Losing your virginity

[PianoJane]

My brother was having people over last night (our parents were out) and all the guys there, my brother included, were laughing at one of the guys who had not lost his virginity yet. (They were all about 17, 18 or 19).

I must admit that even I was a little shocked and started thinking something must be wrong with him. But then I started thinking: why is it not acceptable? I've not had sex yet and I'd like to think that's a good thing.

So at what age is it that it becomes "not acceptable" to be a virgin? And why?

[TommyTom]

I dont think there is any Age that it is not acceptable to be a virgin!!
And ofcourse it is personal choice but i myself wouldn't just have sex to have sex cuz that for me is bad ^^ i personally just wanted my first time to be with someone i actually loved :P And i would have waited forever till i find that Person!!
So tl;dr: it is always acceptable Teenagers sometimes are stupid and there are reasons like waiting for a Special Person to stay virgin!! :)

[SammieRose]

I will have to agree that there is no age limit on virginity. Anyone who really vows for chastity can die of old age and still be a virgin and should not be a problem whatsoever.

[kylem1229]

There is no age limit. Me? Im a virgin for life and i choose to stay that way

[Elysium]

I think it's stupid to laugh at someone or make fun of them for the choices they make in their personal life, and like others have said, I don't think there's any age limit on virginity, either. For adults in their thirties, maybe, and later, it might be a little odd to still be a virgin (or to still care about one's virginity for that matter), but it's not a good or bad thing.

[misteryme]

My brother was having people over last night (our parents were out) and all the guys there, my brother included, were laughing at one of the guys who had not lost his virginity yet. (They were all about 17, 18 or 19).

I must admit that even I was a little shocked and started thinking something must be wrong with him. But then I started thinking: why is it not acceptable? I've not had sex yet and I'd like to think that's a good thing.

So at what age is it that it becomes "not acceptable" to be a virgin? And why?

Hello Jane (i love piano by the way :lol: )
I totally think there is no problem with him. There's no age limit in regards having sex but i do think it's important to way for the right person to do it with.. Well in the beter case scenario it will be the best if you do it with the person that you married, but that is getting lost in time...

I think that kid should be proud because he's waiting for the right girl..
I think that a girl might be flattered that a kid want to wait for the right girl?
I'm i right or not really?

[parker84797]

Personally, I think that you should not do anything other hj UNTIL you are married. But that's fir a religious reason.

[jhardy]

This! Seriously, it's no ones business but your own if you are or aren't a virgin. No matter what age you are.

[Joey.]

When your ready,
You'll know when.
Some people even choose never to have sexual intercourse.
Some, wait till marriage, and end up never getting married in their
lifetime.

[Badger]

I'm 17 and still a virgin, (not necessarily by choice). I believe that if you find someone that you truly love, (i.e. not puppy love), and if you use protection, sex is fine. On the other side of that coin, I also think that two people can engage in bases 1-3; it's an excellent way of relieving sexual tension. Sadly not many believe like I do, and that is why premarital sex has become such an issue for our generation.

[CheekyLinda]

There's no limit or obligation to lose virginity; everyone should be free to decide whatever is best for them

[sqishy]

I dont think there is any Age that it is not acceptable to be a virgin!!
And ofcourse it is personal choice but i myself wouldn't just have sex to have sex cuz that for me is bad ^^ i personally just wanted my first time to be with someone i actually loved :P And i would have waited forever till i find that Person!!
So tl;dr: it is always acceptable Teenagers sometimes are stupid and there are reasons like waiting for a Special Person to stay virgin!! :)


Yes! This ^ .
I am one of those people waiting, but I know it will be worth the wait.

[Mich015]

There is no time you need to lose it by, people should do it when they feel ready

[dreamofdante]

Well I'm basically 18 and I've never kissed a girl so that must be fucking funny to you guys then.

[Emerald Dream]

There is no age limit on it being acceptable to be a virgin.

Why would anyone want others to have sex just so they say that they have done it? It's really no one's business. People should not be having sex until they are comfortable with it - physically, mentally, and emotionally. Everyone has their own idea of when the right time is.

[AlexOnToast]

My brother was having people over last night (our parents were out) and all the guys there, my brother included, were laughing at one of the guys who had not lost his virginity yet. (They were all about 17, 18 or 19).

I must admit that even I was a little shocked and started thinking something must be wrong with him. But then I started thinking: why is it not acceptable? I've not had sex yet and I'd like to think that's a good thing.

So at what age is it that it becomes "not acceptable" to be a virgin? And why?

Hey Jane i'm Irish too !!!!! i dunno tbh I lost mine but i would never judge someone for being a virgin and tbh i think its better to wait for the right person coz i got hurt :(

[jessicaann]

Its always acceptable when that's your choice