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tmack1908
November 4th, 2013, 12:35 AM
Hello!

I need your opinions about a situation I'm in right now. Here's the story: there is this girl that I started texting a couple months ago, we hung out once in the summer and I tried to set up another time to get together before I left for a month to visit family in Scotland but we couldn't find a time that fit both of our schedules. So anyways, I Facebook messaged her a couple times when I was in Scotland and was getting the impression that she didn't want to talk so I backed off and didn't talk to her for a while. Then a week after I got back home from My trip I get a snapchat from her saying something (I forget what it was) then another one right after saying "oops! Didn't mean to send that to you!". So I didn't think anything about this and figured it was likely just an accident and I carried on. Then a week or so later, the same thing happens again! She sent another snapchat followed by one saying that she sent it to me by accident (or something along those lines). So this time I replied and we had a little bit of a snapchat convo. Then the next day I texted her and got the same impression that she didn't want to talk, so once again, I backed off and didn't talk to her for a while. Then once school started again, the same snapchat thing happened where she "accidentally" sent me a picture and we snapchatted back and forth for a couple hours. I didn't text her afterwards this time cause I figured if she wanted to talk to me she would.

Then this Wednesday, the SAME snapchat this happened again!! So we snapchatted for a bit then I texted her a couple days later (last night) and was kind of getting the feeling that she wanted to talk but not as much as other times. Anyway, she said she was going to bed and I said goodnight and that was the end of the conversation. But then I went on Instagram an hour later and saw that she had just posted a picture an hour after she said she was going to bed. So that made me think that she just didn't want to talk to me and said she was going to sleep just to end the conversation :/

I don't know what to think of this situation! I kind of like her but I don't know if she likes me back. I could see the snapchat picture being sent once accidentally but 4 times seems a bit strange to me and makes me think she may like me. But then when we text and I get the impression that she doesn't want to talk and along with what happened last night, I feel that she doesn't like me.

What do you people think about this? Do you think she likes me? Are the snapchats are just accidents? Should I back off? Any help is greatly appreciated!

Duke96
November 4th, 2013, 01:31 AM
It sounds like she's just talking to you whenever SHE is bored, and isn't really interested in you. It would be one thing if she was playing hard to get, but this is beyond that. She just figures you'll pay attention to her long enough until she gets her fill and then she drops you and finds something else to do.

Stay away!

satarra3180
November 4th, 2013, 01:56 AM
We can be fickle creatures...what kind of vibe are you getting that makes you think she does not want to talk when you text?...Like what is an example of something that gave you that impression?

WALLE
November 4th, 2013, 02:46 AM
It sounds like she's just talking to you whenever SHE is bored, and isn't really interested in you. It would be one thing if she was playing hard to get, but this is beyond that. She just figures you'll pay attention to her long enough until she gets her fill and then she drops you and finds something else to do.

Stay away!

i absolutely agree with you. stay away from her!

Harley Quinn
November 4th, 2013, 08:35 AM
P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

highschool
November 4th, 2013, 04:27 PM
No offense but I don't think she likes you. If she liked you she would be extremely interested in always talking to you. I feel like she only talks to you when she's bored, she's made you into a second option. Just forget about her

Derryck
November 4th, 2013, 04:30 PM
Ask her if she doesn't want to talk to you. You shouldn't have to put up with signals you don't understand.

badthoughts
November 4th, 2013, 05:25 PM
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