screamtobeheard
November 5th, 2013, 11:15 PM
This is going to be sort of a rant about something that happened earlier between my boyfriend and me. I'm not sure if this is the right place to post it or not, but here goes.
Earlier, I gave him my keys so that he could grab his stuff from my room before class, and apparently the way I did it made it seem like I was angry or something. This is when it all started going downhill. Then, later when we were walking back from class, he ended up speeding off around a group of people, and when I didn't follow, he thought it was because I was angry with him, when in reality, I just don't like walking around people. So then a little bit later, he texts me angrily, asking what's been my problem all day, and I kept telling him nothing, because I was honestly fine. Then I go to his room to grab a notebook, and he stopped me, trying to get me to spit out some information that I didn't have to give, and as I was trying to leave, he grabbed my arms and twisted so hard that I have a long scratch/bruise thing on my right arm. It's not bad, but it scared me because he was so angry and I didn't know why.
Eventually, after I broke down crying from him yelling at me, somehow I made it clear that nothing was wrong, and what had really happened, and he felt really bad about it. And now everything's fine...but it was awful, and I'm hoping it never happens again.
That's my rant. If anyone has any advice for how to avoid this type of situation in the future, I wouldn't mind it. Thanks.
Earlier, I gave him my keys so that he could grab his stuff from my room before class, and apparently the way I did it made it seem like I was angry or something. This is when it all started going downhill. Then, later when we were walking back from class, he ended up speeding off around a group of people, and when I didn't follow, he thought it was because I was angry with him, when in reality, I just don't like walking around people. So then a little bit later, he texts me angrily, asking what's been my problem all day, and I kept telling him nothing, because I was honestly fine. Then I go to his room to grab a notebook, and he stopped me, trying to get me to spit out some information that I didn't have to give, and as I was trying to leave, he grabbed my arms and twisted so hard that I have a long scratch/bruise thing on my right arm. It's not bad, but it scared me because he was so angry and I didn't know why.
Eventually, after I broke down crying from him yelling at me, somehow I made it clear that nothing was wrong, and what had really happened, and he felt really bad about it. And now everything's fine...but it was awful, and I'm hoping it never happens again.
That's my rant. If anyone has any advice for how to avoid this type of situation in the future, I wouldn't mind it. Thanks.