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Whatsgud
November 7th, 2013, 03:47 AM
Hi peeps please help me :D

In about the spring of this year I really started digging this girl. I had huge crush on her, I'm not sure if I was in love but I strongly liked her. I was leading my way up to asking her out but my friend swoops in and ask her out before me. At first I was a little upset but I wasn't at the same time because I wanted my friend to be happy. They've been dating for roughly 5 months now and truly I've been thinking of them breaking up so I can ask her out. Each day it's getting harder and harder because I think I might be falling for her. I'm not sure if I should express my feelings to her because then I will lose a great friend. What shall I do? All suggestions/advice is appreciated

Living For Love
November 7th, 2013, 09:08 AM
Whatever you do, you can't be the reason if they ever broke up with eachother, or you'd lose your friend forever. I'd suggest you forget her and move on, although I know it can be really hard.

highschool
November 7th, 2013, 08:49 PM
if they seem to be happy, all you can really do is be happy for them. But even if they broke up, you couldn't be with her for a WHILE because of bro-code. goodluck(:

schoolgirlz
November 8th, 2013, 05:38 PM
Oh wow!! That confusing. You should confront him in a good manner. Tell him that you were going to ask her. But you should not allow him to break up with her if he doesn't want to.

Dundun99
November 8th, 2013, 05:41 PM
well you could break them up and try and frrame someone else but if you dont agree with thatt then i guess you have to leave it or ask her and tell her exactly how you feel about her

chezhans
November 9th, 2013, 11:44 PM
Unfortunately, I have to treat this story the hard way---you're going to have to let go of her…all I can say is that you have to let go of her while not mentioning who and what to your friend :)

Whatsgud
November 13th, 2013, 03:09 AM
Thanks! You've all helped me out tremendously.