shes moving... :(

[TheStyleGuy]

so the girl i like is moving during the christmas break, i found this out today and i was going to ask her out this week. I had a good feeling she would say yes. Now for my question, should i still ask her out even tho shes moving this christmas or should i just make sure she has the best last month of being here?


(FYI we live in Germany and she's moving back to america)

My reasons why i want to ask her out
-shes been a good friend and i think she also likes me
-this would be my first relationship and if i let this pass who knows when the next girl comes around

[Cygnus]

Ask her out, give her a month she will never forger, even if she says no, make sure she has fun in her last month. I know you can do it.

[drmindfreak]

Do not. It's gonna hurt you and it's gonna hurt her. Moving outs are already painful by themselves, don't make it any worse.

[Mynick]

Ask her out, give her a month she will never forger, even if she says no, make sure she has fun in her last month. I know you can do it.
Agree with most of this, give her a month she won't forget, but i don't think you should ask her out. You would hurt her feelings, and yours too, since she is moving.

[ClaireS]

Ask her out, give her a month she will never forger, even if she says no, make sure she has fun in her last month. I know you can do it.

This!

[highschool]

Do not. It's gonna hurt you and it's gonna hurt her. Moving outs are already painful by themselves, don't make it any worse.

100% correct

[Charlie48]

ouch that's a tough one man... I guess listen to what the girls on here say. :)

[NeverFazed]

so the girl i like is moving during the christmas break, i found this out today and i was going to ask her out this week. I had a good feeling she would say yes. Now for my question, should i still ask her out even tho shes moving this christmas or should i just make sure she has the best last month of being here?


(FYI we live in Germany and she's moving back to america)

My reasons why i want to ask her out
-shes been a good friend and i think she also likes me
-this would be my first relationship and if i let this pass who knows when the next girl comes around

Tell her to hit me up Here,Im in Los Angeles.


J/K Bro lol..just make sure you at least get a kiss!

[TheBigUnit]

so the girl i like is moving during the christmas break, i found this out today and i was going to ask her out this week. I had a good feeling she would say yes. Now for my question, should i still ask her out even tho shes moving this christmas or should i just make sure she has the best last month of being here?


(FYI we live in Germany and she's moving back to america)

My reasons why i want to ask her out
-shes been a good friend and i think she also likes me
-this would be my first relationship and if i let this pass who knows when the next girl comes around

The wooorst feeling in the world isnt it??? And yes ask her out immediately and live it up with her, make it a month she'll never forget for fucks sake do crazy stuff like nothing thatll get you arrested or her pregnant of course but like go nuts

[Saint of Sinners]

Ask her out. Make the most of it while you can. The pain of loss is way less then the pain of knowing you never tried.

[Hundred Spirited God]

she will change her mind,bad things are happening now,but good comes out of it,give her a week and she won't move out,i know this,cause i've sitting in this house for 1-2 years not making any friends,and theres a lot of bad negativity in our house,but i got wisdom from those 2 years of pain :)

[Melodic]

Every relationship is different and some aren't strong enough for distance. But you still should give it a shot and see what happens. People usually base long distance on statistics and previous relationships, but no one seems to think all relationships are different.

[TheStyleGuy]

she will change her mind,bad things are happening now,but good comes out of it,give her a week and she won't move out,i know this,cause i've sitting in this house for 1-2 years not making any friends,and theres a lot of bad negativity in our house,but i got wisdom from those 2 years of pain :)

i have no idea what you are saying....this makes exactly no sense

[Cece14]

Ask her out:)

[TheStyleGuy]

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[TheStyleGuy]

so the girl i like is moving during the christmas break, i found this out today and i was going to ask her out this week. I had a good feeling she would say yes. Now for my question, should i still ask her out even tho shes moving this christmas or should i just make sure she has the best last month of being here?


(FYI we live in Germany and she's moving back to america)

My reasons why i want to ask her out
-shes been a good friend and i think she also likes me
-this would be my first relationship and if i let this pass who knows when the next girl comes around

Ask her out, give her a month she will never forger, even if she says no, make sure she has fun in her last month. I know you can do it.

Do not. It's gonna hurt you and it's gonna hurt her. Moving outs are already painful by themselves, don't make it any worse.

Agree with most of this, give her a month she won't forget, but i don't think you should ask her out. You would hurt her feelings, and yours too, since she is moving.

This!

100% correct

ouch that's a tough one man... I guess listen to what the girls on here say. :)

Tell her to hit me up Here,Im in Los Angeles.


J/K Bro lol..just make sure you at least get a kiss!

The wooorst feeling in the world isnt it??? And yes ask her out immediately and live it up with her, make it a month she'll never forget for fucks sake do crazy stuff like nothing thatll get you arrested or her pregnant of course but like go nuts

Ask her out. Make the most of it while you can. The pain of loss is way less then the pain of knowing you never tried.

she will change her mind,bad things are happening now,but good comes out of it,give her a week and she won't move out,i know this,cause i've sitting in this house for 1-2 years not making any friends,and theres a lot of bad negativity in our house,but i got wisdom from those 2 years of pain :)

Every relationship is different and some aren't strong enough for distance. But you still should give it a shot and see what happens. People usually base long distance on statistics and previous relationships, but no one seems to think all relationships are different.

Ask her out:)

Thanks for all your advice, it really helped me choose what i was going to do. Ive decided im not going to ask her out cause the pain that will come with it ending in a month would be to great compared to the pain of just loosing a good friend which i like.

[Cygnus]

Thanks for all your advice, it really helped me choose what i was going to do. Ive decided im not going to ask her out cause the pain that will come with it ending in a month would be to great compared to the pain of just loosing a good friend which i like.

Despite that you can still make sure she has fun in her last month, I think that would be a nice thing to do that she would certainly appreciate.