Do you actually fall into the friend zone often?

[Austins]

Honestly the only time's I've been "friend zoned" was when I actually talk to a girl hoping to be friends. Guys act like every girl just wants to friend zone the "nice guys" for the jerks. But honestly the jerks just have more game then the nice guys in my opinion haha. Here are my opinions on the "friend zone"

1) Make your intentions clear from the start, if I talk to a girl and think she's cute I will say so from the start. I am NOT going to pretend to be her friend and get caught, make your intentions clear, the introduction is the most important phase in a relationship.


2) DON'T try to diss the current relationship he/she are in, just because you weren't able to get with the girl doesn't mean you have to be the friend who gets jealous and over clingy. You know what those people are? EX friends, and no relationship.

and my favorite....

3) The friend zone IS beatable, it just matters if you have the skill and tenacity to overcome the wall. My girlfriend who i have been dating for one year next month was nothing more than a friend for about 3-4 years. And she friend zoned be, but by constantly hitting on her and playing my cards right she eventually fell for me. And yes, I mean flirting not letting the girl walk all over me hoping that one day she "opens her eyes" I was clear with my message and worked hard.



Soo everyone in the friend zone... Remember it is beatable ;)

[Hollywood]

I'm the king of being friend-zoned. I usually just let it happen, though. If I really wanted a relationship right now I would try a little harder.

[Harley Quinn]

The friend zone does not exist. One thing that annoys me more than anything is people who actually believe that the friend zone is a real thing, when it isn't. Wow a girl doesn't want to be with you or have sex with you, I must be friend zoned. No, maybe the girl actually wants to be friends with you and doesn't want to ruin the friend relationship. You are not friend zoned and you do not leave a friend zone, it just turns into a relationship not because of your excellent flirting skills but because she actually wanted to be with you. The friend zone does not exist.

[Akasuki]

I usually do the friendzoning. :P
the only time I was friendzoned was when I had a crush on a girl but she didn't feel the same way. we remained friends though up until we didn't talk anymore.

[Slender Man]

It's always on my schedule to be friendzoned.

Lol, but yea, I get friendzoned A'LOT .-.

[Austins]

The friend zone does not exist. One thing that annoys me more than anything is people who actually believe that the friend zone is a real thing, when it isn't. Wow a girl doesn't want to be with you or have sex with you, I must be friend zoned. No, maybe the girl actually wants to be friends with you and doesn't want to ruin the friend relationship. You are not friend zoned and you do not leave a friend zone, it just turns into a relationship not because of your excellent flirting skills but because she actually wanted to be with you. The friend zone does not exist.

So there is no friend zone... except for the friend zone you just explained :P just kidding, but hey if you actually know how to flirt and get someone's attention and they still just want a "friend" a smart person who wants to be more usually just moves on to someone else. I mean personally if the girl I try to hit on shows no interest i'm gonna drop that baggage and move on.

[boop95]

Everyday,

[HeyMrsTambourine]

I've friendzoned and I'm friendzoned.
"One fall for someone, who falls for another..."

[kylem1229]

Always friendzoned, since im not even going for relationships

[Fallen_Eagle]

Only when I'm really lucky

[MoonMan]

The friend zone does not exist. One thing that annoys me more than anything is people who actually believe that the friend zone is a real thing, when it isn't. Wow a girl doesn't want to be with you or have sex with you, I must be friend zoned. No, maybe the girl actually wants to be friends with you and doesn't want to ruin the friend relationship. You are not friend zoned and you do not leave a friend zone, it just turns into a relationship not because of your excellent flirting skills but because she actually wanted to be with you. The friend zone does not exist.

You literally just described the friendzone. The reason it gets a bad rep around most places is because people (mostly males) usually denote it as a negative thing because they didn't necessarily get what they want out of it, although in reality there's nothing bad about being friends with someone. The only thing that stings a little (and really defines being in the "friendzone") is when you know you want to be more than friends with someone and they don't. It's nobody's fault, you can't control who you like, but it would be a lie to say it doesn't hurt every now and again (whether you're a guy or a girl) to be put in that situation. We could refrain from calling it the friendzone, but the situation is very real and happens often.

[Austins]

You literally just described the friendzone. The reason it gets a bad rep around most places is because people (mostly males) usually denote it as a negative thing because they didn't necessarily get what they want out of it, although in reality there's nothing bad about being friends with someone. The only thing that stings a little (and really defines being in the "friendzone") is when you know you want to be more than friends with someone and they don't. It's nobody's fault, you can't control who you like, but it would be a lie to say it doesn't hurt every now and again (whether you're a guy or a girl) to be put in that situation. We could refrain from calling it the friendzone, but the situation is very real and happens often.

And half the time guys are in the friendzone is they think that being someones friends will result in more of a relationship. The first impression does matter

[Saint of Sinners]

I admit i don't really know much about it, but it seems to me making your intentions known early is the key to not fall in said zone of friendship.

[Austins]

I admit i don't really know much about it, but it seems to me making your intentions known early is the key to not fall in said zone of friendship.

I honestly do not mind falling into a friend zone with certain girls, what annoys me is when boys constantly cry about being in the friend zone when honestly it is their fault.

[Saint of Sinners]

I honestly do not mind falling into a friend zone with certain girls, what annoys me is when boys constantly cry about being in the friend zone when honestly it is their fault.


My sentiments exactly.

[Syvelocin]

Does any advice exist about how to get INTO the friend-zone? XD

[Austins]

Does any advice exist about how to get INTO the friend-zone? XD

Easy, say you want to be nothing more than friends from the start. :)

[highschool]

Yeah, I don't believe in this whole "nice guys finish last" thing. I know tons of guys that are nice and get tons of girls

[equestrian]

The only time I've ever been "friend-zoned" is when we have previously dated.

[Austins]

Yeah, I don't believe in this whole "nice guys finish last" thing. I know tons of guys that are nice and get tons of girls

It's actually "Awkward guys who can't talk to girls finish laugh" xD

[CabbageMedul]

Falling in it? Pfff, I live in it!

Seriously though, I guess in a way I do, but I'd say I don't. All my closest friends are female, and I'm really in between the gap of being gay, but not entirely, and no. Not bisexual.

In my case it really depends on how you look at it. But generally speaking, I don't feel like I get friendzoned or anything. It's only a friendzone if you make it one. ;)

[jesusogpaign]

Give this man a medal.

1) Make your intentions clear from the start, if I talk to a girl and think she's cute I will say so from the start. I am NOT going to pretend to be her friend and get caught, make your intentions clear, the introduction is the most important phase in a relationship.


2) DON'T try to diss the current relationship he/she are in, just because you weren't able to get with the girl doesn't mean you have to be the friend who gets jealous and over clingy. You know what those people are? EX friends, and no relationship.

and my favorite....

3) The friend zone IS beatable, it just matters if you have the skill and tenacity to overcome the wall. My girlfriend who i have been dating for one year next month was nothing more than a friend for about 3-4 years. And she friend zoned be, but by constantly hitting on her and playing my cards right she eventually fell for me. And yes, I mean flirting not letting the girl walk all over me hoping that one day she "opens her eyes" I was clear with my message and worked hard.

I'll just add that
1. Girls aren't machines you put kindness-coins into until they spit out sex.

2. If you think you're a nice guy, yet no girl ever wants to date you, you are probably either physically unattractive, or not actually nice and have a shitty personality. Look inward, before you start pointing the blame at others.

[Melodic]

I think friend zone is more of a rejection. And I can say I've been rejected like a dozen more times than I've actually been accepted. There's been a couple guys that I had no interest in and ended up rejecting. But I am pretty nice about it tho.

[dreamofdante]

I'm the Gatekeeper of the Friendzone.

[Austins]

Give this man a medal.



I'll just add that
1. Girls aren't machines you put kindness-coins into until they spit out sex.

2. If you think you're a nice guy, yet no girl ever wants to date you, you are probably either physically unattractive, or not actually nice and have a shitty personality. Look inward, before you start pointing the blame at others.

I couldn't agree more. And thank you :)

[indoxyl]

I really think people just use the term "friendzone" as a worse way of saying "rejected cause I'm not who they wanna be with right now" just to make the person that rejected them seem like an asshole.
cause when someone says "man i got rejected" everyones like "aw man its cool you'll find someone else" but when someone says "i got friendzoned man" everyones like "what the shit man??? that person is such a btch"