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BlackboardTest
November 10th, 2013, 03:00 PM
How many of you have friends w/ benefits? I have (a secret) one and I've always wanted to know if a majority of people out there have one.

What have you done with him/her? I've only done oral w/ mine.

Swagging god
November 10th, 2013, 04:07 PM
Yes I have like 4 now that I live on my own

BlackboardTest
November 10th, 2013, 04:09 PM
4? Haha thats a lot.

kylem
November 10th, 2013, 04:10 PM
fwb, could be fun maybe:cool:

Stardust
November 10th, 2013, 04:27 PM
I have one that i've been on and off with for awhile, it's a weird situation but he's kind of like a recurring default (sounds mean to put it like that but yeah). I lost my virginity to him and we've done pretty much everything

drmindfreak
November 10th, 2013, 04:29 PM
I currently have 2, we basically make out, sometimes we touch and stuff.

Mutah
November 10th, 2013, 06:01 PM
I had one, all we did was oral. Nothing more.

highschool
November 10th, 2013, 06:17 PM
I had one, all we did was oral. Nothing more.

this

emilysut
November 10th, 2013, 10:48 PM
yea i have 2, 1 guy and 1 girl

LouBerry
November 10th, 2013, 11:37 PM
Nope, not for me.

TommyTom
November 11th, 2013, 04:53 AM
Haha thats nothing for me :)
To each their own as they say :)
But for me it was and always will be a gf that i love :) Which i have currrently so the thought didnt even cross my mind .-.

NeuroTiger
November 11th, 2013, 07:00 AM
That's not something I'll ever consider practicing.

tundravortex
November 11th, 2013, 07:21 AM
I have 2...1 girl and her brother,gone all the way with both of them

CoolCaliGuy
November 11th, 2013, 02:43 PM
I have had two in the past.
One that comes every summer

EneasR
November 11th, 2013, 04:04 PM
dont have any

Codeblue
November 11th, 2013, 04:16 PM
I have had several over that last few yrs......still friends with all of them...just dont hook up with them all anymore.

Castle of Glass
November 11th, 2013, 04:30 PM
never had one. and highly doubt i ever will

Sandra Main
November 11th, 2013, 04:39 PM
None for me.
I don't think i would be comfortable unless i loved him.

Ozymandias
November 11th, 2013, 05:08 PM
None for me.
I don't think i would be comfortable unless i loved him.

Respect.

--

I am not into 'loveless' sex. That is what porn people do (although they do it for money).

And even if I do it, I will definitely regret it the day I do it with the girl I truly love.

ElijahMouth
November 11th, 2013, 05:16 PM
I sort of have one. Haven't done much at all though, because of not living very near to each other. It's weird, sometimes I enjoy having her and on other occasions I feel guilty and stupid, and I want a real significant other.

tdb35
November 11th, 2013, 05:39 PM
never had one, dont like the idea

ninja789
November 11th, 2013, 05:44 PM
ive got 2 guys

boop95
November 11th, 2013, 06:32 PM
No, just NO.

schoolgirlz
November 11th, 2013, 07:30 PM
3 guys all at age 13, just oral

Rascaldog24
November 11th, 2013, 09:09 PM
I have a "few" male fwb and we go all the way

lancezer
November 11th, 2013, 09:35 PM
I had 3 two girls 1 guy the girls kissing touching etc...
And the guy just j off and once bj then never again just girls now
Haven't done much still a virgin

AlexBoy
November 12th, 2013, 02:56 AM
me and my best mate always swap bjs with each other when we stay over each others place

shinodas
November 12th, 2013, 03:35 AM
i never had an "established person" for this, more like series of one night stands with different people, not that many though, and with most of them only once ever (thus one night stand) also included couple walks of shame :D oh good ole times! I found it more simple than regulars, since they could get attached

Savvynah
November 12th, 2013, 04:43 AM
None. Haven't found any1 that I trust.

Staci
November 12th, 2013, 04:24 PM
How many of you have friends w/ benefits?

What have you done with him/her?

I have/had more than one, and have done just about everything I guess.

Fillie
November 12th, 2013, 07:58 PM
I've had two, one of whom went on to become my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We did everything that people who have sex do.

misteryme
November 15th, 2013, 04:06 PM
ive got 2 guys

Wow i only had one but they moved and i don't even have her email :?
Don't they get jellous?

ninja789
November 15th, 2013, 04:28 PM
not really
they dont know much about each other
they are in different schools and stuff

misteryme
November 15th, 2013, 05:04 PM
not really
they dont know much about each other
they are in different schools and stuff

Wow. Well i was lucky to get my friend with benefits. But how in the world that happens?
Is it something like, 'hey, will you be my friend with special permission?'' :lol:

ninja789
November 15th, 2013, 06:03 PM
both were guys i had started to make out with at parties and it just became a habit when I was with one of them

isiah_
November 15th, 2013, 06:26 PM
Yes, I have one. We pretty much do everything; a lot of people say that we'll end up together in the end.

CheekyLinda
November 15th, 2013, 06:29 PM
All of us in the volleyball team are kinda FWB's (as in we would touch each other and play during team sleepovers); but full-blown FWB's, I have 2

misteryme
November 16th, 2013, 11:31 AM
both were guys i had started to make out with at parties and it just became a habit when I was with one of them

Oh... Well.. i don't go to parties that Much :confused:
Hahaha...
any way, i have no FWB anymore...
But i dont know if it its bad or no..

parker84797
November 16th, 2013, 04:47 PM
I wish

loki2000
December 5th, 2013, 12:37 PM
have 2.. we beat off and do oral

hipster101
December 5th, 2013, 05:46 PM
I have one, we're friends...and we do stuff...I mean I'd cut it off immidiatly if I started to date someone...I may have a friends with benefits but I don't cheat. It's with an ex...she took my virginity....

MechaSniper
December 5th, 2013, 05:53 PM
I have none. but I'm still happy.

Difrent47
December 5th, 2013, 07:25 PM
Well, I've had a couple of offers but I haven't taken them. I don't know if I will take them. Maybe when I get desperate enough haha

Cowboycalfroper70
December 5th, 2013, 10:39 PM
I have one. We mainly just talk dirty

melissa13
December 6th, 2013, 01:41 PM
I have one gf i play with alot, and two guys that i play with. second guy is just a friend that love to give me oral as much as i love to give him oral.

Pittsburgh
December 6th, 2013, 02:12 PM
I have one, its great but cannot get serious

JayDilla
December 6th, 2013, 07:18 PM
I have one so far..talking to another girl..but I'm just having fun with one right now :)

hoboliz
December 6th, 2013, 07:28 PM
Well my best friend. We've been, um, benefitting since we were little. My next door neighbor is probably the only guy that fits the definition. The biggest benefit is that he's a musician and constantly throws parties, so I get to meet a lot of acquaintances with benefits too.

gliderman
December 9th, 2013, 06:38 AM
I have one!

collapsing_rain
December 9th, 2013, 06:52 AM
I have none! I really hope that will change.

star_wars_man
December 9th, 2013, 11:30 PM
omg! me and a friend were talking about that! her bf doesnt satisfy her annd (im a horny freak) told her i would if she wanted and we may actually do something soon! wish me luck! haha

Alexx99
December 10th, 2013, 12:06 AM
I have 3. 1 guy and 2 girls. We've gone all the way multiple times. We have lots of fun lol :P.

Theekshana
December 10th, 2013, 02:45 AM
i guess i can say i've had 2. both of them much older. and i lost my virginity to one of them. i don't regret it in any way either.

Savvynah
December 10th, 2013, 08:05 AM
I'd be more comfy with a girl than a guy... The guys always want to go farther than I am comfortable with

KellyNC
December 10th, 2013, 05:10 PM
I've had one for the quite a few years and we've been doing everything pretty regularly for the past 3.

CheekyLinda
December 10th, 2013, 05:18 PM
I guess I could say all of us in the volleyball team are kinda FWBs, we masturbate together, skinny dip and have naked sleepovers when we are able to.

But, strictly speaking, I have 2 girls I've gone down on and scissored with

Mich015
December 22nd, 2013, 12:34 PM
I have 2 boys i regularly have sex with that are my steady FWBs. Their are 5 girls that are good friends that i mess with but never considered them FWBs

Myxox
December 26th, 2013, 09:22 AM
I've had a few in the past, we would do everything together a couple times a week. They were all really good friends and I still talk to them.

jessicaann
December 26th, 2013, 04:13 PM
Sure. As long as both people have the same understanding I don't see an issue. Friends can make really fun lovers

Sarah1996
December 27th, 2013, 02:45 PM
I've had two in total.

jessicaann
December 28th, 2013, 09:51 AM
I'm 16 bi and def not ready for a relationship. My guy fwb Is an older guy who was my first (l wanted someone experienced). I may fool around with other guys, but when I want to do everything with a guy it has to be my fwb. He's a great partner and we make sure we both have a fun time. I'm more open sexually with girls but never exactly thought of them as fwb.

JonBarleyCorn
February 9th, 2014, 03:36 PM
Had one. It was awesome. We always pushed each other to try new and diff things. She was cute and nice but kinky like hell. Still, one thing. FWB ends at some point. If someone gets attached it can get ugly.

Croconaw
February 9th, 2014, 03:38 PM
I've never had one and I don't believe in them.

AlexOnToast
February 10th, 2014, 07:21 AM
I guess I could call my best friend one, but it really depends on what constitutes a FWB...

Zachary G
February 13th, 2014, 05:25 PM
i have had one since i was 12 and we have gone all the way

TheMasterRassilon
February 13th, 2014, 08:54 PM
Nah I don't. It feels like they're just tools. Nothing really romantic.

PatrickV
February 13th, 2014, 09:01 PM
I have had. not anymore

Jason98
February 14th, 2014, 12:01 AM
How many of you have friends w/ benefits? I currently have 2 female fwb's. They are both close friends who I have known since I was like 6 or 7 years old. I have had 2 girl friends over the years, but didn't get much outta it except drama and they ultimately didn't work out. With my fwb's there is no romantic entanglements, just getting each other off and pleasuring each other and having fun

What have you done with him/her? h/j's, b/j's and full on vaginal sex

DarkHorse4eva
February 19th, 2014, 11:04 AM
i don't have any, but i got a boyfriend instead :)

Jay98
February 19th, 2014, 02:28 PM
Yes i have a few

Luminous
February 19th, 2014, 03:10 PM
I don't have any.

Lisa R
February 19th, 2014, 07:15 PM
I don't have any. Only for my husband to be he will be my best friend with benefits .
Still a virgin.

backjruton
February 19th, 2014, 09:14 PM
My friend in college (girl) wants to be my friend with benefits but I just turn her down because I really don't think too much about girls in that way

I would be completely happy to have one if it was a guy though :D (but they would have to be around the same age as me with a similar personality)

Dwemer
February 20th, 2014, 05:59 PM
Never had one but at times I do wish I had.

DisneyPrincess27
February 22nd, 2014, 11:02 PM
I use to have 3 but, I only have 2 now.

Hermes96
February 23rd, 2014, 06:53 AM
Nope no FWB for me although i would'nt say no if it was with the right person

pjones
February 23rd, 2014, 11:06 AM
have recently talked about this with a friend and he is open to it, but neither of want to go all the way

Ethe14
February 23rd, 2014, 11:11 AM
Yes I have one, one of my good friends.

ksdnfkfr
February 23rd, 2014, 11:18 AM
My bestie Ryan. Somewhere between FWB and boyfriends. Def very best friends.
Cuddle, make out, hj, bj.

HGRAP
February 23rd, 2014, 01:02 PM
I've had a few FWB, only done oral with them so far

Collins1
February 23rd, 2014, 07:10 PM
I don't but i want 1

hotgirlwtits
February 23rd, 2014, 09:01 PM
I dont have one it has always been just me and my boy friend

RCT109
March 6th, 2014, 12:58 AM
I kind of wish i had one atm

boarder67
April 5th, 2014, 09:36 AM
I used to have one and we would have sex

shelby_caligurl_2000
April 13th, 2014, 02:29 AM
haha this is funny cuz ive talked about this before on here. i've actually had a couple of friends with benefits. ive done pretty much everything with them, mostly just sex but bjs,hjs and they've eaten me out. if they ask for anal i won't say no, but anal for me is either really really good or sometimes it hurts a little. as long as they get me off then we're good lol

biancachica
April 13th, 2014, 01:42 PM
I was friends with benefits with my exbf once because i needed to satisfy my needs sometimes. It was better than sleeping with random guys cause he knew what i like. we pretty much did everything but we most often did oral sex, hjs, fingering. I also was friends with benefits with one of my best friends cause we are both bicurious.

plebble
April 13th, 2014, 03:48 PM
I haven't, but I think I would if I had a female friend close enough

Danagal
April 14th, 2014, 01:23 AM
FWB is perfect for me. Can't understand why others have a hard time finding anyone.

pogobowl_1
May 3rd, 2014, 10:43 AM
I have one, but we sadly haven't done anything

JayDilla
May 3rd, 2014, 11:53 AM
I have two friends with benefits and so far everything is good at the moment :)

everlong
May 3rd, 2014, 11:59 AM
I've never had one. I've always been curious about it, though.

ItsBrad
May 3rd, 2014, 08:08 PM
just the one

Jade99
May 3rd, 2014, 09:33 PM
I have 1 guy and 1 girl fwb. Me and the guy friend have done everything but sex so far.

digzchickz
May 3rd, 2014, 10:22 PM
i have never had one, i have only had sex with my gf, but if i was not in a relationship i would be open to having a fwb.

ozteen
May 3rd, 2014, 11:08 PM
lt's what friends are for!!!!

meme101
May 4th, 2014, 01:25 AM
I love having them, word of advise don't get too emotionally attached it ruins everything I actually have done that, never again

DamoMac
May 4th, 2014, 04:36 AM
After getting out of a 4 year relationship, i landed myself one, and it's been great, we both love it. I feel a little guilty at times, but we both understand what we want so it works well.

Chrisscotland
May 5th, 2014, 12:02 PM
ive got one, a pal of mine, we just started kissing and not much else yet

DeeHaz
May 6th, 2014, 09:07 PM
I wouldnt call them FWB- but I've got a small group of mates who are open to sexual feelings :P

BabyGirl98
July 6th, 2014, 02:29 PM
I have one. We've done pretty much everything lol.

Toxicity
July 6th, 2014, 02:38 PM
I have had one, but it ended badly because of emotional attachments.

pogobowl_1
July 9th, 2014, 05:36 PM
I'd have one if she wasn't taken right now.

Harryboh
July 10th, 2014, 02:21 AM
yeah i have one

sjfz
July 10th, 2014, 02:22 AM
I had an FWB for my junior and senior year of high school, and we had sex almost everyday. Another one of my closer girl friends in HS gave me blowjobs every once and a while.

Now, though, I've got a couple I mess around with since I no longer live with my parents.

johny1996
July 10th, 2014, 03:26 AM
I have had one, she is older then me now she is engaged so we ended it..

Kyle14
July 10th, 2014, 03:58 AM
Yeah. But we only do oral. She doesnt want to have sex. Im ok with that.she is real good at oral

honeybear
July 10th, 2014, 06:16 AM
I have 3 guys and 2 girls that I can call and know I can get some..lol...

Kyle14
July 10th, 2014, 10:06 AM
I guess I do. Neighbour girl.

CrazyPerson101
July 10th, 2014, 11:13 AM
I did but every time I find someone like that, I move away so currently, I don't have a friend with benefits :/

AdrianField
July 10th, 2014, 01:47 PM
Ish never seen eachother naked we are baby FWB like betting and boob grabbing and junk

hockeyfan
July 10th, 2014, 11:24 PM
I do not. I don't personally know anyone r age that does.

cdaacd
July 20th, 2014, 04:28 PM
I've had a few and currently have 3.

morsar
July 29th, 2014, 12:09 AM
I have a few: sleepovers are fun...

Hideous
July 29th, 2014, 12:10 AM
I don't have any.

Cognizant
July 29th, 2014, 09:45 PM
No i don't, but I definitely wouldn't mind having one.

Satsuki
July 30th, 2014, 09:28 AM
I hav one friend with benefits that keep him close t o me but i date other guys or make relationships

Darude - Sandstorm
July 30th, 2014, 09:36 PM
No I don't and haven't.
Though I wouldn't mind one now that you mention it :)

Biba
August 7th, 2014, 12:32 PM
At the moment i have one. we are more like good friends, but have sex from time to time.

cdaacd
August 7th, 2014, 12:41 PM
How many of you have friends w/ benefits? I have one at the moment but have had several in the past.

What have you done with him/her? We have sex.

Goatzbro
August 8th, 2014, 07:36 PM
I do not have one, but I wish to have many!

Chrisrsnow
August 9th, 2014, 02:18 AM
I have a couple right now. Both girls. One who I just fool around with on a regular basis and share a lot with, the other who is a hook-up friend, kinda a booty call friend, who only calls me when she wants it. Who am I to complain? Have had others but they fizzled out due to relationships or distance.

sixguy6
August 9th, 2014, 08:49 AM
I've never had a gf and all the girls I were with were basically FWB but now that I met this girl, I don't have them anymore. But at one time I had like around 10ish

coolkid016
August 9th, 2014, 01:31 PM
had one.. a girl and we just felt on each other a lot in class... almost did it at my house but my mom was home

dreamofdante
August 9th, 2014, 01:32 PM
Too ugly to ever have one.

joel-d
August 10th, 2014, 03:22 PM
I don't have any, and haven't had any so far. I'd be curious about having a male friend who was comfortable with maybe jerking off together. I don't think I could do the FWB thing with a girl because it would be too confusing a line between a relationship and just sex.

Removed_Profile
August 10th, 2014, 03:31 PM
I never have had one

HadesLady
August 11th, 2014, 07:58 AM
Had one.All we did was BJs and HJs

Klokotnitza
August 11th, 2014, 07:58 AM
I do,and it doesn't seem to work for me,i fell in love.

Pensive
August 11th, 2014, 09:46 AM
As i am not disgusting and a decent person with self-respect - No. I don't have a 'friend with benefits'. That phrase is just a sticky plaster to cover up the fact it's just plain old slutty (:

shaune
August 11th, 2014, 02:02 PM
I wish I had one,lol

PythonProject
August 29th, 2014, 09:12 AM
I've had 3 so far and done practically everything :D

DCManchester2014
August 29th, 2014, 02:05 PM
Yes. She is my ex-GF, we get together when we are single, HJ, BJ and Sex.

asmith1106
September 14th, 2014, 12:37 PM
I have 4, two girls and two guys

Christen
September 14th, 2014, 12:45 PM
i am avoiding a strict couple relationship to a guy or a girl atm.
as i am bisexual it would be hard to limit myself to one partner.
most of my closer friends could be descrubed as friends with benefits i think

CheshireJess
September 14th, 2014, 12:55 PM
I have several, all for full sex.

JimmyP
September 17th, 2014, 05:06 AM
I kind of have one. I lost my virginity to her on my last birthday. I was hanging out with her and her girlfriend at her gf's house (she's bi, but her gf is gay) and they decided to give me a birthday present.

So she and I went into her gf's room and did it in her bed. We'd talked about maybe doing it before and we planned on doing it again but we haven't.

Karkat
October 11th, 2014, 12:11 AM
I sort of kind of have one now, but we haven't done anything yet.

SethfromMI
October 11th, 2014, 02:26 PM
I have had a guy and a couple of girls. the girls were def hotter (not that the guy was bad), but doing the whole friends with benefits things is always easier to do with guys (usually).

Laraa.01
October 13th, 2014, 04:23 PM
I've had 2, one current. He's a secret from the majority of my friends though as there would be a sh!t storm if people found out.

JohnA1997
October 14th, 2014, 01:30 AM
i dont have any want one tho so girls any takers lol

Whiskers
October 29th, 2014, 09:06 AM
I don't think I would want one

Uranus
October 29th, 2014, 09:09 AM
I don't want one. I got a gurl and I ain't leaving her so yea.

tatoluca
November 2nd, 2014, 01:13 PM
yep 1 girl and 1 boy

Biba
November 4th, 2014, 11:19 AM
My first sex was with my best female friend. She was a virgin aswell and we came in talk about and agreed that we wanted to have the first time with each other. So we did and also fucked a few times afterwards. I think one can call that FWB?

Daniella98
November 5th, 2014, 05:28 PM
I have both female and male. We've done most of what turns us on. We use eachother to explore sex and practise