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photogirl
November 12th, 2013, 09:43 PM
i am 13 and i have read post about who is ok with their dad seeing them naked. but my is not ok . my question is who is totally ok with their dad seeing them completely naked. i am i just dont care it doesnt bother me for my dad to see me naked . he cool so anyway.

Elysium
November 12th, 2013, 09:49 PM
I haven't let my dad see me naked since I was 9 or 10, before puberty. I've haven't been comfortable with anyone seeing me naked.

emilysut
November 12th, 2013, 10:18 PM
yea it doesnt bother me, but i think it bothers him more. he is always telling me to put more clothes on

Stardust
November 12th, 2013, 11:58 PM
It bothers me, I am no comfortable with anyone in my family seeing me naked.

Sandra Main
November 13th, 2013, 04:46 AM
Nobady has seen me naked since i was weee little.

SkootuGurl
November 13th, 2013, 11:29 AM
I'm ok with it

lenka11
November 13th, 2013, 12:18 PM
i am ok with sister, but not parents

lauren97
November 13th, 2013, 12:31 PM
It doesn't bother me really, there's never too many situations he's seen me naked.

Tarannosaurus
November 13th, 2013, 02:38 PM
God no I dress like a nun around him.

Sierra98
November 13th, 2013, 06:47 PM
God no I dress like a nun around him.

If he's like my dad I'm sure he approves of this. :P I don't mind him seeing me.. but I still try to avoid it.

Savvynah
November 13th, 2013, 08:00 PM
my sister sees me dont care but the rest of the family... no

Amazerful
November 13th, 2013, 08:24 PM
No, it bothers me

Tina36DD
November 14th, 2013, 11:55 AM
Nudity is kind of normal around our house...MY Dad not so much thank god...kinda creepy..It happens mostly in the summer, going from the little pool cabana to the house. Mom will walk from her room to get something out of the drier or I walk from the bath to my room..but nobody really just parades around for fun...just when were doing something or getting ready to go somewere. My Dad is cool about it and never says anything.....it just happens...If I sit in the fam room watching TV without a shirt on he will say put on a shirt or throw a blanket to me...

melissa13
November 14th, 2013, 02:25 PM
I dont mind family seeing me at all, we are all nudist at home.

jhardy
November 14th, 2013, 07:19 PM
I don't go out and parade around naked. But if my dad sees me changing, it's not an issue. I don't hide or quickly cover. He's just my dad.

bethgirl1986
November 14th, 2013, 08:18 PM
I don't have a dad anymore, but it's not a super huge deal if my mom sees me either.

dpriest
November 15th, 2013, 01:11 AM
Same here dad is ina box. But don't really care if I'm seen naked, my parts are no different than anyone else's. Some bigger some smaller. Some hairier some not so much

honeybear
November 15th, 2013, 06:31 AM
I don't understand why everyone is so hung up on being uncomfortable naked around family...nudity does not equal sex or anything like that..I'm comfortable naked I have no issue with my dad or mom seeing me naked and me them...but that's just me

Miri
November 15th, 2013, 02:37 PM
I don't care if my mom sees me naked, or even my brothers, although I don't parade around naked in my house. If they happen to see me naked though, it's no biggie. I wouldn't be embarrassed to cover up quickly or anything.

As for my dad, I mean I'd be slightly more embarrassed because he won't even let me leave the house unless he think's I'm dressed decently enough. But he made 5 kids, I'm sure he's familiar enough with the female body that it wouldn't be awkward or anything, I just try to avoid it.

whatevva
November 15th, 2013, 04:40 PM
i don't understand why everyone is so hung up on being uncomfortable naked around family...nudity does not equal sex or anything like that..i'm comfortable naked i have no issue with my dad or mom seeing me naked and me them...but that's just me


exactly!!!

Ihaveagun
November 15th, 2013, 08:00 PM
It's not a big deal for me, but I understand that most people aren't comfortable with it.

CheekyLinda
November 15th, 2013, 08:30 PM
I don't want any men seeing me naked, not even my dad.. dunno why, I just don't

Wildsassygirl
November 23rd, 2013, 09:57 PM
My dad always tells me and my sisters to put clothes on

Luminous
November 23rd, 2013, 10:09 PM
I don't think my dad has seen me naked for years and I wouldn't want him to.

BlueRaspberry943
November 23rd, 2013, 10:11 PM
I don't mind my family seeing me naked..

ClaireMarie
November 25th, 2013, 02:40 PM
I dont mind family seeing me at all, we are all nudist at home.

Same here !

ccof97
November 26th, 2013, 01:52 PM
Well my real dad has never seen me naked, because I have never met him. My mom and I see each other naked often. We don't like hangout naked, but changing clothes or from the shower to the room, etc. A few of my mom's boyfriends over the years have seen me naked and vice versa but its no big deal. It wasn't sexual at all.

San1998
November 26th, 2013, 04:55 PM
yeah. Thats right. I rember something a friend of mine told me. If god want that we wear clothes we wouldn't be born naked. We are all the same when we are naked.

anyone50
November 26th, 2013, 06:21 PM
guess were old fashion around my house I prefer to have something on around my parents and I'm sure they feel the same

mermaidfairy
November 26th, 2013, 07:10 PM
I don't like being naked around my family, but I also don't like being naked around anyone else so it's not just my family. I'm just insecure about my body.

missy_moo
November 29th, 2013, 05:24 AM
Agree with most people here. The first time you do it of course they're probably going to have a look and probably comment - Just like they would if you got a new haircut or something. But nobody cares really.

My fam weren't really as open as i'm guessing other's families on here. Never went to nude beaches or walked around the house nude all day but I used to wear a pretty long see through top with nothing else and it was just normal. I do remember my mum noticing when I decided to shave down there. I'm guessing in most families that'd be a pretty awkward conversation but it was so chilled out and cool. Love my family X

abp1999
December 1st, 2013, 10:42 PM
Nope not for me. Just too strange maybe my mom not my dad or bro.

Elvalight
December 1st, 2013, 10:56 PM
Nope, my sister gave me a big talk about nudity when I was like 7 and said she was going through puberty so we couldn't take baths together anymore( which of course made me cry since I was lonely)
I actually went around the house in a shirt and underwear until about 8-9 or so, then I just gradually started to completely cover up. My mom also gave me a big talk about modesty( she's pretty conservative) and said everyone always has to wear cloths, so I naturally became more protective of my body and never let anyone see too much, family or not.

NudistAnne
December 1st, 2013, 11:48 PM
I am completly okay with it

emily-candace
December 2nd, 2013, 02:47 AM
No!!!! I dont want my dad seeing me naked ever!!!!!

Gemma11
December 2nd, 2013, 07:10 AM
My dad hasn't seen me nude since I was about 11-12 and I think he would like to kept it that way (I don't care). My sister and mum see me nude fairly often though.

Kelsey1031
December 2nd, 2013, 12:30 PM
I don't care if my dad sees me naked. it's not like i go out of my way to have him see me but if he does its no big deal.

violetdaisy
December 3rd, 2013, 10:04 AM
I have recently realised that its really hot to get caught naked. Think I want to more :)

jessicaann
December 27th, 2013, 11:16 PM
Doesn't bother me at all. To me it would be weird to overreact and be embarrassed.

stepht
December 28th, 2013, 06:30 AM
I don't care if my dad sees me naked. it's not like i go out of my way to have him see me but if he does its no big deal.

Yup same with me (tho in my case its a stepdad). It happens its part of living in the same house and we're all family so no reason to feel embarassed or ashamed about it.

lilmisslucylee
December 29th, 2013, 03:19 AM
No doesn't bother me at all. :)

Daniella98
December 30th, 2013, 06:23 AM
I agree with Honeybear too. You shouldn't be uncomfortable being naked around your Family. They don't look at you to see if you are hot or not or to evaluate yor appearance. Your parents maybe the two persons, who it's most safe to be naked around.

jenna123
December 30th, 2013, 11:30 AM
since i reached puberty and my body started to develop ive been a little uncomfortable with people watching me naked. My mom and sister i dont really care but it bothers me a little if they catch me naked or changing, but no big deal. With my brother and father i would feel uncomfortable if they saw me naked, dont know, just weird imo. Not the end of the world but i wouldnt like it

carissaurus
December 30th, 2013, 12:52 PM
I don't like people seeing me naked, including my boyfriend. I generally like to have clothes around if I'm not in the bedroom/bathroom.

vickilynn
January 7th, 2014, 02:45 PM
My family is nude all the time at home. Now, I didn't have school for a week and a half now. I didn't leave the house at all and I have been nude since. Right now, I am sitting on our family room couch with my laptop. My dad is watching tv and yes he is nude. Nudity is the norm around here. Nudity have nothing to do with sex. We are all comfortable. We keep our house toasty and no need to cover up at all. We do the same thing as a clothed family. So all you clothed families do, we do the same things as you too, but without the clothes., that's all. :-)

Sarah_Ward
January 8th, 2014, 01:29 PM
I don't understand why everyone is so hung up on being uncomfortable naked around family...nudity does not equal sex or anything like that..I'm comfortable naked I have no issue with my dad or mom seeing me naked and me them...but that's just me

I'm not comfortable with my dad seeing me and I always wrap a towel round me when i walk from the shower to my room.

Its quite right what honeybear says for most mum's and dad's and nudity certainly does not equal sex BUT...... some dad's are 'different' and it might me a hidden 'fetish' with them and that could lead to unwanted contact so I think its best if your modest and not put yourself in a position that could have really bad consequences. Just stay safe OK!!!

Evaboo
January 8th, 2014, 08:05 PM
I don't care....I sleep and go around house naked so....

vickilynn
January 11th, 2014, 02:17 PM
Just to include from my last post, my family does the same thing as a clothed family would do. After school, I got undress and mostly won't get dresses again until Monday for school. We had a family night last night and we'd played some board games and had dinner together. My grandfather is planning to come over to watch the football game with my dad and order some pizza. We don't see nudity as sexual. It is just being very comfortable, that's it. I still hug my dad and family and don't let that negativity be in the way. I guess is how and where one grows up. I think it is harder to live in a non-nude family. My brother got out the military and was stationed oversees. He said that people in other countries are so relaxed about nudity and most families are nude in their home. He dated a woman and he left early to pick her up. She answered the door nude and he walked in to see her whole family nude. He waited until she came downstairs, clothed. Later, she said that her neighbors walk around their neighbor nude. All I know is I am very happy to live in a house that clothes isn't keeping me a prisoner and to hold my feelings. I have a lot of friends that tell me that they want to walk around their house nude but afraid. Some people walk around nude when no one else is around. I say - you are a prisoner in your mind and home. A home is suppose to be your freedom location, mentally and physically. If one feels bound in anyway, that is not one's home! And with that, my family is so close. We are all best friends. Why is someone sneaking around in their home? If one is embarrass or a shame of something, don't do it at all. Don't wait when someone leaves to do it. This is fooling themselves. I am at peace with myself. When I wake up, I can go downstairs, and be anywhere on our property ,at any time. I can see if somebody is trying to nudity is ok, by themselves, and trying to prepare to be with everyone else in the house. But if one constantly doing this. This is a problem. Family is our support and the closest people that are around us. My mom told me about her friend. Her friend would walk around the gym's locker naked in front of strangers. She would walk all around the locker and shower naked. But when my mom asked her if she was nude at home, that woman told my mom that she is never naked at home. Her family never seen her and always made sure as soon as she gets out the tub, she is wrapped up and always have her doors locked. But this lady walks around the locker nude in front of people? Why not she walk around her family that she spends so much time trying to hide, everyday? This doesn't make sense to me. She is her own prisoner and she is confused. And, maybe, we Americans are so stuck up?

Kristihey
January 13th, 2014, 08:30 AM
Nudity is no big deal at our house. I don't go to any effort to avoid my dad, he's seen me enough since I was little that I'm just me :)

sazhedison
March 17th, 2014, 06:56 AM
when i was growing up my family only had one bathroom and toilet in the house and if someone had to go when you were in the bath, they went. it isnt i get turned on, i am just not bothered because it is how we have been raised.

Rainbowfairy
March 27th, 2014, 03:00 PM
im pretty ok with my dad and family well mum/dad ect not uncles or anything, its not often it happens usually by accident or going from shower to room or when swimming.

he looks ocassionaly but never in a freeky way

Lisa R
March 27th, 2014, 05:31 PM
The only one I'm comfortable seeing me naked is my twin brother.
We see each other naked everyday as for we share a bathroom and we used to share a bedroom.
We are very close and have no hidden secrets.

vickilynn
March 29th, 2014, 01:11 AM
My dad sees me all the time. We all are naked in our home. They hardly see me clothed unless I am going to school.

oliviaa
March 30th, 2014, 11:05 AM
noooo i'm not comfortable completely naked and him seeing

Emerald Dream
March 30th, 2014, 11:55 AM
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