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Alissa101010
November 5th, 2013, 11:28 PM
Hello!
Well, heres the basics, and really all that there is to the story.
My boyfriend's Moms( His dad has nothing to do with it, and yes his mom has a partner of the same sex) went through our old text messages on his phone, and found out that he wants to leave their house once he graduates. So, they took his phone, computer, ipod, and everything else they could take since they were mad. It has been almost a month, and our only way of communicating is now letters. They found out that we saw each other, and he got into trouble. Now, they are speaking ill of me, and trying to break us up. I really like him. Weve been together a little over a year, and I dont want to lose him. But I dont know what to do or how to cope with all of this. Does anyone have any advice or comments?
Kid0809
November 5th, 2013, 11:51 PM
I don't think the parents are mad at you maybe they don't want to lose him?
Living For Love
November 6th, 2013, 09:51 AM
Maybe they're mad at you because they want him to keep living with them, and they may think you're the reason that is making him think about leaving his mums once he graduates. Perhaps tell your boyfriend to tell his mums that you're a good person and a good influence to him.
Loner_97
November 6th, 2013, 11:02 AM
Well tell your boyfriend to talk to his mom. They fear losing him so he needs to sort it out. They are just trying to ruin your relationship so they can ensure their son will be with them I guess. So relax and tell him to talk.
TheBigUnit
November 6th, 2013, 11:06 AM
Maybe they're mad at you because they want him to keep living with them, and they may think you're the reason that is making him think about leaving his mums once he graduates. Perhaps tell your boyfriend to tell his mums that you're a good person and a good influence to him.

yes^^ maybe they think youre the reason why he wants to leave
Cece14
November 6th, 2013, 03:38 PM
His parents dont wanna lose him to you.....
Alissa101010
November 6th, 2013, 07:36 PM
I've considered those options. But it wouldnt be him moving in with me, but to his Dad's house. And every time he trys to talk to them they freak out, and he gets into trouble even more. They wont let him talk.