View Full Version : Is it normal to be a virgin at 16 ?
Sammy07
November 17th, 2013, 01:39 PM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(
deregisterme
November 17th, 2013, 01:44 PM
It's quite normal I am too. I do wander how many say they've lost it at 14 actually have.
saltlife2014
November 17th, 2013, 01:48 PM
I wish I was still a virgin tbh. But its normal.
Trace
November 17th, 2013, 01:51 PM
Yes, completely.
Beltway
November 17th, 2013, 01:53 PM
Guess its normal i had a girlfriend before entering this really intense curiosity stage. But im guessing not everyone loses there virginity at 16 thats just preppy mindless guys i think.
The captain
November 17th, 2013, 01:56 PM
sure is pretty normal..some people, sometimes, say lost virginity and don't ..Im still virgin and don't wanna have sex only "for lost my virginity". I wanna make love..
ComfortableInChaos
November 17th, 2013, 01:57 PM
Yeah, I'm a virgin, yet I'm 15 haha
From Chris
November 17th, 2013, 02:19 PM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(
14 is a VERY early age to lose your virginity, and a lot of people wait till they are much older. :) It's something that's up to you though. If you choose to lose it while you're 16 then just have safe sex, if you don't then it's fine! There's no specific "Normal" age for sex. Although it does seem like people are having sex younger and younger now, it's not like you need to follow them~
-From Chris
meme1255
November 17th, 2013, 02:25 PM
14 is a VERY early age to lose your virginity, and a lot of people wait till they are much older. :) ....
-From Chris
I would like to add something: I think that your body knows when you're ready for "having" a girlfriend and it's better to save your virginity for someone who's worth it :confused: :) — I'd not recommend to rush as I've never had anyone too..
Living For Love
November 17th, 2013, 02:33 PM
It's normal, of course. You only lose your virginity when you want and feel prepared.
From Chris
November 17th, 2013, 02:42 PM
I would like to add something: I think that your body knows when you're ready for "having" a girlfriend and it's better to save your virginity for someone who's worth it :confused: :) — I'd not recommend to rush as I've never had anyone too..
Yes, exactly! :)
-From Chris
cali_boy
November 17th, 2013, 03:10 PM
I mean its yours choice (: you are the only person that knows your body so its whatever
Avacon
November 17th, 2013, 03:27 PM
15, virgin.
No idea about my friends, though I'd guess most of them are.
Can't speak for the rest of the guys in my year group... >_>
I'd say it's probably normal.
jesusogpaign
November 17th, 2013, 03:31 PM
Shit, man, I'm 18 and still a virgin. There really is no "normal" when it comes to this. You just have to wait until the right time.
Swagging god
November 17th, 2013, 03:46 PM
Shit, man, I'm 18 and still a virgin. There really is no "normal" when it comes to this. You just have to wait until the right time.
he is right there is no specific time a person should loose his virginity, I was 14 but I felt the time and girl was right, as long as you can look at the chance and say that you'll have no regrets that is when the time will be right for you.
othees
November 17th, 2013, 03:50 PM
oh my goodness.
Connor.
November 17th, 2013, 04:56 PM
Yeah it's normal. I'm 18 and still a virgin. It just all depends on whether the person feels they are ready to lose it.
Pepito
November 17th, 2013, 05:01 PM
Yes it`s normal. Losing virginity is a personal choice and you shouldn`t be rushed into it. Don`t do something just because someone else does that.
themadking
November 17th, 2013, 05:19 PM
I am 16 and i am still a virgin
Lodan
November 17th, 2013, 05:29 PM
I would say so, absolutely
NickGR
November 17th, 2013, 06:37 PM
Never had a girlfriend until half a month over 17, lost my virginity 6 months later. Just relax, people lose it at different points. When you meet someone, it'll happen.
kylem
November 17th, 2013, 06:49 PM
I think its totally normal, I'm 15 and I'm a virgin. When I meet the right one I guess then maybe I won't be anymore, idk.
tovaris
November 17th, 2013, 06:50 PM
Yes . .
nrob1993
November 17th, 2013, 06:52 PM
yes, perfectly normal...I lost my virginity a few months after my 16th birthday and I sort of thought that was a bit early, but now I see a lot of people lost it earlier than that
chetbonare
November 17th, 2013, 07:06 PM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(
I'm 17, single, straight and a virgin. Proud of it too! :)
Here is how I look at it.
Anyone can have sex, but only a select few can be a virgin.. Its a status that once lost, can never be regained.
So don't feel bad man, its something to be proud of.
Hope this helps :)
nklarke
November 17th, 2013, 07:53 PM
It's interesting question.
Yes, it's "normal", you are normal also :yes:
Now, it's possible some of your friends are lying, they can say what they want but who know if it's true.
And finally, you don't have to have a girlfriend to lose your virginity neither.
Luke91
November 17th, 2013, 07:55 PM
Absolutely normal and admirable.
KoolKid96
November 17th, 2013, 09:22 PM
It's normal haha don't worry
Sammy07
November 17th, 2013, 10:04 PM
Thanks guys :)
ryanpeterson832
November 17th, 2013, 10:39 PM
Yeah it is
Ddare28
November 18th, 2013, 12:14 AM
Yeah, dude. It's fine, don't worry about it. When the time comes it comes, don't rush it.
Fanta_Lover44
November 18th, 2013, 03:04 AM
Yes it's perfectly normal. Take your time, don't be rushed into it. It doesn't matter if your like 32 and still a virgin there is still time...
roadwarrior
November 18th, 2013, 04:14 AM
yes.. that's absolutely normal..
TheMightyBruce
November 18th, 2013, 04:54 AM
I lost mine at 18...so don't be afraid...you have plenty of time.
Hermes
November 18th, 2013, 06:49 AM
There really isn't any ideal age for losing your virginity it's more about what circumstances you think are right for having sex and even then there is quite a difference of opinion between different people.
Some people seem to see virginity as a burden and actively seek someone for sex just to lose it, others may do it when they find they and the girl find each other mutually sexually attractive without necessarily being emotionally attractive, others wait until they are in love and some wait until marriage.
There isn't really a "right" way. I went for the "wait until you're in love". We're still in love and I love having sex with her. For me it is being in love that makes the physical special. Yes, the phyisical feelings of sex are very good and a bit different from masturbating, yes the orgasm can be fantastic but masturbating also feels good and I have had, and continue to have, some really intsense orgams doing that.
stickytissues1
November 21st, 2013, 02:57 PM
I'm 17 and still a virgin. I guess i'm just waiting for the right person.
jockeyboy97
November 21st, 2013, 03:14 PM
I'm 16 and still a virgin. I'm not embarrassed or jealous of others. I want to wait for that special person and time. I have a close friend that had sex with a girl at a party and afterwards he felt guilty and really low. He told me that it was a big mistake and he wishes he would have waited.
Catholic Guy
November 21st, 2013, 04:59 PM
Yeah lots of people are still virgins at 16, you should be proud that you aren't a slut
Fallen_Eagle
November 21st, 2013, 05:01 PM
I'm 16 and a virgin. In other news, some dude accidentally stepped in dog shit today. yeah.
Avamis
November 21st, 2013, 05:35 PM
It depends on you. If you feel that u want to lose it go lose it. I think that 16 is fine to be virgin.
sqishy
November 21st, 2013, 05:39 PM
Yes. A large fraction, maybe over half, of us are still virgins at 16. I am on the verge of being 18 and I am still a virgin, I'm waiting for when I meet the right person, which will still be a while off (or maybe not idk :P ).
Jevon
November 21st, 2013, 08:25 PM
I don't see why the fuck not I mean you don't want to just go around doing that shit on a regular basis
Thomas01
November 21st, 2013, 10:29 PM
It's perfectly normal, just do it when it feels right
Swagging god
November 21st, 2013, 10:32 PM
Yes. A large fraction, maybe over half, of us are still virgins at 16. I am on the verge of being 18 and I am still a virgin, I'm waiting for when I meet the right person, which will still be a while off (or maybe not idk :P ).
You should only loose your virginity when it feels right to you.....I felt ready because I saw a connection with the girl I was dating and we both felt it was the right step to take in our relationship
PinkFloyd
November 21st, 2013, 11:21 PM
Statistically, yes. it's normal. The average age of having sex for the first time in North America is like 18/19.
My advice is to not rush things. Sex isn't something you want to just have happen. It's gotta be at the right time with the right person no matter the age.
Seemyheart
November 22nd, 2013, 12:05 AM
I think it's normal. those people who say they lost it at 14...not quite sure what to make of it because i couldn't even think about actually having sex at 14, it's a big step... im 15 and im still a virgin, and won't be losing that status any time soon
ryzzz9
November 22nd, 2013, 02:01 AM
for sure it's normal, my older sister has friends (guys and girls) who are virgins in their 20s bc they're saving for marriage
Heyman
November 22nd, 2013, 05:03 AM
It's normal, just because you haven't had sex it doesn't mean you are any different
shinodas
November 22nd, 2013, 05:10 AM
honestly it's fine if you're virgin even at 25 or whatever, but i feel like the "older" virgins (that would want to lose virginity already) act seriously weird when they're talking about this topic, they and they only make it sound uncomfortable, for others that's not a big freaking deal, but they make a huge deal out of it.
I lost mine at 18 anyway, because I felt like, it's nobody else's business honestly, don't care about others
parker84797
November 22nd, 2013, 06:32 AM
You are fine. Some people don't lose it until their married.
Tyler97
November 22nd, 2013, 02:28 PM
I'm 16 and a virgin. I have had and given oral sex, but never have had intercourse. I think 16 is too young to have sex because there are too many risks of pregnancy and if you're not old enough to care for a baby, then you're not old enough to have sex.
TOD0156
November 22nd, 2013, 08:20 PM
I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin. Idk if it's a bad thing or not
TheJoseph
November 22nd, 2013, 08:54 PM
Yes. I am a virgin
Liam TWB
November 23rd, 2013, 09:12 AM
It's perfectly normal.
mrpieface2
November 23rd, 2013, 09:59 AM
Yeah it's normal
lacheyman
November 23rd, 2013, 04:32 PM
im 19 and im a virgin so its nothing bad
dreamofdante
November 23rd, 2013, 08:24 PM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(
I'm nearly 18 and I haven't kissed a girl. Try that one on for size.
dude17
November 24th, 2013, 08:28 AM
completely normal :)
Jhill
November 24th, 2013, 09:38 AM
It's normal I'm a virgin to and I'm 16
Chillswil
November 25th, 2013, 02:37 AM
I am a virgin and i turn 16 tommoro, i made a commitment with myself to wait until im a senior in highschool to lose it..
Bobby_123
November 25th, 2013, 12:27 PM
I am 15 and I'm still a virgin
NeuroTiger
November 25th, 2013, 12:32 PM
It's normal.
No sexual encounters yet...:)
Tony223
November 25th, 2013, 01:01 PM
It's normal, I'm 17 and a virgin.
gambit16
November 25th, 2013, 01:02 PM
perfectly normal
henry5331
November 28th, 2013, 12:03 PM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(
You're normal.
Dark Hatred
November 28th, 2013, 02:21 PM
I am 13 and plan on waiting a while.
PenzFan1234
November 30th, 2013, 12:42 PM
Ya I'm nearly 16 and still am
LordOfWaffles
December 1st, 2013, 03:28 AM
It's your virginity. You only loose it once. I'd say loose it when your ready and honestly want to, not just because all your friends are. For all anyone knows, they might respect you more because you haven't. I'm 19 and a virgin. I've had a few chances but I'm waiting until I get married personally. But to each his own.
ChrisA1998
December 4th, 2013, 04:53 PM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(
I guess you havent found this special girl to have your first time with yet. Nothing wrong with that ;)
hockeyfan
December 4th, 2013, 05:02 PM
I'm 14 and a virgin
Tribalking17
December 7th, 2013, 04:25 AM
Hi guys ! I just want to know if it's normal to be a virgin at 16 ? Cause I've never had a girlfriend but I see a lot of people that lost their virginity at 14 ... I always think about that, it's making me crazy... :(:eek: :D :yeah:
In today's society, being a virgin at sixteen years old is something of a rarity. The answer to this question really depends on one's interpretation of "normal" and what standard this "normal" is being compared to. I think it is great that you are still a virgin. Personally, I feel that everyone should remain a virgin until they are married, unless of course your virginity is stolen from you, but that is another situation entirely.
MechaSniper
December 7th, 2013, 04:29 AM
I'm 15 but still a virgin
mammolito96
December 7th, 2013, 04:36 AM
its completely normal, people lose their virginity at very varying ages.
dont worry, im 17 and still a virgin :)
Aaron55
December 7th, 2013, 05:31 PM
honestly, society today doesn't allow for someone that's 14 to approach sex appropriately. Even thousands of years ago when 14 year olds were having sex, it was out of intention to raise a family and start of mature and differentiated life. Now sex is just a social standard. Kids have sex these days as a matter of acceptance and inclusion. You should just stand back, watch all your friends screw up their sex lives, and wait till you find someone you actually enjoy the company of, not just some chick that's hot in a way that really makes you hard.
Sorry to rant
tom17
December 7th, 2013, 10:15 PM
It's PRETTY NORMAL and it's OKAY.
I'm turning 18 next year and I'm still a virgin...
It's not like it makes you less of a man or a freak or something. If you don't have a hurry, then don't hurry...
Cowboycalfroper70
December 7th, 2013, 11:42 PM
Dont worry im 16 and in my group of friends 3 havent dated anyone
Datguy1
December 8th, 2013, 09:29 AM
thats normal it will happen when you find the right girl
bright
December 8th, 2013, 11:26 AM
Yeah it's normal...im 16 and still a virgin!:)
Dude1
December 9th, 2013, 03:10 AM
Yes completly normal I am too
Tdogzz96
December 9th, 2013, 03:59 AM
In almost 18 and I'm still a virgin
TimMyself
December 9th, 2013, 09:05 AM
yes its normal
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