how do i ask out my ex bf?

[mikemidas63]

I love my ex bf so much and want to be with him again... but i don't know if he will take me back.
even worse... i am scared and don't know how to ask him out.

PLEASE HELP!

[Miri]

I don't think anyone here can give honest advice on what to do, because we can't even say whether or not even attempting it is a good idea.

It depends on so many things, especially why it is that your relationship didn't last the first time. If you understand what it is that went wrong and have taken time to understand the difficulties in starting up a relationship with the same person, then maybe you could ask out your ex, but if there are uncertainties, then maybe you should hold off on that.

There are also a lot of issues that you would potentially have to deal with if you were to continue your old relationship, like resurrected arguments, blame, tension and distrust. You have to be careful and think about what the best options are, as well as their consequences. Would you want to start from scratch, or start up from where you left off?

[Hollywood]

i know you probably don't want to hear it, but (generally) it's a bad idea to try and rekindle an old flame. If it ended, it ended for a reason. People who get back together with an ex tend to suffer from the same issues that they had before and wind up drifting apart yet again. This isn't always the case, obviously, but it happens quite often.

[Kid0809]

I think it depends on how bad it ended