Complicated Friendships

[AbyssalLight7]

This involves several friends all call= T, R, M, and B
I thought I was strait, but I'm starting to think I'm more bi, anyway I have a girlfriend (R), she's my first girlfriend, it's a long distance relationship (we only get to see each other like once a year), and I am completely loyal to her. Only there's this array of odd things that I don't know what to do about. There's a girl (M) I've liked since before I ever got with R, I'm loyal to R and wouldn't do anything with M but I can't help but have feelings for her, then there's a guy (B) I'm friends with who in a dream gave me a forced blowjob, it was a disturbing dream, and like an idiot I told B about it, now B has a huge crush on M, we 3 (me, M, and B) hang out a lot in school but I'm closer friends w/ M than B is and he's jealous of me, he even had a dream I got w/ M and he beat me up in said dream, plainly stated he's jealous of me and M even though I remain loyal to R, I can't help but like M but he doesn't know that and even not knowing, still jealous, then there's this other male friend (T) who's like my second closest male friend and I realized I'm mildly attracted to him. So I am completely loyal to R but have feelings for M and T plus there was the odd dream about B, B is jealous of me and M even though I've done nothing w/ M. I wish I could just turn my feelings off towards M and T but I can't, what can I do to about those feelings and what can I do to make B not jealous, the only solution I can see is to stop hanging out/ end my friendships with T, M, and probably B but that's something I'm not willing to do

[Living For Love]

You're in a relationship with a girl you only see once a year!? Sorry, but I don't think that's a real relationship... First, you need to find out if M likes you or not. Forget about the dream with B and back off from him for a while, he's not being a good friend to you at the moment. If M also likes you, I'd suggest you go for it, if not, turn yourself to T, although you need to find if he's willing to start a relationship with you. About R, I guess you need to tell her your relationship with her doesn't really work, because it's a LDR and you only see eacother once a year...

[schoolgirlz]

Just chose one I a continue on with your life and forget about the dream and seeing eachother once a year doesnt let the relation grow so make your decision. :) :) :) :) :)

[AbyssalLight7]

You're in a relationship with a girl you only see once a year!? Sorry, but I don't think that's a real relationship... First, you need to find out if M likes you or not. Forget about the dream with B and back off from him for a while, he's not being a good friend to you at the moment. If M also likes you, I'd suggest you go for it, if not, turn yourself to T, although you need to find if he's willing to start a relationship with you. About R, I guess you need to tell her your relationship with her doesn't really work, because it's a LDR and you only see eacother once a year...

I'm not gonna drop my relationship w/ R just cause it's long distance, I've picked her, end of story, T is a strait male, and M ya I'm attracted to her but I'm not gonna ask here out while I'm w/ someone and a close-ish friend likes her, I just wanna know if there's a way to make B stop being jealous and is there a way to push the feeling for the others aside :confused:

[Living For Love]

I'm not gonna drop my relationship w/ R just cause it's long distance, I've picked her, end of story, T is a strait male, and M ya I'm attracted to her but I'm not gonna ask here out while I'm w/ someone and a close-ish friend likes her, I just wanna know if there's a way to make B stop being jealous and is there a way to push the feeling for the others aside :confused:

Alright, sorry if I seemed too rude. If you really love R, then just stick with her, and do not cheat on her. Consider T as a good friend only, if he's straight then you won't have a relationship with him. I guess you just need to have a talk with B, tell him he can date M and stay with her, perhaps that will really help because, if you know they're together, than you'll even lose more the desires you have for her, and then you can really focus on R, the girl you picked and the one you really love.

[AbyssalLight7]

Alright, sorry if I seemed too rude. If you really love R, then just stick with her, and do not cheat on her. Consider T as a good friend only, if he's straight then you won't have a relationship with him. I guess you just need to have a talk with B, tell him he can date M and stay with her, perhaps that will really help because, if you know they're together, than you'll even lose more the desires you have for her, and then you can really focus on R, the girl you picked and the one you really love.

I already told B that I fully support them but he's to chicken to ask and is jealous despite that, I don't think I can do anything else except repeat my past assurances to him and support him so he calms down, thanks anyway