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TDB95
November 7th, 2013, 08:01 PM
So I been talking to this girl for a couple weeks and her and her ex broke up about 2 weeks ago but they were together for like a year on and off I really like her and Idk how to go about asking her out , I know she needs time but how much time? She's seems to be interested but I don't want to just be a rebound I want something more meaningful

highschool
November 7th, 2013, 08:43 PM
honestly all I can really say is that if she seems interested in you after only 2 weeks of getting out of that relationship, you would be a rebound. Especially since it was a 1 year relationship. Your best bet is to be there for her, but without seeming like a friend or else you'll get friend zoned, and wait about 1 1/2- 2 months before making a move. But It honestly depends on the girl.

Waleedbt
November 7th, 2013, 09:14 PM
So you're saying they've been together " On and Off" so i don't know... maybe its one of their On and Off phases?
But yeah, 2 weeks is too little time to recover, wait sometime. Do Not Comfort her!! ( there are ways of just being there but not so close there) Like Sara said ^ doing this will get you friendzoned.

Luminous
November 7th, 2013, 10:59 PM
If they've been together on and off for a year, how do you know they aren't just in the 'off' part right now? Honestly, I would wait a month or two since you can't be sure. I know it's harsh, sorry bud.

schoolgirlz
November 8th, 2013, 05:42 PM
Wait a while. all i really can say

Dundun99
November 8th, 2013, 05:44 PM
speak to her and tell her exaclty how you feel but also tell her that you dont mind if she needs/wants more time, put it out there to her and see what happens

Cece14
November 9th, 2013, 11:35 AM
Talk to her, and give her time to get over the break up, be her shoulder:)