I'm Scared

[AbyssalLight7]

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The 2 things on facebook are by my girlfriend's mom, the one on skype is by her, she posted the thing on skype when I wasn't online, and it was mixed in with a lotta random messages about music and Candy so I didn't notice it for awhile. I don't know what to do or what I did. Okay, for the back story, possible causes: I just came out of the closet to her about being Bi, however we talked it over and she said she has a lot of bi friends and is totally cool with it and I still remain completely loyal to her, second, there's a girl that lives in the area (it's a small area and she's literally the only person my age in walking distance) that I spend a a lot of time with, but I don't like her like that and she's 100% lesbian and my girlfriend knows this. I don't know what to do, please help, also if I left out anything it's fine to ask. Advice?

[workingatperfect]

Really all you can do is get a hold of your girlfriend and ask her what's wrong.. It could just be that your mood has changed lately or you've been standoffish without realizing, so she asked that question. And not getting an answer could've confirmed her fears that you're losing interest. Assure her that no feelings have changed and just straight up ask if you did something wrong.

[Saint of Sinners]

Maybe you're somehow behaving strangely. If like you said nothing has changed then remind her that. Then remind her a couple more times to drill in the message.

[Hundred Spirited God]

its clear to me whats wrong,she think your childish,i know cause what you said about candy and music,and it seems she has a problem with it,women say their fine even though their not,try talking to her,and if that doesnt work,then find a girlfriend who wants you for who you are

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Talk to her, and then after if the need arises, talk to her mum. You can't solve a problem without knowing what it is or communicating :)

[Melodic]

Talk to her, don't make assumptions because it could be anything.

[photojared]

yeah there is a clear problem, by you telling that you're bi she may have took it the wrong way and let her imagination run wild to show that you might leave her, plus the other girl that's in walking distance could show another version of you leaving her. the only advice that could be useful would just to have a straight up talk about this and you need to confirm her that you love her and will not leave her

[AbyssalLight7]

its clear to me whats wrong,she think your childish,i know cause what you said about candy and music,and it seems she has a problem with it,women say their fine even though their not,try talking to her,and if that doesnt work,then find a girlfriend who wants you for who you are

She was the one talking about candy and music, I didn't say anything about it, she said all this when I was offline.

[Hundred Spirited God]

She was the one talking about candy and music, I didn't say anything about it, she said all this when I was offline.

Sorry,i meant to say "you described" what happen,but like i said,try doing what I said and i promise you it will work out :)

[AbyssalLight7]

To any who read this, don't bother posting, we broke up. No more advice needed.