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hpq666
November 18th, 2013, 09:27 PM
So my friend and I were hanging out yesterday and out of nowhere she made a move on me and we started making out, which I was happy about because I really like her. The only problem is that she has a long distance boyfriend. They are technically in an open relationship but he gets jealous whenever she fools around. I know that making out isn't really that bad considering that she has sex a fair amount but we have started to get really close and I am worried that things will start to get weird if we keep fooling around with each other. What should I do?

Blood
November 18th, 2013, 09:39 PM
If they're actually in an open relationship then she has the right to be with who she wants (within reason) without him getting jealous. All you can really do about the situation is discuss it with her. Ask her if it's ok that you guys are doing things even though she's with the internet guy, just to clarify.

Luminous
November 18th, 2013, 10:13 PM
If they are in an open relationship then he shouldn't be jealous.

WintersuN
November 19th, 2013, 12:57 AM
I would say forget about the guy and go with your heart. If you feel that both you and her will be happier due to being together, go for it and don't give a damn about some random guy who's hundreds or thousands of miles away. My bestfriend pretty much did the same thing and he's happy as can be.

luq_
November 19th, 2013, 10:01 AM
well, if she's happy, and you're happy, fk the third guy? (not literally)

highschool
November 19th, 2013, 05:20 PM
like everyone said. if its an open relationship do whatever you want

Harley Quinn
November 19th, 2013, 05:53 PM
Well, I'm taking the opposite approach and saying if you're feeling weird about it already, I would suggest not fooling around regardless of the open relationship.

AbyssalLight7
November 20th, 2013, 11:11 PM
I say you should probably stop, relationships that start with them cheating on their significant other rarely end well for any of the 3 involved, it pry won't work out for you and have some empathy for her boyfriend

Myxox
December 25th, 2013, 10:21 PM
Sounds like she likes you and you like her. Just go with it and see where it leads.

Living For Love
December 26th, 2013, 11:40 AM
I've never really understood those "open relationships", and how they can survive, but whatever you do, make sure you first talk to her about the whole situation.

newkler
January 1st, 2014, 07:49 PM
do what you want as long as you wont get in trouble with this