Convincing Him

[Quigley28]

I'm not gay but this guy told me he masturbates in creative ways and I really want to see those creative ways. He and I are kind of friends and has told me some sexual things about him such as his "creative ways".

My problem is that it sounds gay to want to do that so I need help convincing him I'm not gay just curious.

[SubCulture]

Are you guys close friends? Or just friends? Is there a reason why you don't want people to think you're gay?

[Dundun99]

tell him that our curious and your just interested, there is nothing wrong with being curious, i am, just tell him exactly how you mean it and say your curious and you want to see him do his ideas. just be honest and ask him. good luck

[Alex_3869]

Just get closer to him and when you are hanging out or something and those "creative ways" it will lead to something if you keep the conversation going.

I am picturing right now two dudes right after they had sex, and one of them saying "no homo."" lol. Just make sure that it doesn't lead to anywhere that you never intended it to go. Don't make it a regular thing, if you are straight.

[Quigley28]

Yeah, I like girls I just am interested in new techniques. Haha, PilotAS. Thank you all.

By the way. We are just sort of friends. I've seen him a couple times out of school and his ex gf was one of my friends. He might be bi

[irishguy123]

tell him exactly what u want to do, just see, nothing more or ask him to tell u what he does and how he does it

[Quigley28]

I just really want to have that experience with another guy.

[From Chris]

I'm not gay but this guy told me he masturbates in creative ways and I really want to see those creative ways. He and I are kind of friends and has told me some sexual things about him such as his "creative ways".

My problem is that it sounds gay to want to do that so I need help convincing him I'm not gay just curious.

Not to worry! Curiosity is very common, and can involve sexual curiosity in young boys. Wanting to see another boy naked, or in your case, "creative ways" is perfectly normal. If you want to convince him that you are not gay when you ask about his "creative ways" simply say you just want to know so you can try it out too, as in a "mutual" guy to guy friend thing and not anything sexually gay. :)

-From Chris

[sqishy]

Just get closer to him and when you are hanging out or something and those "creative ways" it will lead to something if you keep the conversation going.

I am picturing right now two dudes right after they had sex, and one of them saying "no homo."" lol. Just make sure that it doesn't lead to anywhere that you never intended it to go. Don't make it a regular thing, if you are straight.

Yes, this ^ . If you need to keep saying/proving to him that you are curious and experimenting sexually, then do so. Make sure he gets no false hopes.

[Cece14]

Just tell him ur not gay, just curios

[Quigley28]

Thank you for your help. Just an unnecessary update, when i thought about it today, i think we are less friends than I thought. He has told me stuff and everything but we haven't hung out for a little while. I know how to ask him over but I feel like it's been a while so that's what I need help with.

[loki2000]

your just curious .. go find him and hang out ..see if he brings up the materbating stuff again....if he duz...ask him to show you some time.. nothing wrong with that

[Datguy1]

just tell him you are just curious about his "creative ways"

[Lil.k8]

go camping with him or go to parties with him. all of the girls I've gotten to play with play with me Ive just got drunk with them, and as the night went on I just flirt with them by small touches and giggles. After a bit move away from the crowd a bit, give them a drink, go for a bit of a walk with them, and when ur somewhere isolated sit down and keep scootching towards them. lay on them a little, touch their hands/fingers, rest ur head on there neck and start with little nibbles and kisses