Girls Please answer honestly

[curiousgeorge13]

Ok so ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years now and we have a good sex life. Anyway i brought up the possibility of using a dildo larger than I am as a bit of fun. After a conversation she ended up telling my her ex boyfriend was larger than myself. Now she says women enjoy sex more when in the moment as its mostly about the emotion and men are visual.

But now I am left wondering, even if this is that case, does a larger penis feel better when in that moment, does it just feel better in general. Her ex penis was around 6inch girth and about 8/9inch in length :( Also is looking at a big penis a turn on?

Please give me some feed back, I would appreciate it, thanks...

[Living For Love]

Honestly, I don't know, a larger penis might feel better, but she doesn't look at it when you're actually having sex. If I was a women, I wouldn't really care much about that.

[Syvelocin]

Depends on the girl. Honestly, back when I was straight intercourse felt fucking terrible, especially when the guy was big. Owwwie. But part of that is the guy not letting the girl get aroused enough.

It isn't size, it's what you can do with it. Skill > size, full stop.

I can't answer your other question in a non-biased way, but I know more women than you'd expect who are not actually turned on by penises, which is weird to me as I find female genitalia a huge turn-on, but I'm slightly more visual than most girls. I'm still very emotional, as you've said. See, the thing is in women, the brain releases different chemicals during orgasm than in men. The female brain releases more oxytocin, and males get more testosterone which suppresses oxytocin. Oxytocin bonds us to our partners as well as to our children. You might have heard it referenced to as the "cuddle hormone." It's survival instinct. It encourages us to not leave our children to die and the men to go impregnate lots of fertile women.

[SammieRose]

Honestly, I don't know, a larger penis might feel better, but she doesn't look at it when you're actually having sex. If I was a women, I wouldn't really care much about that.

Not entirely true, sometimes a larger penis actually feels worse. To the OP, your gf is right, is not what you are packing that gets us there, is how it feels and makes us feel. as long as you have a 4' long, 2.5' girth, we are gonna feel it, and if you are also good at turning us on, we are gonna have the ride of our lives.

Play with her, find new ways to turn her on, and work from there. Now honesty, the dildo idea is also to turn you on more while seeing her enjoy it, right? then tell her that.

[cherylcherylX2]

Sex, IMO for my case isn't solely on size. Lots of different factors contribute to the enjoyability of it, such as location, skill, style etc.

In short, don't fret, just do your best (sounds like a really inappropriate school PSA)

[Lil.k8]

the simple and true answer is kind of the shape matters only on how much it can reach th g spot and aslong as you push all the way in youll hit her clit a little the hotter she is when you put it in the more she will enjoy it no matter what his size is or even if she doesent orgasm sex is just extremely pleasureable. i prefer clit stimulation for orgasming touch or tounge ps you can get a sleeve for your cock that has a tilted tip to hit her g spot if you really want her to cum sleeves are more fun anyways dildos are a singles game

[Mich015]

Again boys, pussies are not 1 size fits all!! What may satisfy one girl may or may not satisfy another girl. Some girls prefer a larg penis some dont and some pussies are tighter then others so this has be bassed on her preferences and what her pussy can handle.