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Rukua
November 14th, 2013, 01:35 PM
I always said I was never going to make a sad post..... but here it is.

One day I was having a terrible morning. Mum was in a crappy mood when she dropped me off at school, saying I'm lazy, she said that I disappoint her, blah blah blah, nothing I haven't heard come out of her mouth before... but today it just hit me harder than usual.. I cried almost the whole car ride there. And when I jumped out of the car, she didn't even say good bye. And I walked to my outdoor education class just sobbing.
We had to go to the beach for canoeing, so we took the bus there... I avoided everyone until we had to leave, I didn't want anyone to see me cry, because I'm usually a cheery guy.
We got on the bus and about half way there, I started daydreaming. I went through an array of ways that I could kill myself. Cutting, overdosing, jumping in front of a car, falling from a the stair case at home.... I have never thought about self harming before. and you could probably guess that I wasn't alright with those thoughts floating around my head, I was pretty hysterical. I don't want to die.
My teacher asked me if I was okay, asked if we should stop the bus and I said no, and calmed myself down, but silently sobbed the whole bus ride.

But I've been thinking about it more and more ever since then, and that was like, 2 months ago. And the thoughts are getting worse. I'm getting more and more depressed the more I'm around my family. And I don't know what to do, who to talk to? I don't know how to arrange a doctor appointment by myself. I don't know what to do. I'm not even sure this thread is allowed here, :\

If someone could give me some guidance please.... I know other people have worse problems than me on here, I just want to leave this here in-case someone takes the time to read it.

Sorry if this post wasn't allowed here.

Mynick
November 14th, 2013, 03:15 PM
You need to talk with a close friend or find an activity that helps you relax and escape from all of that, i suggest running. Don't self-harm, trust me, it's not worth it at all and it even makes things worst, more secrets more lies etc etc. Plus running does the same as cutting and it's a LOT better.
If you can, talk with your school counselor, they are there for you and they can help.
Good luck and feel free to post here anytime you need help you can also PM or VM me if you wish. :hug:

Conqueror of Hearts
November 14th, 2013, 07:50 PM
If you're family makes you feel crappy then try to be out as much as you can....spend time with your friends, call then when being around your family becomes too much. Just don't cut...when you start it is really hard to get out of it and it won't solve any problem.

Is there any way to fix some issues in the family?