Friends

[saltlife2014]

Im bisexual and I feel that its hard for me to be friends with males that go to my school. I've never had a best friend that was a guy. I don't know why. I just automatically feel awkward around them. Especially if there attractive. Honestly I don't even think I have but 3 guy friends. Is that normal? I want to have more but I don't want to be awkward. I just want them to feel comfortable around me. And im not openly bi. So is that normal?

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Family and Friends.

[Gabrieel]

Yes, this is totally normal when you're passing through puberty. This happen with me a lot of times in school

[Living For Love]

I don't have any guy friends either at the moment, maybe because I don't fit in the stereotypical description of a "guy". I make friendships with girls more easily than with boys.

[saltlife2014]

OMG. Same here. I just don't know. Im bi. Im in the closet though. I just want to be able to talk to guys,

[Living For Love]

I would also advise you to stay away from the so called "friend groups" in schools. For example, in my last year class, there were about four groups of friends: the whore-type girls, the nerd-looking girls, the drug addicted boys and the nerd-looking boys. And this groups just didn't mix, you know, they only talked with people of the same group. Of course, sometimes they would talk to other, but that would be quite rare. Our class was really divided, and all the teachers were always telling us that. When I joined the class, the groups were already formed, so I didn't really joined a certain group, I was like a foreigner, but I had small talks with different people of each group, mostly the girls, though.

[othees]

Usually when I just let things run their course I make friends.

[Luminous]

I think you should be grateful for the friends you have now, girl or boy, instead of wishing for something else. I have never had any friends, either gender, and I would gladly have a friend of any sex or age or looks or anything.

[NeuroTiger]

"Birds of the same feathers flock together"
This popular quote certainly resumes the basis of friendship; you need to find things in common.
Though all of us are same throughout the world, every single individual differ to some extent.
For friendship to be formed, those differences should be overpowered and consider only what you have in common with people around you.
It will surely happen that you don't share the same interests with some people.
But everybody should be able to make friends.

[kire]

I had the same problem. I can be awkward around people too, but once i made one guy friend, i became comfortable around guys. You should try making just one guy friend. Just talk to someone you think you can be friends with, and you may become friends. Once you have one friend it'll be easier to make more friends

[JoeB93772]

it is ok there isnt anything to worry about