Does this guy like me?

[nicktendo64]

So I'm almost positive I'm bi but I'm not out to anyone. I'm a senior and this sophomore in one of the clubs I'm in has been talking to me a lot. I'm unsure if he's gay/bi but he talks about gay rights a lot and texts me out of nowhere sometimes and seems like he's flirting with me a sometimes but sometimes it seems like he thinks I'm coming on strong when I flirt back a little. He had a girlfriend last year but he was way out of her league and dumped her because he told her he missed being single. Do you think he might be gay and likes me or just he's excited to be friends with one of the seniors? Regardless, do you think I should ask him to experiment or do you think it's not worth the risk? I've known I was bi for a few years now and I've never done anything with a boy because I don't want my high school or my friends to know yet but this is the first boy I've ever had a crush on.

[centropede]

Maby ask him? Have you tryed?

[nicktendo64]

I haven't asked because we just became friends or whatever you wanna call it a month ago and I didn't get his number until a few days ago. But since he's texted me everyday. If he is gay/bi he's still in the closet and I don't know how to ask him if he'd be interested in messing around with a guy or if I should ask if he likes me I don't wanna scare him off. I'm not sure if he'd tell other people or not because he's very pro-gay rights and vocal about it so I'm pretty sure he'd understand me wantinf to keep it a secret until I'm ready but I have to see him multiple times a week until February so if he's not I don't want it to get crazy awkward.

[sqishy]

I haven't asked because we just became friends or whatever you wanna call it a month ago and I didn't get his number until a few days ago. But since he's texted me everyday. If he is gay/bi he's still in the closet and I don't know how to ask him if he'd be interested in messing around with a guy or if I should ask if he likes me I don't wanna scare him off. I'm not sure if he'd tell other people or not because he's very pro-gay rights and vocal about it so I'm pretty sure he'd understand me wantinf to keep it a secret until I'm ready but I have to see him multiple times a week until February so if he's not I don't want it to get crazy awkward.

Asking him in an understanding way will make things run faster and less 'runaround', really :( . That's the way I'd go but I haven't been in such a situation and my opinion is, idk :/

[Cece14]

I would ask, but wait a little bit

[Dundun99]

just ask him, ask him if he is trying it on with you, if you want to give it a go then tell him and if you dont then im sure he will understand

[Living For Love]

First make sure you get to know him better, not only through texting, though, but hang out with him more often, and then, where you two are more confortable with eachother, you could subtly hint that you're bisexual. Don't ask if he wants to mess around with you, that might seem strange to him.