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jimgriffin
November 16th, 2013, 05:34 PM
I really like this girl that I know. She is funny smart, sweet, beautiful, and so nice. I really want to be with her. I don't know how to show her I like her though. Just to let you know, I really do care about her. I want to have a meaningful relationship with her where I can make her feel like the most important girl in the world. Anyway, we've only know each other for about a month and a half, maybe a little bit longer. In that time though, I feel that we've made a connection. We always talk, joke around, and tease each other when we see each other. We only see each other once a week, and one week when I wasn't there she said she missed me. So I would say we are already friends, but how can I show her I want to be more. I can be a little shy, and she is the only girl I really feel comfortable with 100%. I have been asking her about herself to show her I'm interested in her, but I don't know what else to do. I don't want it to be awkward, because there are always people around us.

Derryck
November 16th, 2013, 05:45 PM
Ask her to "hang out".

Living For Love
November 17th, 2013, 08:55 AM
Just keep talking to her, trying to know her even better, and then you could perhaps ask her to have lunch. You only see her once a week, you need more time with her to develop your friendship.

JamesSuperBoy
November 17th, 2013, 11:29 AM
I really like this girl that I know. She is funny smart, sweet, beautiful, and so nice. I really want to be with her. I don't know how to show her I like her though. Just to let you know, I really do care about her. I want to have a meaningful relationship with her where I can make her feel like the most important girl in the world. Anyway, we've only know each other for about a month and a half, maybe a little bit longer. In that time though, I feel that we've made a connection. We always talk, joke around, and tease each other when we see each other. We only see each other once a week, and one week when I wasn't there she said she missed me. So I would say we are already friends, but how can I show her I want to be more. I can be a little shy, and she is the only girl I really feel comfortable with 100%. I have been asking her about herself to show her I'm interested in her, but I don't know what else to do. I don't want it to be awkward, because there are always people around us.

I would guess she already knows you care about her,

Derryck
November 17th, 2013, 11:31 AM
Just keep talking to her, trying to know her even better, and then you could perhaps ask her to have lunch. You only see her once a week, you need more time with her to develop your friendship.

Woah! Stop right there. It has been proven that girls are more likely to like you if you're not with her a lot.

Cygnus
November 17th, 2013, 12:00 PM
Woah! Stop right there. It has been proven that girls are more likely to like you if you're not with her a lot.

I completely disagree with this, if you are not there then she will go find someone else.

Living For Love
November 17th, 2013, 12:07 PM
Woah! Stop right there. It has been proven that girls are more likely to like you if you're not with her a lot.

I understand what you mean, and I didn't say he needed to be with her 24/7, but just casually arrange a meeting, having lunch, or something.

highschool
November 17th, 2013, 04:28 PM
Woah! Stop right there. It has been proven that girls are more likely to like you if you're not with her a lot.

depends on the situation...if you distance yourself too much, she'll think you don't like her. If you're too attached, she'll either start to friendzone you or actually start to really like you. It just really all depends.