I don't know

[tristian0714]

I'm pretty sure that I'm gay. I want to come out to my really close friends, I'm pretty sure they already expect that I'm gay. Also I have this really weird phobia about me entering someone or someone went entering me, I don't know why it just scared me. But every time that I bring myself to it I automatically retract the idea from my mind. I guess that's because I'm afraid that maybe I'll be judged or one day reconsider my sexuality completely. Or possibly somehow my mom will find out and disown me. I don't know what to do at all. I am hoping that maybe someone who has experienced something similar can give me advice or just tell me how they got through it.

[Luminous]

It sounds to me like you're not sure if you're really gay or not. Word of advice: Don't come out if you're not 110% positive.

[Blood]

If you're not %100 sure about your sexuality, you probably shouldn't come out. You're still young, give yourself time to figure out what you do and don't like, and when you're completely sure, come out. Take it slow, there's no rush at all. :)

[Azalez070]

Yeah, i really think you should see how it goes with girls first, but yeah you are young, so i don't thinkg is a good idea just to think you are something if you're not sure...
Girls make us feel bad sometimes but there's always a special person for us

[martogogo]

I'm pretty sure that I'm gay.


it's ok :)

[McAK101]

As said above, do not come out until you are 110% sure that you are gay. And when you are, go to a close friend. Who cares if you think they already know? It might make it that much easier.

[Tarannosaurus]

Coming out to one or two really close friends that you can trust might be a good idea. That's what I did when I still wasn't fully sure.

[ksdnfkfr]

Idk how old you are but if you are around 14
give it a couple more years. I'm planning on
waiting until I'm all moved out on my own
in college where it will be an all different
playing field that I will be more in charge of.

[NeuroTiger]

Certainly such a crucial choice will be better made with maturity.
Maybe as you grow older, with the hormones being within much control, you may find yourself end up being like the norm.(heterosexual!)
Explore yourself more. Read more on males and females behaviors,etc.
It can surely help to make a better decision.
(Porn movies are NOT the solution)

[sqishy]

If you're not %100 sure about your sexuality, you probably shouldn't come out. You're still young, give yourself time to figure out what you do and don't like, and when you're completely sure, come out. Take it slow, there's no rush at all. :)

This ^ s good advice.

[Connor.]

In my opinion, unless you are completely sure that you are gay, and that you can live with people judging you, then you should come out. But if any of these criteria cannot be met, then I would suggest that you hold it off for a few more years until you are 100% certain.

[Alex_3869]

If you are not sure, then don't tell anyone. If you are comfortable with it and ready then you can come out.