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Tylor lakon
November 5th, 2013, 02:25 AM
My friend who is a boy, recently came out and to me he was gay, he is acting a little strange. He now laughs at all my jokes, tells me my smile is great, when i go to his place he lounges in his underwear once or twice naked and the other weekend I had him over for the night and he slept naked in my sleeping bag ( I was nude to, but I put my trunks on about an hour before he woke up). What should i do.

ksdnfkfr
November 5th, 2013, 03:48 AM
What should i do.

That depends on how you feel about the situation.
Which is pretty ordinary between mates.

kylem1229
November 5th, 2013, 06:53 AM
If you feel uncomfortable about it, you have to tell him to stop.

oneDay
November 5th, 2013, 07:44 AM
He likes you... how cute. :) Don't feel threatened by him. He may like the attention because he trusts you. If he was able to come out to you and even get naked in front of you then you shouldn't be afraid to simply ask if he likes you. Whether he does or doesn't, just be his friend and decide where you want to draw the line, he'll understand. If you're not comfortable with his behavior just be honest and tell him what you feel.

Living For Love
November 5th, 2013, 12:52 PM
He likes you... how cute. :) Don't feel threatened by him. He may like the attention because he trusts you. If he was able to come out to you and even get naked in front of you then you shouldn't be afraid to simply ask if he likes you. Whether he does or doesn't, just be his friend and decide where you want to draw the line, he'll understand. If you're not comfortable with his behavior just be honest and tell him what you feel.

Exactly this. He trusts you a lot, so just ask him if he likes you more than a friend.

Tarannosaurus
November 5th, 2013, 01:25 PM
Maybe he just feels really close to you as a friend, it doesn't necessarily mean he has a crush on you. Maybe he feels really close to you because he trusted you with something this important. I wouldn't confront him directly, you might risk offending him (well not offend exactly I can't think of the word right now :P ). Trust me, it can be annoying when people get the wrong idea. You could subtly bring it up, like ask him if he likes anyone. Tread carefully, he might take an outright confrontation as a sign of you being uncomfortable around him or maybe as a sign of you being homophobic.
Of course honesty is the best policy, but if you really want an answer be sensitive in how you go about it. My personal opinion is that he hasn't acted in a way that definitely suggests that he has a crush on you.