my brother

[growandlove]

so i was just wondering ..... my brother is 9 turning 10 in january and he keeps showing me his boners and he hasn't started puberty yet but he keeps telling he he wants to know what to do with a boner ... should i show him how to masturbate or not??

i also cant help but notice that when i was his age i was starting puberty and had a bigger penis but he is still little big enough to masturbate tho

[drmindfreak]

i think 9 is way too early but i dont know. I also thik it is kinda crazy to show a brother how to masturbate, in general. It creeps me out but whatever. I didnt even know what a boner was when i was 10.

[Stryker125]

it's not really weird for him to get boners at that age, or to be asking you about it..you're his older brother and he probably just looks up to you a lot. as far as showing how to masturbate, I think you should probably just explain what it is. You don't need to go into detail, and you don't need to show him anything. Just explain what it is to him and let him know he'll understand it better when he gets a little older.

[nklarke]

We've boners since we're babies. The difference is that once started puberty, a lot of boners come from sexual stuff (thoughts).

So, you've to see if he has the typical unwanted boners or he's developing faster and he already think about sex. Depending on the answer to this question is the kind of chat you'll have with him.

[Catholic Guy]

9 or 10 is quite young for boys to start puberty, if you are comfortable 'showing him the ropes' then show him, if you aren't then don't, if you don't want to there are lots of things you can do such as show him the beautiful thing called the internet, even this site or porn or you can tell him he should talk to people his own age about this kind of thing, whatever you do tell him it's a private thing and he shouldn't be making it public

[deregisterme]

I could cum at the age of 10 and wished someone had explained to me about it. There is no harm in at least talking to him about it. Only show him if you feel comfortable with it, and let him know that it's a private matter

[From Chris]

so i was just wondering ..... my brother is 9 turning 10 in january and he keeps showing me his boners and he hasn't started puberty yet but he keeps telling he he wants to know what to do with a boner ... should i show him how to masturbate or not??

i also cant help but notice that when i was his age i was starting puberty and had a bigger penis but he is still little big enough to masturbate tho

I think you should let your brother experience it on his own, however you can teach him if you want to. I think he is just very curious about the matter! His penis size is irellevent to yours when you were that age because you are not the same person. Everyone, including siblings, can have different sizes! :)

-From Chris

[Collins1]

If you want to talk about it with him, go ahead. If you don't, then wait a while or let him work it out himself. I don't know your brother, so it's your choice.
But if i had a younger brother asking things like this, i would probably sit down with him and ask if he has any questions about anything, if he brings it up, then you can tell him if you want. He might have some other questions too.

Also i started j/o at about the age of 10, of what i can remember, i have cummed every-time since i started...

[drmindfreak]

I could cum at the age of 10
wow :eek:

[Wesl3y]

I think if he is asking, it isn't to early to teach him. He's obviously ready, just don't take anything to far not saying that you would. Most importantly only do what you're comfortable doing.

[hockeyfan]

I could cum at the age of 10 and wished someone had explained to me about it. There is no harm in at least talking to him about it. Only show him if you feel comfortable with it, and let him know that it's a private matter

I wouldn't "show" him, but telling him wouldn't hurt anything

[ksdnfkfr]

so i was just wondering ..... my brother is 9 turning 10 in january and he keeps showing me his boners and he hasn't started puberty yet but he keeps telling he he wants to know what to do with a boner ... should i show him how to masturbate or not??

Did you need a family member to show you how to masturbate i.e. jack off with you? Doesn't your dad talk to you guys about growing up?

[Second Chance]

I would talk to your brother about why he gets boners, but I would keep things rated G just letting him know that boys penises naturally get hard. I would not get into all the details of sex or go down the road of masturbating because he might be physically ready for masturbating but not mentally ready to understand why he's doing. I would let him take the lead and ask you questions, but try to avoid encouraging him from getting sexual especially since he's so young. It is one thing if your brother is 11/12 because that's when most guys start jacking off anyway.

I would dig a little deeper and find out if your brother has been hanging out around older boys, or if he has friends who have been teaching him sexual stuff. For a kid that young to start talking about boners and sexuality makes me think that he's been exposed to those kinds of things by someone.

There's nothing wrong with being honest with your brother, but since he is probably in 4th/5th grade, he's too young to get the full birds and the bees unlike a junior high school kid.

[Thomas01]

He's probably just curious. First off, make sure to tell him that showing your penis is something you should not do because it can get you into trouble. Tell him to keep things private but also assure him that you're his big brother and if he has questions it's better to ask you than a stranger.

About masturbating, I wouldn't say show him. Just tell him about it and that it is normal and something to do in private. If he comes to you later about wanting to do it with you or just see how it is done, then it is up to you. But let him come to you about that. Also don't tell him about porn yet, he doesn't need to know. I'm sure at that age jerking it doesn't need any stimulation

Penis size varies so he can be smaller or larger than you

[ryanpeterson832]

You could teach him what it is. You don't necessarily have to actually show him

[Wyatt 13]

My bro is 11, and he is always making jokes about his boners I think is normal. I would never show or explain to him anything about wanking, I think he is too young.

[jcs5943]

given the fact that he's asking means he already has a slight idea i would tell him, i wouldn't say nine is too young but maybe too young for everyday

[Rukua]

You will obviously whatever you want cause you're a human..
But personally, I would never, ever show them how to do it. They'll either find out for themselves, or with friends when they're older.
And if he keeps showing you, just tell him to stop, he's obviously being a kid, and being an immature boy, but you need to be the big brother and just say, "mate, stop" then whack him in the face.

[irishguy123]

i would say wait until he is at 11 (at the absolute earliest) or leave him figure out himself

[Zanman11]

He's still a little young imo

[Hercules]

Don't teach him, he doesn't need to be doing that.

[Michael_6]

I would help him because he will help u later in life

[curiousme]

thats an ok age, if hes curious about it and asked u and showed his boners to you yes you should show him how to masturbate its a normal thing to do

[nklarke]

If they boners are not sexual related, you shouldn't explain nothing.

[ATOMICskittles]

I think just tell him, like why not, I started to masturbate at 7 (I know, wayyyyyyy to early)

[jordie]

have him talk to your dad thats what they are good for. my dad had the talk with me and it was cool

[nklarke]

have him talk to your dad thats what they are good for. my dad had the talk with me and it was cool

What was cool? What did you learn?

[Zach1702]

personally i would wait untill he is about 10 half then maybe ask him if he's heard of it,
if he hasn't then tell him what it is.

[jordie]

just explained how it all worked and that it was ok to masturbate just not in public and clean up and yes he still did it (I asked)

[Sammy07]

You should show him how to do it

[ComfortableInChaos]

I think that I would show him, but that's just me. It depends on how you are, though and if you're comfortable with it.

[Luke91]

Your brother asked you because he looks up to you and he trusts you. Since you are older, he knows you have been where he is. Showing you his boners is just a kid and entirely harmless. Above all, don't scold or embarrass him. Tell him just enough to answer his questions. Also tell him he can always come to you if he has more questions.

[cameraboy]

no reason to show him how to masterbate at that age it is to early just show his penis cause he is excited that it gets hard. he is at age were he just found his penis and thinks it is fun to make it hard. email me and we can talk more about or whatever

[jordie]

What was cool? What did you learn?

cool that he was able to talk about it without freaking out pretty much by the book but made me feel like it was not a big deal

[Toptoptop]

It's up to you

[Sammy07]

You should talk with him

[Hermes]

Don't feel obliged to do anything you are not comfortable with but within that constraint you could let be the guide.

[shark_attack]

Idk you could teach him ahaha but like maybe wait a few years

[chicohunter]

I was about 10 when I started. If he's your brother, why wouldnt you show him? It's easier for him than making him figure it out himself

[Gopher]

My older brother showed me how to masturbate around that age, its up to you, i see no problems either way.

[AbyssalLight7]

Wait 2 years then tell him how, don't show him how.

[Kjack31]

Go ahead if you want, but I wouldn't.

[kylem]

I have the same issue with my younger bro, he's 10, and I actually posted a question about masturbation with him when he caught me doing it. I haven't done it with him yet and he's always got boners and I'm like telling him to just chill and that that used to happen to me when I was his age, its called puberty. Maybe one day when he's older and he wants to learn I'll explain to him how to j/o but idk if I'd do it with him actually. Just tell him that's totally normal and if he wants to know how to j//o, you can tell him about it and that its totally normal to, Most guys do it, its a part of growing up and going through puberty.

[JIntrepid]

lol you never kno man. depends how close you two are

[alvin]

he will grow

[SoRandom]

since he's piercing into the curiosity mode. I'd rather tell him (I dunno if I can show) all about puberty. I rather tell him the do's and don't instead of letting him wonder what to do in his boner and he might do crazy stuff with his boners on public which is a no no!

[casperathome]

Just be honest with him if he asks you. Hope you guys are close enough for him to trust you. You don't actually have to show him how to do it. I don't think 10 is too young either I started around 7 *yeeks*.

[Young Wolf]

My mate was nine when he first masturbated. I was 7.

[Tdaykin877]

I would, I wish somebody taught me earlier

[skiman]

Naw just tell him to think about something else, pretend like it doesnt exist... He shouldnt be fapping at age 9

[ddbumblebee]

Nah, if he's asking about it then better off you telling him then him asking the wrong person out of him growing impatient with you...just tell him how it works but tell him it's something you don't talk to people about but it's ok to do it...I found out how to by myself when I was 10, and I could cum, it wasn't much at all but I still could.

[mirabilis2345]

I learned by watching my bro when I was 11.

[topher3141]

depends on what your comfortable with

[KiyoshisIsland]

I taught my brother

[Fireangel]

so i was just wondering ..... my brother is 9 turning 10 in january and he keeps showing me his boners and he hasn't started puberty yet but he keeps telling he he wants to know what to do with a boner ... should i show him how to masturbate or not??

i also cant help but notice that when i was his age i was starting puberty and had a bigger penis but he is still little big enough to masturbate tho

NOt yet, He is only a child, maybe after 2 or 3 years. Saw he you naked ?

[Andrew2499]

I learned about masturbating when i was 10. but i guess i would explain it to him, but not to much detail

[AlexOnToast]

I guess if you both get along really well, and if you are both comfortable with it, there is no harm in showing him. If not that then at least give him a little info, because he obviously trusts you if he's asking you this and I think it would be good for you of all people to help him with his curiosity

[rambo_24]

I would wait till hes like 12

[randyboy]

Blimey m8 that's a hard one (haha) Tell him is normal and not to worry he is deffo 2 young at 10 I think I'd kinda say on a need to know basis.

Rather than actual chugging away at it............just hint at frottage and suggest a pillow tell him its 100% ok and normal. To lie on ur tummy and gentally grind away and get that colly wabbles on the big dipper feeling! good luck. Wait till the milk flows :) Where's me umbrella :)

[azza955]

I think he is a little bit young, maby wait a couple of years.

[jamiecl24]

No 9 is too young wait o couple of years

[Jaseblader]

go ahead, as his big bro you should show him but that all depends on your relationship with him, loving or aggressive, also if he'll snitch don't show and show him a video or somethin

[Zachary G]

it's not really weird for him to get boners at that age, or to be asking you about it..you're his older brother and he probably just looks up to you a lot. as far as showing how to masturbate, I think you should probably just explain what it is. You don't need to go into detail, and you don't need to show him anything. Just explain what it is to him and let him know he'll understand it better when he gets a little older.

Justin has a good point and i agree with him 100%

[Ben101]

No, Showing him at his age would be a big mistake! Either wait till he is at least 12/13 or the better option would be to let him work it out himself.

[Nazi]

yes tell him

[Jeonard]

i would personally let him find oout for himself

[DarkHorse4eva]

sounds like he's proud of his boner :P

let him figure masturbating out himself, he'll find out when he's ready