Am I the only guy who feels this way?!?!

[WarHorse]

So I always hear my friends talking about, Man she is so hot! but she will just be a girl who is wearing skimpy clothes and alot of makeup. I can never seem to be attracted to these girls, if anything they turn me off. and they always talk about sex like it's a common thing at there age. i have never had a girlfriend but I like girls with natural beauty, and a kind heart. I plan to wait till marriage for any sex but if the right girl comes along maybe. People always say (your such a gentleman!!) and nice.....ALOT I guess that's how I grew up though. but I just want more romance than intamacy, like cuddling and hugs :3. is that weird for a guy?? What do you think girls?

[kylem]

I'm the same way dude! Definitely not into the Barbie looking stick girls with tons of makeup! I like the natural look to, but when they do want to get dressed up and stuff that's cool to. I like a girl that is cool with getting covered in mud and is chill with that. I guess I'm more into the girl next door look. Usually to, girls that come with a lot of makeup, come with a lot of drama! That's usually the way they are at my school anyways. I just want to be with a girl that is herself, honest, not into drama, and likes cuddling and just wanting to be with you because she wants to, not because she can show you off to her gf's and look like shes all that, when she isn't.

[Sammy07]

That's normal, you just like natural girls. And I do too (even though I find that Nicki Minaj is sexually attractive xD )

[Elysium]

I don't think that's weird at all. In fact, I think it's a more appealing attitude than the ones you described.

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[Castle of Glass]

you are in no way alone. i am also the same. but then again, i am not sure of full what i am full interested in

[Saint of Sinners]

I guess I can relate to how you feel. You ain't alone.

[Psych0Shade]

Definitely not alone... I've never dated one of those stick thin-inch-of-make-up-barely-any-clothes and I'm happy with it... with my girlfriend we sometimes just cuddle for a few hours and talk :333

[Jordyy]

I agree fully except waiting for marriage, I don't find it attractive at all, Tho where I live thats what all the girls dress like so I guess no girls for me! xD

[Dark Unicorn]

I'm a girl and i'm just going to post on here.I'm facing the same kind of issue.Like,where'd all the gentlemen vanish to?I fear I may have to resign myself to eternal celibacy or something.I'm not into the skimpy clothes,heavy makeup look and I like to be treated with respect and romance instead of X-rated activities.It sucks but that's the way I am.

[Hollywood]

Yeah, I've never never been into that kind of stuff. I guess I'm just a simple guy.

[HeyMrsTambourine]

You actually reassure me about boys' tastes !
I used to think there was no place on earth for us "natural" girls (no it doesn't mean I don't take care of myself ;))...

[Miserabilia]

You're not alone. Even tho most people say they don't like it,,, I actualy think girls look best without make up, hair dye and fake tan.
Looking real is looking good in my opinion.

[Badger]

So I always hear my friends talking about, Man she is so hot! but she will just be a girl who is wearing skimpy clothes and alot of makeup. I can never seem to be attracted to these girls, if anything they turn me off. and they always talk about sex like it's a common thing at there age. i have never had a girlfriend but I like girls with natural beauty, and a kind heart. I plan to wait till marriage for any sex but if the right girl comes along maybe. People always say (your such a gentleman!!) and nice.....ALOT I guess that's how I grew up though. but I just want more romance than intamacy, like cuddling and hugs :3. is that weird for a guy?? What do you think girls?

I'm in that boat too man. Being a gentleman and a romantic is way better than acting like a total jackass!

[Tarannosaurus]

Natural is much better. Skimpy clothes and make up sometimes just looks ridiculous and I end up feeling sorry for the girl.

[cali_boy]

Same dude just go with the flow

[othees]

As long as you're still interesting and funny.

[equestrian]

I absolutely agree. Also, big breasts and huge buttocks shouldn't define the attractiveness of a woman. In my opinion Nicki Minaj is the caricature of NOT HOT. She's caked in makeup and her buttocks are so big it's almost disgusting.

[highschool]

i think a lot of guys might be like you but society makes it seem like most guys are just into sex and whores and stuff.

[equestrian]

i think a lot of guys might be like you but society makes it seem like most guys are just into sex and whores and stuff.

Pretty much.

[gracie135]

That's not weird at all. All guys need to think that way! Bravo :)

[ElijahMouth]

I'm exactly the same way. I can't stand the way girls dress and how guys act toward them these days. Growing up my family was/is into being natural and yourself. I hate it when guys talk about sex and how they would use girls just for sex. I want a girlfriend that's my best friend and wants to hang out because she genuinely loves me... wow we sound exactly the same. :D