am i too young?

[trackstar15]

Ive been wanting to have anal sex but im too scared.I know it only hurts at first but i dont want to like break anything and have to go to a doctor or something.since im not out yet having to explain what happened to my parents would be pretty awkward.so my question is am i too young for anal sex and i should wait?

[AbyssalLight7]

13, I think you should definitely wait

[Second Chance]

When it comes to sex the way you know you are ready is when you can afford things like condoms, lube, and other sex stuff on your own, and you are able to go to the doctor on your own without anyone's permission if there is a problem. If the answer is no to any of those points, then chances are you're too young for sex. Especially if you would have a hard time approaching your parents if anything happened during sex, then my suggestion is to wait until you're a bit older when you can go to the doctor on your own.

Anal sex generally is uncomfortable for the very first time when someone does it. It is for that reason why if you are absolutely going to do it that you use plenty of lube and make sure your partner uses a condom.

Finally, if your partner is not a virgin, then make sure he has a STD test. Never have sex with anyone unless you know they're clean. There are some STDs that have no symptoms, and it would definitely be an awkward conversation you would have with your parents if you contracted a STD from someone who lied to you or did not know they are a carrier of something.

Basically, sex is super complicated, and if you can hold off on it until you're old enough to deal with all the moving parts related to sex, then you'll be fine. You have the rest of your life to be an adult, and I suggest you enjoy being a kid for as long as you can. Sex only complicates things.

[NeuroTiger]

Anal sex, in itself, is not a very good form of sex.
And an early teenager performing it makes it even worse.
Definitely, you are not of age.

[ashdyn]

Technically speaking...your body should be able to handle it as long as your partner is somewhat proportional to your size. Basically don't try to fit a dick up your ass that's like over 6 inches but more importantly not really thick. Also you need to use condoms even if he claims it's his first time too. Also use a LOT of lube and not just on his dick.

Your age really has nothing to do with it because physically your body can take it...it's more a question of whether you're mature enough to handle consequences and know yourself well enough to know your limits .

[Thomas01]

Yeah, I agree with ashdyn and Second Chance makes some points.

First off, I think there is no real age for which someone would be "ready" for sex. It all depends. When the real process happens, just use protection and a condom. And yes, preferably have both of you tested for STDs.

In regards to what happens afterwards. If you decide to go through with it and all goes fine, great! If you decided to go through with it and one of you contracts an STD, you should have already been prepared for this.

Before actually having sex, you should definitely consider most possibilities and if you would feel comfortable going to whoever it is necessary to (even parents) if need be. Sure it would be an awkward conversation but you had taken the risk. Just do what is best for yourself

[snowtrax]

Maybe you should stick to less mature sexual play such as hand jobs and blow jobs

[nklarke]

When it comes to sex the way you know you are ready is when you can afford things like condoms, lube, and other sex stuff on your own, and you are able to go to the doctor on your own without anyone's permission if there is a problem. If the answer is no to any of those points, then chances are you're too young for sex. Especially if you would have a hard time approaching your parents if anything happened during sex, then my suggestion is to wait until you're a bit older when you can go to the doctor on your own.

Anal sex generally is uncomfortable for the very first time when someone does it. It is for that reason why if you are absolutely going to do it that you use plenty of lube and make sure your partner uses a condom.

Finally, if your partner is not a virgin, then make sure he has a STD test. Never have sex with anyone unless you know they're clean. There are some STDs that have no symptoms, and it would definitely be an awkward conversation you would have with your parents if you contracted a STD from someone who lied to you or did not know they are a carrier of something.

Basically, sex is super complicated, and if you can hold off on it until you're old enough to deal with all the moving parts related to sex, then you'll be fine. You have the rest of your life to be an adult, and I suggest you enjoy being a kid for as long as you can. Sex only complicates things.


This guy is wise.
I agree 100% .

[Catholic Guy]

Sorry how old are you? Well anal is painful at first but you have to go slowly and gently with each other, no point hurting each other, you can make it easier by fingering your bum so it isn't so tight at first but you should follow the laws of wherever you are but if not use protection, also use a lot of lube

[Ben4ever]

I was 15 my first time and I used plenty of lube! I think as long as you are careful and take things at a comfortable pace you should be fine!

[darthearth]

I was 15 my first time and I used plenty of lube! I think as long as you are careful and take things at a comfortable pace you should be fine!

This is correct. Don't let people scare you away from it, but at the same time take it slow and easy for your first few times to get used to it. It looks like you are 15, that's plenty old enough to have anal really. Make sure you are with someone patient and who will accept your wishes to stop if needed. I practiced with myself first and was in charge when the real thing happened, since I practiced first I knew what to expect. That's the way to approach it. Take it easy, stop when pain happens, and I don't think you'll "break" anything. Size considerations are dependent on the receiver, just thought I would chime in since I've been there. But I would pay attention to all views here and decide for yourself.

[Dundun99]

i think you should go for it if you really want to and mate, i wouldnt teel my parents, not for while because then youll know if you really are satissfied being gay. just becareful with std's and things yeah. but yeah, if you really wanna do it then go for it mate

[deregisterme]

Ive been wanting to have anal sex but im too scared.I know it only hurts at first but i dont want to like break anything and have to go to a doctor or something.since im not out yet having to explain what happened to my parents would be pretty awkward.so my question is am i too young for anal sex and i should wait?

If you're not sure, wait until you feel right. If you're ready and have a partner you trust, for the first time go slow and use lube. You may want to try some form of anal masturbation beforehand so you know the feeling back there. Communicate with your partner, as if at any point, it REALLY hurts, something is wrong as it's meant to be done for pleasure

[From Chris]

Ive been wanting to have anal sex but im too scared.I know it only hurts at first but i dont want to like break anything and have to go to a doctor or something.since im not out yet having to explain what happened to my parents would be pretty awkward.so my question is am i too young for anal sex and i should wait?

Assuming by breaking and getting hurt you are being penetrated by a guy, which is perfectly fine, however you should keep in mind that you need to take it slow if it is your first time! Currently you are at age 15, which can be seen as really young and perhaps you should wait however that is your decision. If you feel comfortable as much as the other person is then I don't see a reason not to. HOWEVER, please keep in mind about safe sex and use a condom to prevent Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Also, your anal cavity is more than equipped to withstand the length of a penis and it's highly rare to break anything as far as your anal cavity wall. I recommend going to the bathroom to make sure you have optimal room up there and ask the other person to take it slowly. If it hurts, then ask to stop! Hope this helps~ :)

-From Chris

[jcs5943]

If you are ready then i'd say 15 is old enough but if your worried then maybe your not ready yet, also remember protection

[Hercules]

Yes, you are too young. Legally: Age of consent (to have sex) in the United States is 18. Morally:don't do it

[Michael_6]

Wish I could have anul sex and I'm sixteen