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Andriod09
November 19th, 2013, 06:33 PM
Hey guys, I'm in need of a little help, preferably from some of the female users on the site..

One of my best friends, her name is Sierra, I feel greatly attracted to her, and I've told her this, and we've had several conversations about her liking me, while I didn't, and this continued for several months, but now I'm starting to sense I've gotten "too deep into the friend-zone". Is there anyway that I can get out from being "too deep" and start dating her? She's the same age as me, and I see her more than three times a week, and we don't go to the same school. She's single, but going through a break-up, and I want to be there for her.

What should I do, and how should I handle this?

Please help, and thank you for reading.

Andy|Andriod09

LouBerry
November 19th, 2013, 06:36 PM
Just ask her out. Go see a movie or something.

Andriod09
November 19th, 2013, 08:00 PM
That's the thing, I've already asked her, she's declined. She told that she like me as a friend (which I can tell is a huge lie). I'm just wondering if there's anyway to actually get to to tell me how she really feels about me. Friend or not. She already told me that she like me but then, out of complete pity, I went out with one of our mutual friends and helped her through her dark time while he father abused her.

now i'm just wondering if there's any possible way to get her to like me, or at least tell me the true, if she likes me or not, or to tell me why she doesn't like me.

I truly feel for her, and now that I know she "doesn't" like me, I feel more for her.

Living For Love
November 20th, 2013, 12:50 PM
How do you know ahe really likes you? You can't force her to feel something she might not really feel. I suggest you just keep talking to her and helping her anytime she needs. She's going through a bad moment, you need to give her some time to clear up her mind.