gf mad at me - justifiably?

[quaoquarx]

so my gf is being really mad at me because she studies A LOT more than me, and i still get better grades than her. neither of us ever cheats on tests or anything like that. it's not that i don't study because i'm lazy, it's just that i don't really have much time for studying as i go to music school paralelly with gymnasium. yet, when we get test results, i always do better than her even though she studied much more. i understand she's upset about it, but she is getting mad at me for that quite frequently. what should i do? fail exams on purpose? or what?
thanks

[NeuroTiger]

Certainly you should not fail purposely.
Instead, help her with the notes.
Or sometimes revise with her.

[Living For Love]

Of course you shouldn't fail purposedely, she is jealous of you, and that's obviously not right. As your girlfriend, she should be proud of having a good student like you with her. Try to help her with studying, and tell her there's no reason to be mad for such thing. You still like her wheather she has good grades or bad ones.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Don't fail purposely and you as a person must be very kicker to learn and recall information while your girlfriend isn't as much. She should not be angry at you for this nor should she break up its you for it because it will make her look bad.

[Harley Quinn]

so my gf is being really mad at me because she studies A LOT more than me, and i still get better grades than her. neither of us ever cheats on tests or anything like that. it's not that i don't study because i'm lazy, it's just that i don't really have much time for studying as i go to music school paralelly with gymnasium. yet, when we get test results, i always do better than her even though she studied much more. i understand she's upset about it, but she is getting mad at me for that quite frequently. what should i do? fail exams on purpose? or what?
thanks

Never, ever, ever fail on purpose. You have to remember that even though she's your girlfriend, you too also have aspirations that need grades. If you fail on purpose that doesn't help or solve the issue at all. In fact, it'd probably make it worse. The thing she is annoyed about is that she works hard for the grade and she has to study for them, you don't necessarily. That isn't your fault, your brain works completely different to hers. You said yourself that you're busy doing other things and she should accept that. It's because she has someone to argue with that she does, you need to tell her how it makes you feel and it isn't fair that she is getting mad at you constantly. The situation is completely understandably though as to why she is getting angry. You could always help her, if she wants that. I do think you need to talk to her though, communication is key to every relationship, plus this issue does need resolving.

[highschool]

I honestly think you should break up with her. If she was a real gf she would be proud of your success, not jealous. She seems like she brings a lot of negativity

[othees]

Just let her get mad. It's not a bad thing.

[TheStyleGuy]

bist du deutsch?

well if she doesnt understand that some people are just smarter than others by born ability, and if that aggervates her that your smarter than you either need to sit her down and have a converstation about this that will either lead to her understanding or your going to need to break up with her cause if she always is mad at you for just being smarter than theres a big problem.