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Toptoptop
November 12th, 2013, 09:31 PM
I am sexually attracted to boys, but emtionally attracted to girls. I want to expriment with boys but when I see pictures of girls and stuff ill text them and think like ill date them and stuff. Like I want girls emitionally but guys sexually
tundravortex
November 12th, 2013, 09:41 PM
I am sexually attracted to boys, but emtionally attracted to girls. I want to expriment with boys but when I see pictures of girls and stuff ill text them and think like ill date them and stuff. Like I want girls emitionally but guys sexually
i have the same thing dude but dont worry its a part of puberty
Stardust
November 12th, 2013, 09:42 PM
It's a non-issue. Don't worry too much about it at your age I can almost guarantee its just cause you are new to the sexual realm and your hormones are telling you to try what you can. It's just horniness/curiousity mixed in together to make you confused.
Just don't read too much into it, this is the sort of thing that will sort itself out, if you want to experiment with the same sex then go for it. Just know whether you end up liking boys or liking girls, or if you are sexually active with both sexes, it isn't a problem and it will be ok
Extreme586
November 12th, 2013, 09:49 PM
You could just like guys and be hardwired for being attracted to guys, yet society's views might be influencing you to feel other ways. Or you could just like girls personalities more, it's hard to say, only you can be the judge of that.
As far as the society theory goes though, it's a lot different and confusing to be gay. Everything gay people are surrounded by on a daily basis such as, ads, movies, school peers, are mostly straight oriented. It's confusing in the sense that everyone is generally expected to be a certain way based on their gender.
Things are changing and people are becoming more accepting of gays, but I don't think a lot of people realize that doesn't change the fact that the majority of people in this world are straight and it still affects us strangely regardless.
From Chris
November 12th, 2013, 10:06 PM
I am sexually attracted to boys, but emtionally attracted to girls. I want to expriment with boys but when I see pictures of girls and stuff ill text them and think like ill date them and stuff. Like I want girls emitionally but guys sexually
I think you're just going through some stages right now~ Give it a couple years and you'll know what you like! :)
-From Chris
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November 13th, 2013, 06:05 PM
And? What's the problem ...
Sammy07
November 13th, 2013, 07:39 PM
I'm exactly in the same situation. I have feelings for girls, but I also have gay fantasies. I love their bodies. That's very weird...
fast8
November 13th, 2013, 08:18 PM
Most of us have that same thing to go through u will figure it soon enough don't worry about it ur fine
dtranger04
November 16th, 2013, 12:30 PM
These are normal feelings and they will pass. its just curiousity
Trace
November 16th, 2013, 12:44 PM
What I haven't seen mentioned yet is the possibility of being both:
A) Homosexual
B) Heteroromantic
This means that's you're sexually attracted to guys, but not emotionally attracted to them. So, there's something to think on. Or it could be hormones since that's the easiest thing for some to suggest.
Magnus Bane
November 16th, 2013, 01:23 PM
just wait and let things take its course. you will see in time. you will know who like and what your attracted to.
Lotie
December 20th, 2013, 09:42 PM
I am sexually attracted to boys, but emtionally attracted to girls. I want to expriment with boys but when I see pictures of girls and stuff ill text them and think like ill date them and stuff. Like I want girls emitionally but guys sexually
I am the exact same way yo, finally someone like me lol
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