I messed up and i need help!!

[Neoneyes11]

ok so last Saturday this guy i really like who i was talking to was like "Hey me and my best friend are bored, we should get some alcohol and drink!" Soo feeling pressured i texted my best friend and she said her parents were out of town and her brother could get us some alcohol but he needed $50 as a tip sooooo we were desperate so I was a complete dumbass and went into my parents room cuz i knew where their safe is and It was actually somehow open idk if my mom or dad left it open before they went to Philadelphia to meet with some friends but whatever soo i just took two of the $100 dollar bills (not knowing how much alcohol costs) and then i saw some condoms (AWKWARD AS HELL BUT I DONT HAVE ANY and neither did my friend) and I took the last 2 blue ones that was in there just in case i wanted to be "safe" and shut it so they wouldnt assume anything was taken. Well I went to my friends, drank hung out whatever and had a lot of fun well today I realised my iPod was missing and I looked everywhere for it but couldnt find it and I thought back to where i last had it and i realised I had it in my hand cuz i was on KIK when I snuck into my parents room soo i figured out i must have locked it in the safe!! Well my older brother knows the password soo i was all sweet and said "Tyler, what are you doing?? Can you please be a good brother and help me out" and told him how i left my iPod in the safe! Well it completely backfired because he was furious he said " why the fuck were you in the safe anyway? how did you get in you dont know the code?? And soooo i just tried to lie and say I was looking for something and noticed it was open and accidently left it in there before locking it.... first of all I saw you sneak out last saturday and have it on video, whatever i was gonna be a nice brother and not say anything but now you want me to break into Mom and dads safe so you can get your iPod out??? What did you even take anyway?" I said nothing I just need to get it out but he didnt believe me he said I know what they have in their its for emergencies thats why I have the code and he said tell me what you took so i told him the $200 and he flipped and said why did you need that and so i told him it was for booze and he flipped out again and I begged him to help me get out of this and I told him id do ANYTHING to make up for it and said I'd be his maid and make him food and he said "THE ONLY WAY YOUR GETTING ME TO HELP YOU IS IF YOU GIVE ME HEAD" and yea i just stood there FROZEN i was shocked

[Sandra Main]

Don't give into your brothers demands.
I was alway told to own up to your crimes and learn from it.
I would tell your mom and dad the mistake you made and ask them to fogive you and learn from it.

[Neoneyes11]

I knowww! I like triple checked that he wasnt joking!!!! My parents are fucking strict as hell! But i should mention that they are actualy me and my brothers foster parents they took us in when we were very little because our real parents died in a car crash but yea me and my brother are blood. My dad has told me that if he ever catches me having "sexual contact" with a boy that he would send me right back to foster care... but Seriously like shittttttt? i didnt know what to say so i just said fine i need more time to think but i should mention that my dad is a cop and keeps his bullets in there and from time to time he puts his gun in the safe when he has to bring it home from work a few times a week

[Neoneyes11]

he is 16 and im 14...we arent really that close though i was totally absolutely shocked when he said that to me i was just like OMG what is happening

[Living For Love]

Oh. My. God. I'm... speechless. What an idiot!! If I was a girl and the same situation happened to me, considering the type of parents I have, I would do it. But, Jesus, you're his sister, your parents died, your brother-sister relationship shouldn't be like that. On the other hand, he wants to protect your parents, and I understand that, I mean, they're your foster parents, they took you two in, and they've taken care of you your whole life. I seriously don't know how to coach you on this one, but you could tell your parents you decide to put your iPod in the safe for some time, try to somehow get 200 dollars back, and then tell your parents about the whole incident.

[emansubzero]

Lets weigh our options here... You have the choice to confess to your parents or take your brother up on his strange rather forward proposal. Judging by the sound of things though, I feel like if you go the brother route, he will continue blackmailing you for more sexual favors with the same incident. However, if you go ahead and tell your parents, they will of course be very upset with you initially and punish you, likely for a long time as well as restrict many liberties that you currently have, but eventually they will forgive you and the entire situation will be in the past (however not forgotten).

[Tarannosaurus]

Tell your parents straight out, if they find out about it later you'll just get in more trouble. Tell them about your brother's demands too, he has no right to demand that from you.