Relationship issues

[shark_attack]

To begin with I'm in a relationship, and well she's hard work like serious hard work... I try soo hard to make her pleased but nothing ever works. She takes my money with out asking, she just entitles herself to it. She makes fun of all my friends and just makes life generally hard. But then sometimes she has moments where she is just perfect, but they are few and far between. She gets soo jealous and she just keeps pushing me away.
Well now there's this girl, and she's nothing like Amanda (my gf isn't named Amanda it's just for privacy). This girl is great, she's really nice, likes all my friends and is everything I'd look for.... But she's 14 and I'm 16, I don't see a problem with that but will other people. I'm beginning to resent Amanda cause of how she keeps acting... I don't wanna break up with her cause I know it will depress her :/ but I don't know if it's the right thing being with her.... Idk can someone please offer some good advice on the situation :) in desperate need of some

[Blood]

I think you should break up with Amanda. If your relationship is really as miserable as it sounds then what's the point? Don't stay with her because you think you'll depress her if you leave. It's not always about your partner, it's about you, too. If you're not happy, why be in it? You need to be happy.

[Seemyheart]

In my opinion, break up with amanda. she's taking you for granted and pushing you away? you should be the person she holds closest...instead of spending her time being jealous and pushing you away.it sounds like stress, and there's a limit to how much you can take... it's your decision when to say you've had enough. if the other girl is like...great and perfect, and you could see yourself being genuinely happy and is less work, then go for it! age isn't a factor, its just a number. if people have an issue with the age difference, then that's their problem, not yours... you'd be happy and they should respect that. respect you for being able to be confident enough to brush off all the excess drama.
Break ups are always a bit messy, someone always is more hurt than the other, but life does go on. its your life. and you only live once, why live it with someone you're beginning to resent and takes you for granted instead of being with someone who is exactly who you're looking for
I apologize for being so blunt.

[shark_attack]

In my opinion, break up with amanda. she's taking you for granted and pushing you away? you should be the person she holds closest...instead of spending her time being jealous and pushing you away.it sounds like stress, and there's a limit to how much you can take... it's your decision when to say you've had enough. if the other girl is like...great and perfect, and you could see yourself being genuinely happy and is less work, then go for it! age isn't a factor, its just a number. if people have an issue with the age difference, then that's their problem, not yours... you'd be happy and they should respect that. respect you for being able to be confident enough to brush off all the excess drama.
Break ups are always a bit messy, someone always is more hurt than the other, but life does go on. its your life. and you only live once, why live it with someone you're beginning to resent and takes you for granted instead of being with someone who is exactly who you're looking for
I apologize for being so blunt.
Thank you :3

[Seemyheart]

Thank you :3

No problemo! :)