when is it gay?

[Lord Of Curiosity]

hey, some people think touching a man's penis as a guy means your gay but if you think about the defenition of gay then you have a discussion. Somebody who is gay loves people of the same gender. That doesn't immidiatly say that when you're curious about other guys you're gay. So is giving blowjobs or doing anal out of curiosity gay as a guy? Try to think about this before you answer because if you immidiatly say gay, then that means you could be influenced by other people.

[Seth Green]

It is gay when YOU think it is gay. It is experimenting when you know you're just experimenting.

[Luminous]

There is a thin line.. if a guy keeps going back another guy over and over to touch each other and 'experiment', they're probably not just experimenting.. They could be gay, yes, or bisexual or bicurious or heteroromantic homosexual... Maybe they are just touching each other because they're curious about how their bodies work, and that's okay. Honestly, you can't always really know, sometimes the best judge is what they say they're doing.

[Elysium]

The action of a boy giving another boy a blow-job, for example, is gay, since it is two people of the same gender interacting romantically/sexually with each other; it does not classify either of those participants as gay boys. That's how I see it, anyway. You could also be in a gay relationship without actually identifying as gay yourself, for example.

[From Chris]

hey, some people think touching a mens penis as a guy means uour gay but if you think about the defenition of gay then youvhavr a discussion. Somebody who is gay loves people of the same gender. That doesn't immidiatly say that when you're curious about other guys you're gay. So is giving blowjobs or doing anal out of curiosity gay as a guy? Try to think about this before you answer because if you immidiatly say gay, thenctaht means uou could be influanced by other people.

Hi there Curiosity. :) This is coming from someone who is gay; If you were to give a guy a blowjob or have anal sex, i would say it doesn't mean you're gay if you have no emotional feeling or attraction towards men or that guy. Curiosity has all kinds of levels and i'm sure that means it can go all the way to anal sex and what not, but if you know for a fact you don't like guys in a sexual way and just want to try it or experiment then there's nothing wrong with it and it is certainly not gay. If you're wondering if my answer is influenced, i didn't read any other post on your thread as of yet. :)

Edit - As LovelyHannah says, i do agree with the "Thin line" idea about this. I think there is a major difference between being curious and then going back for more because that could be the difference of weather it is gay or not. Even if it is considered "gay" in the end that doesn't exactly mean that is your sexuality.

-From Chris

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[Beltway]

Its not gay unless you mean for it to be enjoyed its experimenting to see how it feels like well thats how i see it i would not be doing either of those things to guys im bi but wont go that far and risk getting some type of disease.

[ksdnfkfr]

It is performing a homosexual act.
There is no escaping that.
That does not mean the person performing
the act is homosexual, but the act itself is.
But I mean it is the same as if a gay guy asked
if experimenting with a girl would mean he
was straight. It just does not work that way.

[TheBigUnit]

In all honestly, i feel many of you will object with this, but really, i sometimes feel "curious" is just an excuse for not admitting you're bi or some degree of it, it's because saying you're straight along with it makes you feel more comfortable especially amongst others, touching another guys penis on purpose shows you are at least some what attracted to other guys so, just admit it, that being said your sexuality could always change i know mine did

[ryzzz9]

In all honestly, i feel many of you will object with this, but really, i sometimes feel "curious" is just an excuse for not admitting you're bi or some degree of it, it's because saying you're straight along with it makes you feel more comfortable especially amongst others, touching another guys penis on purpose shows you are at least some what attracted to other guys so, just admit it, that being said your sexuality could always change i know mine did

Totally agree with you. It makes people more comfortable about doing stuff and not admitting that you might be bi/gay.

[teen.jpg]

All those things mean as much as you want them to. Just like no action makes you straight, nothing makes you gay. Literally you would just know.