're going to public showers and bathrooms with your dad then that's just the oppurtunity for nudity to happen. If you get over it then you can just realize it was nothing to fret about.

I agree, he's just trying to help you in these situations. Hes not trying to look at you. Like Ant, I also agree that it can be weird for him to see you naked, but its a public shower, youre supposed to change there.

[The Batman]

Maybe your just being alittle paranoid but I don't know exactly whats going on if it continues to happen tell him that your not comfortable being naked in front of him

[derekrocks]

I would take it as a curiousity of how you are developing. but you never know i guess... but I do not know the situation as well as you. try to ask him about it if you are that worried about it... or maybe not him. Talk to someone else in your life.

[BtotheD]

hes probably trying to see how ur comeing along , seeing if ur as good/better/worse than he is

[optimashprime]

i think you should sit down and talk about it
also try to talk about other things you are worried about after all your day went through the same process you are going through so i think he would know a bit about it

[tmkf]

welll your dad cant be gay - so im sure it is just him being curious, dads generaly care for there children and want them to grow up as best as they can, in evrery way - not just in school ect... if you are conftible with asking him - confront him and say do you for some reason want to see my penis, because i have seen you do this......( and say what you have wrote in your question)