Can't figure him out!!

[aqm1227]

Ok guys so theres his guy and ive liked him for a year now, and sometimes he shows signs that he likes me gut other times he like ''dude ur gay'' and a few days before i was rubbing on his butt and he didnt say anything... he's the type of guy that if he doesnt like u or what your doing, he'll tell you. And when we on the bus i had my arm around him ,for like 10 min, and then he's was like ur gay. guys im so confussed!!!! What do you think?:confused:

[kylem1229]

There might be a chance that he isnt gay, and is so fed up with you he just doesnt even bother to say anything anymore. So you might just want to ask him if that's whats up.

[Dundun99]

i think you should ask him and see, there s no harm in trying and it would be an adventure wouldnt it, i dont blame you for being confused but its got to be worth a try hasnt it, if you really like him that is

[deregisterme]

Just quietly bring the subject up when you're alone with him somettime

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[aqm1227]

i think you should ask him and see, there s no harm in trying and it would be an adventure wouldnt it, i dont blame you for being confused but its got to be worth a try hasnt it, if you really like him that is

i honestly don't have that type of courage and I don't want to make things awkward.

[Alex_3869]

When he is making fun of sexuality, especially if you had been doing stuff to him, then he may be confused or insecure about their own sexuality. I noticed you never said that he said to stop. He just said you were gay. Am I right?

[aqm1227]

Yeah, but what do I do cause I really really like him

[MattPainter]

Idk maybe just talk to him you won't know till you ask. right?

[aqm1227]

if he doesn't like me what do u guys think are good ways to get him to

[Living For Love]

You can't force someone to like you. I think he's straight, but keep a close contact with him. You said that if you do something he doesn't like he'll tell you, so try to establish some boundaries from his reactions. Just make sure you keep him as a good friend.

[sqishy]

Ok guys so theres his guy and ive liked him for a year now, and sometimes he shows signs that he likes me gut other times he like ''dude ur gay'' and a few days before i was rubbing on his butt and he didnt say anything... he's the type of guy that if he doesnt like u or what your doing, he'll tell you. And when we on the bus i had my arm around him ,for like 10 min, and then he's was like ur gay. guys im so confussed!!!! What do you think?:confused:

There might be a chance that he isnt gay, and is so fed up with you he just doesnt even bother to say anything anymore. So you might just want to ask him if that's whats up.

This ^ . As him if he's gay and see what his reaction is.

[Extreme586]

He's probably gay. Notice how he lets you do things before it plays out in his mind that "hmm this is probably gay and I should probably say something before he thinks I'm gay". The problem is we are all raised around a bunch of straight guys who toss the term gay around and associate it with being an awful terrible thing. So he likes what your doing to him. If he didn't he would tell you to stop or that you are making him uncomfortable. Instead he just throws the "your gay" comments as a disclaimer or safety net in case you were kidding or something so as to not make him seem gay for liking it.

The only way to find out for sure is to go somewhere alone with him when you guys are hanging out or something. Then tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way. It's hard but the worst he can say is no and ya it might make him feel uncomfortable, but if he is really your friend he won't mind. If he does it's his loss. Besides, why in the fuck would you want to go on worrying about whether he is or not for the next few years of your life instead of just asking him? Go get em!

[wirelessbrain]

hmm... perhaps confront him in a friendly manner and ask him if he likes it or not... if he does, probably his bi or gay, and if he doesn't, then don't bother him but act as friends, nothing more

[Lil.k8]

straight and gay are just the extremes of the scale. chances are that he is just caught up on what his parents taught him. you need to get him to a party. all of the girls I've gotten to play with play with me Ive just got drunk with them, and as the night went on I just flirt with them by small touches and giggles. After a bit move away from the crowd a bit, give them a drink, go for a bit of a walk with them, and when ur somewhere isolated sit down and keep scootching towards them. lay on them a little, touch their hands/fingers, rest ur head on there neck and start with little nibbles and kisses

[Josef_]

Ok guys so theres his guy and ive liked him for a year now, and sometimes he shows signs that he likes me gut other times he like ''dude ur gay'' and a few days before i was rubbing on his butt and he didnt say anything... he's the type of guy that if he doesnt like u or what your doing, he'll tell you. And when we on the bus i had my arm around him ,for like 10 min, and then he's was like ur gay. guys im so confussed!!!! What do you think?:confused:

He's probably confused too. Or just having mixed feelings about what you're doing.

I think if you like him and he allows you to do.. whatever.. keep doing it. Keep mental notes. Find out what he likes and doesn't like. Do what he likes.

..I guess, as stalker-ish as this sounds. :eek: