my best friend's brother...

[skittles_was_here]

hey guys! i'm not sure if this goes here (again) so if it doesnt can one of you mods move it? thank you.

so basically i've had this crush on this guy named Connor for a while. when i became friend's with him and developed my crush, i had no idea he was the brother of my best friend. when i found out a couple months later i said nothing for fear his mom's or my parents wouldn't let me spend the night with my bestfriend anymore.

my bestfriend found out on halloween and told me we should go out, i was still in doubt. today on the bus my other friend nick saw connor and i sitting with each other, he told connor to grow some balls and ask me out. when connor ignored him nick decided FOR us that we were going out. connor agreed to it and i didn't argue.

i need your guy's help, if we do continue to go on together should we keep it on the down low? or should we not be together at all? i desprately need help!

[ashdyn]

She's your best friend....and you didn't know she had a brother named Connor?

You've also spent the night there before...and you never saw a family picture or something lol

[midnightstar]

I agree with ashdyn, how did you not know lol

I think you should communicate with your best friend and if you really like him maybe find out a way that will work out for the 2 of you

[ksdnfkfr]

Keep it on the down low.

[Amber Bi]

i think if she's really your friend then she'll be cool with it

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[martogogo]

its ok :)))

[skittles_was_here]

She's your best friend....and you didn't know she had a brother named Connor?

You've also spent the night there before...and you never saw a family picture or something lol

we weren't as close as we are now(my bestfriend) and thats how i found out was the first time i spent the night and connor was there. he's her step-brother. but i really do like him and i still wanna be able to spend the night at my friend's house.

[ashdyn]

I have no idea how to approach this other than to tell you if you really really like him sometimes you gotta make sacrifices for love lol

[Cece14]

Keep it on the down

[jcs5943]

I would see how things go for a while on the down low then depending if its working wither tell people or not depending if you want to spend the night there to spend the night with nick but for now i'd say down lo

[highschool]

keep it on the DL. but judging by what you wrote, your friend seems cool about it.

[skittles_was_here]

ok, my friend/his sister know and she's cool with it, she actually supports us and thinks it's adorable. the only thing i was TRULY worried about was either of his mom's finding out or my parents finding out cause they wouldn't have let me stay the night at makayla's house, but we agreed that we weren't gonna tell them FOR NOW. thank you guys for helping and i'll maybe update later on how it's working out.