jhv222
November 15th, 2013, 04:46 PM
I could write pages on this situation on I'm in, but ill try to stick to the main points to make is easier for everyone to follow.
-I am a senior in college, she is a junior.
-Her freshman year we hung out all the time, but she had a boyfriend still from high school.
-Her sophomore year, we hooked when drunk while she still had a boyfriend.
-We stopped hanging out after that and she broke up with her boyfriend.
-I tried to ask her to hang out a few times but she didn't want to.
-Once when I asked her to hang out, she said she felt like staying in for the night, but then I saw her at these same movie theatre I went to that night.
-Its been about 7-8 months since I last asked her to hang out.
-Now she is a junior and its been a year since we've hung out together.
-I see her everyday and we always exchange friendly hellos as we pass by, but nothing more.
-I have the impression she is still interested in me, but its hard to tell since we don't talk anymore. (I think this because she is always very friendly to me, which doesn't say much...but also she randomly gave me her number again when I got a new phone, I didn't even ask she just came up to me and give it to me).
I really don't know how to handle this, since every time I asked her to hang out last year she had an excuse, which I don't think she's the type of girl to lie to be mean, but was just making a white lie to reject me in a kinder way (but its not as kind once I found out haha)...I'd like to hang out with her again, but have told myself that I don't want to be the one that contacts her to hang out (since I got tired of texting/calling her and her always having an excuse). So in other words, I want to hang out again but don't want her 'walking on me' so to speak.
There is plenty more info I can give if needed, but figured if I wrote too much people wouldn't read it and help. Thanks for any advice in advance.
My current plan is when I see her again passing buy, just have some small talk and ask how things are basically...and keep doing that to see if things change.
-I am a senior in college, she is a junior.
-Her freshman year we hung out all the time, but she had a boyfriend still from high school.
-Her sophomore year, we hooked when drunk while she still had a boyfriend.
-We stopped hanging out after that and she broke up with her boyfriend.
-I tried to ask her to hang out a few times but she didn't want to.
-Once when I asked her to hang out, she said she felt like staying in for the night, but then I saw her at these same movie theatre I went to that night.
-Its been about 7-8 months since I last asked her to hang out.
-Now she is a junior and its been a year since we've hung out together.
-I see her everyday and we always exchange friendly hellos as we pass by, but nothing more.
-I have the impression she is still interested in me, but its hard to tell since we don't talk anymore. (I think this because she is always very friendly to me, which doesn't say much...but also she randomly gave me her number again when I got a new phone, I didn't even ask she just came up to me and give it to me).
I really don't know how to handle this, since every time I asked her to hang out last year she had an excuse, which I don't think she's the type of girl to lie to be mean, but was just making a white lie to reject me in a kinder way (but its not as kind once I found out haha)...I'd like to hang out with her again, but have told myself that I don't want to be the one that contacts her to hang out (since I got tired of texting/calling her and her always having an excuse). So in other words, I want to hang out again but don't want her 'walking on me' so to speak.
There is plenty more info I can give if needed, but figured if I wrote too much people wouldn't read it and help. Thanks for any advice in advance.
My current plan is when I see her again passing buy, just have some small talk and ask how things are basically...and keep doing that to see if things change.