doing stuff with a friend

[ajm23]

so I my bestfriend came to my house, it got heated, and we ended up kissing, getting naked and jerking eachother off. I'm openly bisexual but he said to me " I'm not gay, I'm not bicurious and we should never talk again " what do I do here? :mad:

[DeletedAccount123]

He actually said that you should end your friendship completely? That's insane.

I'd give him a few days then write an email saying you don't ever want to fool around with him again, but you want to just go back to being friends like you were before.

[ajm23]

He actually said that you should end your friendship completely? That's insane.

I'd give him a few days then write an email saying you don't ever want to fool around with him again, but you want to just go back to being friends like you were before.

yeah he just doesn't want to talk to me at all :( but I'll mail him and see what happens. Thank you

[LolWall]

Did he willingly do those stuff with you? Or was it forced?

[McAK101]

I don't get how he can just get up and walk away like that. Was what you two did mutual? Meaning did both of you want to do it?

[merlin1]

He wanted you to never contact him again? That's is messed up big time! If you want to try contact him again but if he wants to be like that, let him.

[Throwaway24]

Wait a few days then talk to him about it. He can't do that to u

[ksdnfkfr]

Sounds like the ball is in his court.
Give him some time and space.
Like one or two weeks, not one or two days.

[deregisterme]

Give him time, then talk or email him. It's easy to do things in the heat of the moment, and he may have regretted what happened. He may just need the time to understand what happened.

[volleyball172]

yeah that is not cool. give him some time to think stuff over and if you guys are great friends then he will get over it and if he has a problem he will hopefully discuss it with you.

[baejra]

Sounds like he regrets it and because you're openly bi he might think you want to do it again. If you reassure him that you just want to be friends and that he should try to let the whole thing go it might help you become friends again.

[Mastretta]

Fuck his dad or tell everyone ^_^ (Boss ass bitch plays in the background

[AbyssalLight7]

I doubt it'd be good for you to be friends with someone so judgmental but if you still do then wait a while and talk things out with him.

[wirelessbrain]

Oh. maybe your friend was a bit confused and a bit shocked on what's happened, and just want some time to think over his acts. give him some space because as he admits his not gay and when its the right time tell me that if you guys can forget everything from the past and be friends again? if this doesn't work then no use doing anything else

[thatboykevin]

just leave him alone for awhile and hell realize he was being dramatic

[ATOMICskittles]

No, he ain't going to do that stuff and be not at least straight-curious. And on top of it all, never to talk again. What I would do is go up to him and be like, "WTF" but you shouldn't so give him his stupid time and then talk to him. Take baby step conversations and then get into more complex ones.

[Catholic Guy]

If he said that then you should give him his space and he will either start regretting saying that or regret everything, just give him time and space and I'm sure he will come back around

[JIntrepid]

tough situation man. just give him some time. maybe you both will just move on, maybe it'll turn into something more. never kno

[From Chris]

so I my bestfriend came to my house, it got heated, and we ended up kissing, getting naked and jerking eachother off. I'm openly bisexual but he said to me " I'm not gay, I'm not bicurious and we should never talk again " what do I do here? :mad:

I think he's just ashamed of what happen to be honest. I would say to him that you guys should forget about it and keep going about your daily lives as normal! :)

-From Chris

[Col.Snoopy]

I think he's just ashamed of what happen to be honest. I would say to him that you guys should forget about it and keep going about your daily lives as normal! :)

-From Chris

Most likely, He probably just feels some shame or guilt and is embarrassed to see you again.

[NeuroTiger]

Maybe he need to have some time to 'digest' what had happened.

[Tony223]

He needs some time to think, maybe these actions were impulses and not actually off of thinking and now he needs some time to analyze what happened.

[Living For Love]

Just give him some time, he feels guilty and ashamed. Try to tell him it only happened once, and if he wants it won't happen again.

[JoeB93772]

it is alright u just got carried away

[PenzFan1234]

That sounds cool.

[mikemidas63]

If he is ending a friendship over a silly mistake then he is not a true friend... no matter how big the mistake. If you want to contact him, fair enough. But i don't see it being worth the effort.

[Coolguy2067]

That's terrible! Like others have said wait a couple days, he'll soon come around. He said that most likely because it was his first time doing stuff and him being in shock of the situation.

[loki2000]

yeah kinda weird.... id let him calm down for a little bit maybe

[irogers707]

Fuck his dad or tell everyone ^_^ (Boss ass bitch plays in the background

I'm gonna go with this!

[mattcallsu]

maybe your friend is in a bit of a shock. If i were you, i'd wait a few days and call him after that

[dtranger04]

just give him some time

[Were]

send him a message and tell him that your sorry,you just could not handle and found yourself doing it but you regret

[Were]

send him a message and tell him you're sorry,you could not handle and found yourself doing it and that you regret having done it

[Rowlo]

I think you should attempt to approach him without even acting like it all happened. Wing it and pretend nothing happened. See if he wants it to be like that, probably not the best thing. Yet if he's so judgemental maybe he's not worth it :s

[Iittleboy]

He's not a real friend.

[Dark Hatred]

Do not try to make up the next day, give it a week or so and then tell him you don't want to do anything else with him you just want to be friends.

[chezhans]

That's ridiculous…absolutely ridiculous! If he doesn't wanna talk to you over such a simple matter which he should've told you before it all started, just burn his bridge

[sdude]

I had a friend once pull that...he disappeared for a few weeks then came by like nothing had ever happened....I just let it go. He then wanted more sleepovers.

[Lotie]

Me and my friend were somewhat like that but he never said he won't talk to me again but he didn't answer for a few days but then said he's completely straight. Then a week later changed his mind and texted me saying he liked what we did and we did stuff multiple times since

[SoRandom]

that's just the boys defense mechanism, getting away to the situation. let's just wait and let him think,, but I believe the "friend" relationship you both have will be much stronger and lets hope things are going to get back to normal. :)

[Gifford]

so I my bestfriend came to my house, it got heated, and we ended up kissing, getting naked and jerking eachother off. I'm openly bisexual but he said to me " I'm not gay, I'm not bicurious and we should never talk again " what do I do here? :mad:

He feels guilty because he was just as much a party to what happened as you were. To assuage his guilt and as a defense mechanism, he has to blame you and make it your fault.

My guess is that in a few days, a week or so, he'll cool off. In a few days or so I'd call him and ask if he really meant what he said that you two should never talk again, because he really hurt you and it was a mean-spirited thing to say.

He's battling homophobia.

[Your Captain]

just talk to him about it after a few days

[Lyric]

Ignore him.