I think my friend knows I masturbate.

[PPD777]

My friend and I were joking around in band class and I took his mouthpiece (he plays the French-horn and I play the trumpet. Oh and we're 15 by the way) well he took my left hand, which had the piece, (I'm left-handed) and said that he'd cut the hand off if I didn't give it back. Well I said that I needed that hand and he said "why so you can wank?" I said no but in a way so it sounded like I didn't mean it. So now I think he knows I masturbate. What should I do?

[From Chris]

My friend and I were joking around in band class and I took his mouthpiece (he plays the French-horn and I play the trumpet. Oh and we're 15 by the way) well he took my left hand, which had the piece, (I'm left-handed) and said that he'd cut the hand off if I didn't give it back. Well I said that I needed that hand and he said "why so you can wank?" I said no but in a way so it sounded like I didn't mean it. So now I think he knows I masturbate. What should I do?

Don't worry, it's highly common for guys to masturbate! Everyone does it! I bet your friend does it too, because it's perfectly normal~ :) If it comes out that you do, then confront him about it himself!

-From Chris

[Miserabilia]

LOL I really hope you are kidding?
You do know that basicly every guy masterbates, and that all guys know that every guy masterbates?
Did you think it was a secret or something

[marc_not_mark]

LOL I really hope you are kidding?
You do know that basicly every guy masterbates, and that all guys know that every guy masterbates?
Did you think it was a secret or something

Yup. You're 15. Everyone knows you masturbate. And if you don't think every other guy in your school does it including your friend from band, you're pretty naive.

[PPD777]

LOL I really hope you are kidding?
You do know that basicly every guy masterbates, and that all guys know that every guy masterbates?
Did you think it was a secret or something

No. I know everyone does. But still it's kind of odd knowing that he knows I masturbate.

[From Chris]

No. I know everyone does. But still it's kind of odd knowing that he knows I masturbate.

I would go up to him and ask him if he does then. Is he says yes then say you do it too; awkward for both of you which equals out to normal to both of you. :)

-From Chris

[nklarke]

Sure as you DO know he masturbates.... so....

[HSJock206]

Dude.at 15 there would be something seriously wrong if you wasn't masturbating. He knows you do and you know he does without even saying a single word to each other. IT happens bud!

[ryanpeterson832]

So what all of my friends know I masturbate and I know that they do.

[Marco97]

One of my favourite quotes - "99% of guys masturbate. The other 1% are lying."

Of course he already knows you wank. He's just acting to make you think he doesn't do it.

[deregisterme]

Of course you both do. If he winds you up about it, just state you know he does as well.

[hockeyfan]

I'm sure I do, I'm sure I do, I'm sure it normal

[cpkid09]

nothing haha. all guys masturbate once they hit like 12

[pjones]

yeah we all do it and why not? it's fun. just remember he does it too

[Hermes]

He made the joke because he assumed you masturbate. Why does he assume that? Because you are the same age, he loves masturbating and assumes you are the same as him. Nothing out of the ordinary there.

Getting more comfortable with stuff like this is all part of the transition from childhood where adults are trying to hide sexual stuff from you and it therefore seems secret and embarassing to adullthood where some kind of sexual activity whether it is masturbating or any of the other things is the norm.

[ComfortableInChaos]

Don't worry about it, man. Almost every single guy does. Even if they don't admit it, they still do it. He probably does it himself.

[smithers]

you are both 15 year old boys going through puberty
that means you are both horny like crazy and jack off
it is somewhat implied that all teenage boys masterbate unless they have some sort of religious or other thing preventing them from pleasuring themself

[Trace]

Meh, it's normal.

[VirtualGuy012]

If you don't want him to know, just don't bring it up, and i bet he won't either

[arrows]

Why would you even be embarrassed if he knows?

[Saint of Sinners]

He probably already assumed it

[ksdnfkfr]

Why do people act like masturbation is some
deep dark secret that only they know about?
Reality check: Everyone over the age of 13/14
knows you masturbate because they do it too.
Like your parents supposedly don't know you
masturbate. When you become a dad and your
son becomes a teenager, are you going to not
know that teenage boys masturbate?
Masturbation is not a secret. It is just something
that is done private.

[JIntrepid]

remind him that he does too lol

[eggs2006]

He made the joke because he assumed you masturbate. Why does he assume that? Because you are the same age, he loves masturbating and assumes you are the same as him. Nothing out of the ordinary there.

You hit the nail on the head. This is exactly right.

[salty]

Everyone jerks it

[joshylandon]

Haha don't worry about this I bet he wanks as well. Every guy masturbate. I have read that 90% of the guys on the planet masturbate, the other 10% were lying haha

[Tony223]

Its a part of a teenagers life, so its alright if he knows cause he probably does it too

[trackstar15]

He probly does it too so i wouldnt worry about it

[luq_]

Nothing special, or to worry or be embarrassed about.

[Living For Love]

I know what you mean, we all assume everyone masturbates, but we're all too shy to just tell it. Don't worry, if he brought up the topic, he also does it. You may find it odd that he knows you masturbate (although you said "no"), but you don't need to be ashamed of it.

[Collins1]

A lot of my friends (girls and boys) know that i wank. In the same way that they know every other boy they know wanks!

[benchpress]

just laugh it off and say "good one" - and get him back next time!

[Fdmember]

my friend knows I masturbate we all do!

[czooq]

My friends do and we talk about it all the time

[KoolKid96]

I don't think he knows, I think he means it as a joke. Anyway it doesn't matter if he knows. My friends know I masturbate too and they might even tell you that they masturbate too based on my experience. But usually we're all cool with it.

[NeuroTiger]

Hehe...most guy masturbate.

[ska8er]

My friend and I were joking around in band class and I took his mouthpiece (he plays the French-horn and I play the trumpet. Oh and we're 15 by the way) well he took my left hand, which had the piece, (I'm left-handed) and said that he'd cut the hand off if I didn't give it back. Well I said that I needed that hand and he said "why so you can wank?" I said no but in a way so it sounded like I didn't mean it. So now I think he knows I masturbate. What should I do?

Dude lets b honest we all wank so who cares if he knows
u get off. He gets off too an i think he wants to make a
deal with u. :yes:

[sdude]

Next time tell him nah, I need BOTH hands!!!lol

[kire]

I'm sure he masturbates too. It's not a big deal

[JoeB93772]

it really isnt a big deal

[vboy]

Come on it be wierd if you didfnt ocassionally

[SethfromMI]

I think literally every guy (or almost) our age masturbates. don't let him get to you. if he is really bothering you, try to make him feel uncomfortable back.

[asrlem]

1st i say that to all my friends and i dont mean it it is just something that is a joke for us.
2nd. If he does know he probably does it himself because most boys do it when they are teens.

[canadienudist]

I don't care if my friends know I masturbate, I know they masturbate,my parents know i do it, everyone does it, even adults. Its normal and natural

[The captain]

One of my favourite quotes - "99% of guys masturbate. The other 1% are lying."

Of course he already knows you wank. He's just acting to make you think he doesn't do it.

I agree

[built chris]

every guy does it so yeah i'm sure he knows it's no big deal.

[Semi_IronMan]

So he knows you mastubate, big whoop!. He probably does it too

[ryansmiles]

Practically every guy masturbates. It isn't anything to be worried about.

[Luminous]

Come on it be wierd if you didfnt ocassionally

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