Experimenting

[nicktendo64]

So I'm almost positive I'm bi but I'm not out to anyone. I'm a senior and this sophomore in one of the clubs I'm in has been talking to me a lot. I'm unsure if he's gay/bi but he talks about gay rights a lot and texts me out of nowhere sometimes and seems like he's flirting with me a sometimes but sometimes it seems like he thinks I'm coming on strong when I flirt back a little. He had a girlfriend last year but he was way out of her league and dumped her because he told her he missed being single. Do you think he might be gay and likes me or just he's excited to be friends with one of the seniors? Regardless, do you think I should ask him to experiment and how? I've known I was bi for a few years now and I've never done anything with a boy and this is the first boy I've ever had a crush on.

[From Chris]

So I'm almost positive I'm bi but I'm not out to anyone. I'm a senior and this sophomore in one of the clubs I'm in has been talking to me a lot. I'm unsure if he's gay/bi but he talks about gay rights a lot and texts me out of nowhere sometimes and seems like he's flirting with me a sometimes but sometimes it seems like he thinks I'm coming on strong when I flirt back a little. He had a girlfriend last year but he was way out of her league and dumped her because he told her he missed being single. Do you think he might be gay and likes me or just he's excited to be friends with one of the seniors? Regardless, do you think I should ask him to experiment and how? I've known I was bi for a few years now and I've never done anything with a boy and this is the first boy I've ever had a crush on.

I think this belongs in the "Teen Sexuality" section of Virtual Teen, however i would be glad to help you as much as i can! :) Be careful about how you take his flirting and talk about gay rights, because that doesn't always mean that someone is gay. If you have a crush on him and want to know if he wants to experiment too, i would suggest asking him about his sexuality first to know if he is attracted to guys. If he is then you could proceed to ask about the experimenting or whatever makes you comfortable. Just keep in mind it could make it awkward between you two if he wasn't looking to experiment. Hope this helps!

-From Chris :)

[Lost in the Echo]

Unfortunately I'll have to lock this thread, due to you asking for tips on how to get someone to experiment with you. We don't allow that kind of discussion. Best of luck to you in your situation though.

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