got caught

[dpriest]

I thought I was alone today after school, and was enjoying some "alone" time. I was in the middle of things when my mom's boyfriend came home. I didn't hear him come in. I was really in the moment and kinda screamed when I orgasmed. So hearing that he came in my room and saw everything and I do mean everything. Omg I was so embarrassed. He just asked if I was ok and then left. Should I talk to them about it or let him or mom bring it up?

[satarra3180]

Wow...I wouldnt say anything to him unless he brings it up. If you wanted to bring it up maybe mention something to your mom but that could be just as embarrassing.

[Stardust]

Hopefully they understand its a natural process. I would just let it slide unless you have a real desire to talk it through with them. Also be prepared for them to bring it up, this could be a sex-talk moment

[CheekyLinda]

If neither of them brings it up, and you're comfortable with it, then don't say anything

[Sandra Main]

I wouldn't say anything unless they do.
It normal and human nature to masterbate.

[Sierra98]

Like others have said, I'd just pretend it hasn't happened unless someone brings it up.. I've been caught similarly before and no one said anything about it afterwards.

[Timo-Bavaria]

i would say nothing :)
i think he knows that it´s normal and maybe because it was an hot moment he will it not tell it to your mum -- only if they will talk about, be prepared that it is a normal human thing :)

[ElijahMouth]

Nahh no need to say anything unless you really want to. I'm sure he understands and is just as embarrassed.

[Luminous]

Youch.
Don't say anything. It will only lead to more awkwardness, especially if he didn't see or suspect anything.

[Pensive]

Youch.
Don't say anything. It will only lead to more awkwardness, especially if he didn't see or suspect anything.

I think it's pretty obvious he saw it all lol... But that doesn't mean he thinks there's anything wrong with her masturbating, or that there's anything to discuss.

[emilysut]

I would pretend nothing happened.

[Taryn98]

If they don't say anything, I wouldn't say anything.

[Katiya]

Well he's a guy. He probably does it too lol. I honestly don't think he cares, other than maybe feels bad for walking in on your private time. But heck he might have liked the show haha!

I wouldn't say anything unless it bothers you. And yeah it could be time for "the talk" if ur mom knows and hasn't given you that sspeech already. Its totally normal so I don't think anyone will blow their top unless they are super religious or something.

;)

[LilAllyJ]

+1 on them having "the talk"

Personally, I would wait till everyone was together for dinner or whatever, wait till you and him connect eyes and just mouth "I'm sorry" with an awkward look on my face. There's a chance he won't tell anyone and just let it go. It would be just as awkward for him to tell your mom what he saw.

[SammyG17]

I would guess that this is probably a lot harder on him than it is on you. I would make a bet that this added some money into his spank bank. (The fantasy section men use to masturbate with) Even the most morally upstanding person in the world, would have a few flashes of "other" thoughts catching someone in the act like that. He might tell your mom, but if he does, he'd also have to admit that he had a few flashes of something not kosher.

Whether the person who catches you is family or not, the bottom line is the person is human. Humans don't naturally have moral lines separating thoughts. We are animals. So even if he did think, does think, or had a few flashes, it was normal. The same goes for you being embarrassed and worried what he'll say. But...Both he and your mom were teenagers once. And humans have been " fiddlin" with their giblits" since humans first realized they could reach em.

Different scenarios pan out from here. He offers to help/join in. You might get a talk. Your mom may go out and buy you a present of the vibrator kind. No one might say anything and it just passes away. They invite you in for a night of intense 3 way passion. They put you on the pill and tell you your allowed to bring boys back but only after you've dated for two months. The possibilities are endless. But my gut is telling me that, that more than likely, if anything at all, you'll get a talk.

[lilmisslucylee]

From my own personal experiences, just pretend like it never happened

[anyone50]

Yea I wouldn't say anything especially to your mom's bf but if you feel you have to talk to someone you should go to your mom and let her know your concerns. Just don't make a habit of letting him catch you or he could get the idea you want him to see and more.