Boyfriend&parents help! Please read.

[Prettyblue3yes]

Ive been dating a guy for about 11 months now, my parents know about him and have met him but problem is I never see him durimg the school year much. By the way were both 14. We both go to different schools about 15 minutes away from eachother.So I always go to his town but we can never hangout. He lives in one city and I live in another. But our cities are really close. I really want to hangout with him this sunday but I'm so nervous to ask my mom. I feel like if I ask her shes gonna think im gonma have sex with him! But im not ! Its just I feel extremely left out too! All my friends parents are cool with them hanging out with there boyfriends. Any advise? What should I say to my mom to make her say yes.

[LouBerry]

Just ask her about it and see what she says. If she doesn't want you to, then see if you can compromise with her.

[NeuroTiger]

Be trustworthy enough, she'll then most probably give you such freedom.

[Living For Love]

Tell her that he's a good influence to you, that he makes you feel happy and not stressed, and that you're only hanging out a bit with him, nothing more.

[Body odah Man]

14 seems a bit young to be allowed to hang at your bf's house so your mom will probably say no. Still I'd reccommend showing your maturity and using it as an argument as to why you deserve it. Suu6

[Luminous]

If you are a mature, trustworthy person, then she will let you go. If you're not, then you probably shouldn't go anyways.. No harm in asking, the worst thing she can say is no.

[the9FOOTBAL7one]

i would say just ask or maybe if she doesnt feel comfortable you going there she will let you invite him over to your house so she is there but you never know until you ask, but i would reccomend not even mentioning to her that you are not going to have sex, if you dont mention it she will think its not even on your mind where is if you do mention it she will think you have it on your mind and be more hesitant to allow you and him to hang out just talk to her and maybe compromise and set some ground rules, i know when i first started dating my girlfriend if i went over her house we were not allowed in her bedroom and were not even allowed upstairs alone it kind of sucked or whatever but it was still better then not being able to spend time with her