Girl Problem

[Nottoocool]

So I like a girl romantically, not sexually at all. I have never crushed on girls before and have kinda always suspected I wasn't straight. I like a guy in my grade too (Sexually and Romantically) but I am completely closeted. People know I like the girl and have been trying to get me to ask her out, but I keep stalling. I go to a Catholic school but everyone is cool about gays, even the priest, so no worries there. I just don't feel ready to come out. Also, should I feel guilty about liking the girl but being gay?

[satarra3180]

First...kudos to your school for being super cool..and second, no you should not feel guilty at all...about being gay or about not wanting to come out yet. Nowadays I feel like "coming out" is not even necessary. Can you do like a group hangout with the girl and other friends?

[Nottoocool]

First...kudos to your school for being super cool..and second, no you should not feel guilty at all...about being gay or about not wanting to come out yet. Nowadays I feel like "coming out" is not even necessary. Can you do like a group hangout with the girl and other friends?

Yeah that's what I was thinking with the group thing. Also, yeah my schools weird because everyone is soooo conservative (including myself) on everything but gays

[satarra3180]

Ha that is weird but a good thing. Go for the group hangout. Do you know if the other girl has romantic feelings for girls too?

[Nottoocool]

Ha that is weird but a good thing. Go for the group hangout. Do you know if the other girl has romantic feelings for girls too?

I'm a guy lol

[satarra3180]

Ha sorry...I saw that after I posted and was like oops ha...but either way I hope it works out :)

[Living For Love]

You shouldn't feel guilty for being who you are. Just follow your heart. If you don't immagine yourself with a girl, and if you don't feel attracted to her, then don't try to start something with her.

[sqishy]

So I like a girl romantically, not sexually at all. I have never crushed on girls before and have kinda always suspected I wasn't straight. I like a guy in my grade too (Sexually and Romantically) but I am completely closeted. People know I like the girl and have been trying to get me to ask her out, but I keep stalling. I go to a Catholic school but everyone is cool about gays, even the priest, so no worries there. I just don't feel ready to come out. Also, should I feel guilty about liking the girl but being gay?

You shouldn't feel guilty for being who you are. Just follow your heart. If you don't immagine yourself with a girl, and if you don't feel attracted to her, then don't try to start something with her.

Yes, I agree to this ^ . But it sounds like you have feelings for her, so go for it. On coming out, give subtle hints and/or don't lie when/if people ask you. Good luck!