How Long Until you NEED to....

[becca07]

Hey ladies...I was just curious as to what is normal in relation to m-bating.

I use to only do it like maybe once a week a year or two ago out of bordom or just wanting to because it felt nice, but over the past year or so I am finding that I NEED to do it like at least every 3-4 days( if not sooner) or else I will go NUtz! Is this normal for you?

Like for instance day 1 I will be fine( some sexual thoughts but no real urges)

Day 2( I will start thinking a little more about guys, the feeling of m-bating and orgasming and will get mini tingles here and there but nothing too intense that it needs to be dealt with)

By Day 3-4 though my clit will be throbbing/on fire off during school and during times when I am not really thinking about anything sexual!

Should I be m-bating more? Is it cuz of hormones too?

[OhSweetMaple]

Me too except any longer than 2 days I cant handle it

[becca07]

Me too except any longer than 2 days I cant handle it

Exactly. It's just REally Really frustrating because I don't have a lot of opportunities for "alone time" at home ( even after school since sisters are home too).

The problem is like I said by day 3ish any little thing(looking at guys, tv shows, or especially if my leggings/jeans rub me the right way<--Soo frustrating) by then sets off the horniness to the point where it takes longer to go away.

I will sometimes cross my legs and squeeze them to get some relief but most of the time it just makes things worse :rolleyes: Do i need stronger orgasms or something when I do get "alone time"???( Im not old enough to get a vibe by the way)

[sambeans]

I would say a couple days until I need to. The need becomes unbearable.

[Sandra Main]

I need it every night before going to sleep.
Can't skip a night or i wake up in the middle of the night
to take care of business.

[CheekyBird]

It depends if I am stressed I feel the need to do it more, but when I have free time I don't feel like it. Usually its between 2-4 days, right now its everyday and sometimes it can be a week or two.

[anyone50]

depending on your age I think every few days is fine. As you get older you'll find that the urge to take care of yourself in that manner increases.

[ShelleyCA]

Me too except any longer than 2 days I cant handle it

same here i get totally bitchy if i go for more than 2 days without masturbating lol

[ShelleyCA]

I need it every night before going to sleep.
Can't skip a night or i wake up in the middle of the night
to take care of business.

my favorite time of the day! i do it pretty much every night before bed..it helps me sleep so much better!

[bethgirl1986]

I often do it every day, but usually by the 2nd or 3rd day, I almost HAVE to, otherwise the tension becomes too much to handle. If for some reason I get beyond the 3rd or 4th day, I find it diminishes and I can go several more without...but why would I want to do that? :P

[becca07]

same here i get totally bitchy if i go for more than 2 days without masturbating lol

lol Yeah I know what you mean. If someone asks why you are so bitchy and say "is it that time of month" in your head you are thinking like( no....it's because i need a orgasm) lol

[Beachgirl1]

Everyday or I would go crazy. My swimming pool is my favorite place.

[blueeyes99]

everyday since I was super young. probably younger than most here

[hoboliz]

Every day when I first wake up and again before I can fall asleep, unless I get sex instead. I went camping over the summer and couldn't do it for 4 days, and I felt like making a really bad decision on the trip home.

[CutieHoney]

Well I do it every day!
If I just don't find the time to do it it's fine for like 2 days.
But generally I do it every day - There would be something missing for me if I didn't :/

[becca07]

Every day when I first wake up and again before I can fall asleep, unless I get sex instead. I went camping over the summer and couldn't do it for 4 days, and I felt like making a really bad decision on the trip home.

I know what you mean about long trips/vacations. I was away on a family trip in the summer for a week and it was sooo frustrating. I hadn't been able to take care of "it" for about 5ish days. Your so right in wanting/having to almost resort to desperate measures. The only good thing/thing I could do was that I had my yoga pants on the way home( they are thin and tight obviously) and I could find some relief by crossing my legs and squeezing but nothing past that untilI got home ofcourse:P.

[beccaweiser]

I know what you mean about long trips/vacations. I was away on a family trip in the summer for a week and it was sooo frustrating. I hadn't been able to take care of "it" for about 5ish days. Your so right in wanting/having to almost resort to desperate measures. The only good thing/thing I could do was that I had my yoga pants on the way home( they are thin and tight obviously) and I could find some relief by crossing my legs and squeezing but nothing past that untilI got home ofcourse:P.

I know what you mean about yoga pants, Becca (nice name, too ;) ). I LOVE wearing them too and really enjoy how I feel with them on... :)

[ShelleyCA]

everyday since I was super young. probably younger than most here

same here! i discovered the showerhead when i was like 12 ;)

[blueeyes99]

same here! i discovered the showerhead when i was like 12 ;)

Ive never tried that. Although I've never had a detachable shower head :(

[hoboliz]

same here! i discovered the showerhead when i was like 12 ;)

The massage setting or pulsate setting! Just make sure to rinse your footprints off the wall if you want to keep what you were doing a secret. Lol!

[becca07]

I often do it every day, but usually by the 2nd or 3rd day, I almost HAVE to, otherwise the tension becomes too much to handle. If for some reason I get beyond the 3rd or 4th day, I find it diminishes and I can go several more without...but why would I want to do that? :P

Yeah, I find that it diminishes slightly during the day if its been a long time. But I find that at night its a different story. If i forget to sleep on my back or side or I roll and my clit rubs the bed in just the right way...things escalate quickly lol. If it grinds against the bed it takes no time to orgasm( those ones feel the best:yeah:)

[Tessa-stra]

I often do it every day, but usually by the 2nd or 3rd day, I almost HAVE to, otherwise the tension becomes too much to handle. If for some reason I get beyond the 3rd or 4th day, I find it diminishes and I can go several more without...but why would I want to do that? :P

Exactly like this! After 2 days I need to have another orgasm!

[becca07]

It depends if I am stressed I feel the need to do it more, but when I have free time I don't feel like it. Usually its between 2-4 days, right now its everyday and sometimes it can be a week or two.

Yeah I can see how when your stressed it would be a nice treat. I find with me that its when I have free time( time to think) that is when what has been ignored suddenly becomes the focus of all my attention(especially if its been a while)

I'll be fine for a couple days then I'll start to notice(sometimes its on purpose) that im starting to press "myself(clit)" against things-whether im laying down, standing up or sleeping in bed. I don't know if I could last one or two weeks lol longest for me was 5 days and it felt like I had a ticking time bomb down there:P

[hoboliz]

Exactly like this! After 2 days I need to have another orgasm!

I'm so curious what you mean by "need to." Like, I get urges, but I always feel like I'm in control of them, even when I give in to them.

[becca07]

I'm so curious what you mean by "need to." Like, I get urges, but I always feel like I'm in control of them, even when I give in to them.

I can't speak for Tessa-stra il let her say what she means. For me however, -like Tessa was saying- that after 2 days instead of the urges coming and going and being able to control them...they linger for me longer...like waaayy longer to the point where I have to rub out the orgasm or my mind will be so foggy with sexual thoughts that i can't focus in school or anywhere.

For me, if I havn't had an orgasm in like past 3 days my clit will be on fire/pulsating for most of the day begging for attention to the point where its annoying lol. It feels good but it gets frustrating after a while where I just need a huge orgasm to get back to normal if that makes any sense. Hope this helps :)

[lyriclover]

I had to go 2 weeks at summer camp without getting off... it was hell, and then only after camp did the other girls in my tent admit they wouldnt have minded a tent orgy. But really, after about 4 days I need to get off or I go cray and start talking to inanimate objects. I usually do it every other night, or ever night, or every 3 nightsish.

[becca07]

I had to go 2 weeks at summer camp without getting off... it was hell, and then only after camp did the other girls in my tent admit they wouldnt have minded a tent orgy. But really, after about 4 days I need to get off or I go cray and start talking to inanimate objects. I usually do it every other night, or ever night, or every 3 nightsish.

2 weeks!? wow. That would have been soo annoying lol. I know what you mean. Vacations/summer camps are brutal...even if you try to sneak m-bate or rub during the night its impossible to enjoy it because you are sleeping so close to others. Plus I wouldnt want to orgasm since I would be so loud after 2 weeks haha.

I remember on vacation I shared a bedroom(with two beds) with one of my sisters and tried to sneak one past here(by carefully grinding the mattress) She heard the squeeking though and I immediately had to stop( sooo frustrating I couldnt sleep for the rest of the night)

[hoboliz]

I had to go 2 weeks at summer camp without getting off... it was hell, and then only after camp did the other girls in my tent admit they wouldnt have minded a tent orgy. But really, after about 4 days I need to get off or I go cray and start talking to inanimate objects. I usually do it every other night, or ever night, or every 3 nightsish.

Holy Christ! You know that scene in Role Models where they're talking about all the things that look like boobs? After a week, I'd be like that but with ... well, not only penises.

[lyriclover]

Haha it was pretty hellish. We couldnt even do it in the shower because it was like the showers in locker rooms and everyone else would have known. It really was horrible too cuz 3 of us liked girls in some way or another, and its an all girls camp with all girl staff, and a lot of international staff, and lots of hot accents.

[Karabear]

I have to do it everyday or I can't function well!

[becca07]

I have to do it everyday or I can't function well!

Definitely, some days are better than others for sure. Some days I can control my Need for it, others I have a very short fuse lol For sure can't function well if I can't satisfy it immediatly-usually by then ALL of my time and thoughts will be about when I am going to cum next and How/Where I can find privacy.

[Karabear]

Definitely, some days are better than others for sure. Some days I can control my Need for it, others I have a very short fuse lol For sure can't function well if I can't satisfy it immediatly-usually by then ALL of my time and thoughts will be about when I am going to cum next and How/Where I can find privacy.

Exactly. I can't get anything done when I am only thinking about that!

[hoboliz]

Haha it was pretty hellish. We couldnt even do it in the shower because it was like the showers in locker rooms and everyone else would have known. It really was horrible too cuz 3 of us liked girls in some way or another, and its an all girls camp with all girl staff, and a lot of international staff, and lots of hot accents.

I am an expert at sneaking away during church camp stuff. I am never more of a sinner. ;) But that was actual camping: me, my friend, her family, one tent.

[ccof97]

I am always horny, so I usually masturbate everyday. Three days without is about the longest I can go without losing ny mind. Any more than three days I turn into a weirdo and start humping random things lol

[mermaidfairy]

I normally masturbate every two to four days, normally right before bed, sometimes more or less though depending on my mood. It does help me sleep when I'm tired but can't fall asleep, am stressed, or even just not tired.

everyday since I was super young. probably younger than most here

Totally know what that's like! I actually started touching myself and even looking up porn in elementary school, and it went from there. Not something most elementary school kids do I'm sure, hehe.

There's no set amount a person should masturbate, though, so if you want to masturbate more, that's okay! As long as masturbation isn't interfering with your life, then go for it!

[Beachgirl1]

I normally masturbate everyday or I'd go crazy. Last summer I lasted 3 days because we were on a yacht with no privacy whatso ever and I was getting so cranky it almost ruined my trip. Thats when I discovered I could orgasm very easily while snorkeling in the ocean and no body ever found out.

[lizziebeth]

Ummm....like maybe 5 days or a week. Don't like going that long, but I can if I need to.

[Ihaveagun]

Well, believe it or not, but I just managed to hold it for a week. Not that I had much choice, as I was on a family trip with no privacy whatsoever, but for a few moments I thought I was going to lose it. :P

[satarra3180]

Sometimes its fun to not do it for a few days and the orgasm is intense after...but I usually do it at least every other day.

[Miri]

I usually do it every couple days, but I never feel like I NEED to. I could decide to stop masturbating anytime and I probably wouldn't feel any different.

At the end of the summer I went close to 4 weeks without doing it, and sure I got urges but I never felt like I couldn't control them.

[CheekyLinda]

The longest time I've gone without jilling off must have been a week, during volleball training camp. The accumulated horniness, plus all the physical activity made it HELL! But the reward came (so to speak :p) when I returned home, and my parents left me home alone for a bit the next day.... the neighbors must have heard that :oops:

[stoneflowe96]

The longest time was one week and I never liked it to don't do it for such a long time. Because normaly I do it every day. The times I can't masturbate are vacations, camps or when my little cousin stays at our home. she is 9 now and I would not dare to masturbate secretly in the night. But I'm also relaxed that There are many others who need to do it often .

[ClaireMarie]

Every day or I would go crazy. I really need to masturbate several times a day... I love it so much !!! I can't imagine just one day without masturbation, it's just unthinkable !!

[Gemma11]

I usually can't go 24 hours with out doing it :whoops:...

[abp1999]

Usually can't go a day lol

[heyChelsea]

I only do every few days anyways so I think I've gone about a week or so without, usually that's just during my period though

[AnnaLei]

Every day or I would go crazy. I really need to masturbate several times a day... I love it so much !!! I can't imagine just one day without masturbation, it's just unthinkable !!

You're like my younger cousin :P

[ClaireMarie]

You're like my younger cousin :P

How old is she ?
I started masturbation very young, at 8 yo, but I do it several times a day since I was 10.
Did you ever saw her masturbating ?

[AnnaLei]

How old is she ?
I started masturbation very young, at 8 yo, but I do it several times a day since I was 10.
Did you ever saw her masturbating ?

She's 15. Yeah I saw her masturbating many times, and she saw me, especially since we masturbate together every few days.

[AnnaLei]

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[AnnaLei]

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[Kati]

I do it daily....I've tried holding off for a few days, but drives me crazy...daily is the best for me to function normally.

[Luminous]

I go 3-5 days until I really have to. It depends also on where I am in my cycle.

[jenna123]

i started masturbating when i was like 11 or 12, and back then i did it once every 2 weeks or so. Then as i grew older it was once a week, then once every 3 days and now its almost every day that i masturbate. I normally do it in the shower or before i go to sleep.

Since then, if i spend 1 day without masturbating, the next day im feeling a bit horny but if i spend more than 2 days without touching myself i get really horny for everything (looking at boys, trousers and panties touching etc).

The longest i spent without mast. was during soccer camp and that was about 7 days. I was on fire down there, after i got home i had the best orgasm ever.

[becca07]

i started masturbating when i was like 11 or 12, and back then i did it once every 2 weeks or so. Then as i grew older it was once a week, then once every 3 days and now its almost every day that i masturbate. I normally do it in the shower or before i go to sleep.

Since then, if i spend 1 day without masturbating, the next day im feeling a bit horny but if i spend more than 2 days without touching myself i get really horny for everything (looking at boys, trousers and panties touching etc).

The longest i spent without mast. was during soccer camp and that was about 7 days. I was on fire down there, after i got home i had the best orgasm ever.

Yeah I hear ya...during those long stretches of days when i can't get off(vacations, camping etc) its like my vag/clit start to have a mind of its own.

Like when its been soo long and I get horny for almost everything I get these involuntary throbs/mini spasms in my clit/vag(almost as if my puss is trying to get itself off becuase it knows I am not doing anything about it! lol:P) Do you get these too? Or anyone else for that matter?

[ClaireMarie]

She's 15. Yeah I saw her masturbating many times, and she saw me, especially since we masturbate together every few days.

How many times a day she masturbates ? You ?

[jenna123]

Yeah I hear ya...during those long stretches of days when i can't get off(vacations, camping etc) its like my vag/clit start to have a mind of its own.

Like when its been soo long and I get horny for almost everything I get these involuntary throbs/mini spasms in my clit/vag(almost as if my puss is trying to get itself off becuase it knows I am not doing anything about it! lol:P) Do you get these too? Or anyone else for that matter?

Yes same here, when its been long i get horny for any minor thing. And yes i get those spasms in my vag and even mylegs shake a bit involuntarily. Like for instance im sitting on the bus on the way to school and any minor movement my panties make against my clit i start to get horny haha

[AnnaLei]

How many times a day she masturbates ? You ?

She does like 5 times a day. For me it's usually once, but recently it's been getting more, don't know why ;)

[jenna123]

She does like 5 times a day. For me it's usually once, but recently it's been getting more, don't know why ;)

wow 5 times a day. Thats a lot haha. I guess it keeps increasing because before i was like once a week and now its once a day, and like you lately its been getting more. One day i did it 4 times in the same day but that was because i had been almost a week without mbating and i was really horny.

[ClaireMarie]

She does like 5 times a day. For me it's usually once, but recently it's been getting more, don't know why ;)

Because it's so good !!! :yeah:

[anyone50]

Every day or I would go crazy. I really need to masturbate several times a day... I love it so much !!! I can't imagine just one day without masturbation, it's just unthinkable !!

Just curious and don't be offended but do you think you could maybe be addicted to M-bating

[Wildsassygirl]

I need it a lot too, sometimes it feels better when I do it than if I have sex with a guy. I do it like every 3 or 4 days sometimes but then other times I need it more. I have done it since I was like 10.

[jenna123]

Lol tbh we are all quite addicted to masturbating from what i see in the comments haha

[SweetFab]

I have the need everyday. I always get sex, but when I don't, I have to do it by myself (this happens only 3 or 4 times a month).

[Everdeen]

I have the need everyday. I always get sex, but when I don't, I have to do it by myself (this happens only 3 or 4 times a month).

How do you get sex on a daily basis, when you're only 13? :what:

[jessica0160]

i go ccrazy after 3days and realy bad just before my peroid

[tigress90]

I used to be able to more often. In our new house my room is right by my parents so I have to plan for times when I have more privacy which is hard at times.

[kitten13]

now 4 times a week for me.

kim

[Mich015]

I will normally masturbate like 3-4 times a day i have held out for an entire day a few months back an it was horrible!! I went like 5 hours with no problem, but after almost 9 or 10 hours i was so horney and my vagina was soaked! I had to masturbate that night. So i can go about half aa day or else its hell lol

[jessicaann]

I can't make it a day without.

[watermelon_pineapple]

Most girl will masturbate at night to help them sleep but if you need to get off then do it! it normal for a girl to masturbate. I normal do it 1 or 2 times a day

[Elysium]

Most girl will masturbate at night to help them sleep but if you need to get off then do it! it normal for a girl to masturbate. I normal do it 1 or 2 times a day
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