Well havent posted here for awhile

[Professional Russian]

Anyways me and Ben (Gandalf) were talking earlier because I was a bit of problem. Today I asked a girl out. I got rejected and called fat and ugly. I said that I'll wait for her to realize what she's missing here(No I don't think I'm that good of a person its just that there's a background behind it.) And Ben said that it would be a bad idea. From.VT do you think I should wait for her to realize what she's missing or do what Ben said and just move on?

[Harley Quinn]

It's probably best not to get yourself further hurt by waiting for something that might not happen, if that's how she is treating you, are you even sure that you still want her? She's treating you like crap and that isn't okay. Sure, there may be background and honestly only you will know what you want. You can wait, but what if she never wants to be with you, you're only going to get more hurt. If you try to move on, you'll end up realising that maybe, she isn't the one you want to be with. I agree with Ben, you should move on.

[Cygnus]

It's probably best not to get yourself further hurt by waiting for something that might not happen, if that's how she is treating you, are you even sure that you still want her? She's treating you like crap and that isn't okay. Sure, there may be background and honestly only you will know what you want. You can wait, but what if she never wants to be with you, you're only going to get more hurt. If you try to move on, you'll end up realising that maybe, she isn't the one you want to be with. I agree with Ben, you should move on.

This, its better to move on really, since moving on happens at the moment and will make you save up time, lots of time.

[Professional Russian]

Haha you guys talk about moving. The last time it took 4 years to move on and I don't even know if I've moved on from that

[Harley Quinn]

Well, you never do really move on from someone, it just gets easier to deal with them not there any more. I should probably say, don't try with her any more, not move on.

[Blood]

Steal her and chain her in your basement. She will learn to love you.

No but seriously, if she called you ugly and fat why even bother? I'm sure you can find a decent girl who likes you. Try moving on (easier said than done).

[Living For Love]

Move on, she doesn't deserve you.

[luq_]

She called you fat and ugly, no point being with someone who is offensive towards you, and/or thinks you're fat and ugly.

[Professional Russian]

Its just that i cant let go of the fact that we had so much in common. it was supposed to work. all my friends said it would. they said nothing could go wrong it would work out perfectly

[sqishy]

Anyways me and Ben (Gandalf) were talking earlier because I was a bit of problem. Today I asked a girl out. I got rejected and called fat and ugly. I said that I'll wait for her to realize what she's missing here(No I don't think I'm that good of a person its just that there's a background behind it.) And Ben said that it would be a bad idea. From.VT do you think I should wait for her to realize what she's missing or do what Ben said and just move on?

I don't think this sort of start will get anything going, not the way she is reacting. Moving on is the best idea :( .

[highschool]

Move on, (please excuse my language) but if she's bitchy enough to call you fat and ugly after you had to get the courage to ask her out, she doesn't deserve you. it's one thing to reject someone,it's another thing to completely kill their self esteem.

[Cece14]

I totally agree with highschool

[badthoughts]

Steal her and chain her in your basement. She will learn to love you.
Best advice in this thread. Plus, it solves far more problems than it creates. I'm picturing something similar to the last half of the movie Martyrs.

However, if you're not set up for that (most aren't, but I have a diagram to get you started if you want it), then I'll concur about moving on but only on one condition: that you first stoop to her level and return some insults to her. Hit her where it hurts, my man. Good luck.

[Professional Russian]

Just to clarify I'm not* going to chain her in my basement.....well that made me look creepy as hell

[schoolgirlz]

If some has the nerve to say that to anyone they don't deserve to be that person.

[Waleedbt]

Lol chaining someone in the basement reminded me of the show " under the dome " thats exactly why he did it tooo ! XD

Move on man, shes not right for you, she doesnt sound as a good person too.
Good luck bro! You'll find someone :)

[Saint of Sinners]

She ain't worth your time. There are plenty of people who at least have the decency to reject you politely.

I know it isn't easy and sometimes you never do get over her, but the best thing to do is to move on. That, or prepare your basement dungeon.

[Professional Russian]

I know it isn't easy and sometimes you never do get over her, but the best thing to do is to move on. That, or prepare your basement dungeon.

*Starts putting anchors on the wall for the chains and shackles* almost done :p