Help :(

[Paladino]

Every so often I go through fazes of wondering if my girlfriend is right for me. Constantly googling "How to know when you're in the right relationship". Most of the things match up to us. We have been going out for 8 months and obviously there is the "honeymoon" period or whatever, but I think that's coming to an end for us, my friend said its okay when the honeymoon period ends, in fact most people do, and he has being out with his girlfriend for just over 4 years on and off and they seem happy.

I enjoy spending time with her, she makes me laugh, makes me happy, and we can talk a lot of shit for hours at a time. There is nothing really there that indicates the relationship is not right. I love her so much and when I think of us not being together anymore it makes me feel sad, so I know its not much to go on but if anyone else had similar experiences could you please please please help me and give me advice, I think it might be mind playing tricks on me because my mind does that a lot, just my mental state I think.

[highschool]

i feel like you answered your own question.

[Paladino]

What do you mean?

[Saint of Sinners]

The answer is yes. Yes she is.

[Paladino]

what?

[Blood]

Why exactly don't you think she's right? What's keeping you from believing she's the one? There had to be a reason you're doubting this relationship.

[Castle of Glass]

I enjoy spending time with her, she makes me laugh, makes me happy, and we can talk a lot of shit for hours at a time. There is nothing really there that indicates the relationship is not right. I love her so much and when I think of us not being together anymore it makes me feel sad

stop over thinking it. you answered your own question with that statement. your all clear and in the green for now

[Melodic]

I get that way too sometimes. Just let it go and live in the moment with your relationship, don't overthink it cuz then it will make things worse.

[Paladino]

Why exactly don't you think she's right? What's keeping you from believing she's the one? There had to be a reason you're doubting this relationship.

The worst thing about it is I don't even know.

[Blood]

The worst thing about it is I don't even know.

Well everybody else is saying just stick with her and stop overthinking it, but I'm the type of person that likes to listen to my instincts. If you really feel that something is off, you should try talking to her about. Bring it up casually and see how she responds.

Just keep this in mind: you love her, you said that yourself. She makes you happy. Don't start talking about it as if you wanted to break up. She sounds like a catch and you don't want to lose her.

[Paladino]

Right thanks, I've spoke to her about it and she feels like I'm pushing here away and I felt like I was unintentionally and quite recently I've been taking ecstasy and I think it could be messing with my mind too, but I'm seeing her today so all should be well :).